Everything is fine ☹️

[Chandralekha]

5 hours ago, Michaelbarbosa said:

Solution is not a divorce. The guy needs to acknowledge for what his wife is doing to him. Treat her the way he wants to be treated. 

Tweet cheyse cheppdam leynde  Barbosa garu ... 

[Chandralekha]

5 hours ago, WigsandThighs said:

Wtf do we care 

Cause u should .... man is a social animal 

[Chandralekha]

5 hours ago, perugu_vada said:

Laagi bhairi thengi ivvara maaykede ani laakkovali, it doesnt really matter if she is earning r not, whenu are married u share everything

Assuming watever u said is completely true, i guess papam ah ammayi might be soft natured,  mogudu gradual ga started to show his superiority on her n now it came to this point  

Yep !! Ammayee was brought up in a such a way  if other person hurts you .. u have to excuse them ... never ever hurt them ( cause I know her personality, work dagara kuda thana medha pani estunnaru thanuu bakra avvutundee anna .. poniley walla karma ki wallu potharuu Anta ) I believe wen she get  her financial independence all things will fall into place 

[AlaElaAlaEla]

Just now, Chandralekha said:

Yep !! Ammayee was brought up in a such a way  if other person hurts you .. u have to excuse them ... never ever hurt them ( cause I know her personality, work dagara kuda thana medha pani estunnaru thanuu bakra avvutundee anna .. poniley walla karma ki wallu potharuu Anta ) I believe wen she get  her financial independence all things will fall into place 

hi chandu 

[Chandralekha]

5 hours ago, Michaelbarbosa said:

What do you mean by drama queen ? 

Evening dinner ki wellali Friday evening 5 ki ala intiloo unduu antey Office lo frds tho bhaatakanni kodthu late ya ostey untadhee natho world war 4 , Eeroju cinema ki weldam aney plan chestey wellallasindey, evvaro telesina frds tho double date night antey naaku whalluu anthaga teledhuu, antey nee frds me matram ney entertain cheyallaee maree na frds tho mingle avvavva alantivee 

[Chandralekha]

5 hours ago, uttermost said:

The salvation is only when you live free of rules and regulations, and trust your judgement and instincts in everything, provided it doesn't come at the expense of someone else's dignity or autonomy.

don't make your spouse/family your entire universe.

never abandon your friends, after you marry or have your fling.

forget parents. they are hopelessly tied into the system and can't/won't help.

Words of wisdom 🙌🙌

[Chandralekha]

5 hours ago, TechAdvice said:

nevi chepindi nejam kavochu.. In this generation no wife is taking beating any more from their hubbie.. if she is not happy abt it , she needs to step up. 

Mee advice kids leynee couple ki workout avvachu .. but not in her case 

[Chandralekha]

4 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

Entole ee db lo ne choostham aadavallani modatnunchi control lo pettali lekapothe rechipotharu ani maname control cheyyali antu. Okka vishayam marchipotharu meeku 60 70 years vachaka mee venaka undedhi not your kids not your parents not your friends. Only your wife will really be there with you 24/7. Aa satyam maa grandparents ni choosaka telisindi. Okallu poyaka inkokallu baadha tattukoleka kaalam chellincharu.Valla life lo evarni evaru control lo pettaru ane thoughts e levu. I remember my grandmother scolding my granddad many times and vice versa.

Totally agree abt ur views on marriage ... salute ur grandparents!!! We certainly need to learn from those kind of couple 

[Chandralekha]

4 hours ago, uttermost said:

that's what I question, why are you writing this here? why not in Indus ladies forum?

I can name atleast a dozen ids here who can potentially be that husband, right now or in the future.

do you even read the sh1t that gets written here?

sisterhood alliances are better than suffering through misogynist pricks in here. pls don't post such stuff here. guys don't understand or can never see from the pov of women.

Part of it is true , but can’t generalize ! not all men are the same ( u r here answering this $hit ) Im here just to get some suggestions from masculine brains !! 

[samaja_varagamana]

Endi nu ammai va 

[Chandralekha]

4 hours ago, uttermost said:

some part of the blame is on consumerist culture too. people expect more from everything, than they can give back.

everybody wants to become a billionaire. i.e. a lifestyle where you can pretend that your ability to buy stuff is actually contributing back to the place from where you take.

as for your friend, no one can help her. you can, if you consider her a friend. looks like you look down on her. poor woman. Hope she makes better friends.

I really want to be her 3 am friend  !

I always advise her - be financially independent , it’s very very important! that gives you confidence !! Let’s see what future is holding for her !! 😊

[Chandralekha]

11 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

Endi nu ammai va 

Arey , ninnu allagey address cheyalsi ostunde maree nee maturity levels antha lowest low loo unnai maree 

ikkada intha jarugutuntey , neeku neynu adda ? Magha? anney dhannemedha nee focus ente ra , peanut brain anee uurikey annaleydhu mimalnee @MagaMaharaju

[Babunuvbtechah]

8 hours ago, Chandralekha said:

 

Oh $hittt!!!! This msg is so strong , it really gave me chills 

 

8 hours ago, Chandralekha said:

 

 

[Babunuvbtechah]

7 hours ago, Chandralekha said:

oka colleague walla husband controls her in everything , I mean ee ammma salary motham kuda ayyagari account lo yestadee, ponee do u access to that account antey , 2 years nunchi work chestunde evvoo 2 CC matramey unnayee emma dagirra, asal comedy ente antey she doesn’t even know how much her hubby earns , Adhemm comedy talli Antey financial vishyalluu addavallaki enduku anta , evvada garu petrol ⛽️ kottichinna ayina garu mallee chetta questions , ekkada tirigutunnav annee sarluu enduku car lo petrol, lunch ki bayataki welthey gola , oo roju lunch ki wellam so evvarido colleague birthday, she said I got it anee thanu pat chesindee, then that idiot had a fight with her evvadi tho poyyinav lunch ki , aaadu male $tripper a aadiki lunch sponsoring ki ( I came to know abt this wen she asked me how to open a account and don’t let her hubby know ) 🙁 , ponee intii panii help aa antey chillara ga idli loki chutney cheyyaleydhu, sink lo dishes allagey annayee aneey chetta golla anta, pillalluu unnaru enduku ley chillara watikii gola anee tanneeyy annee sarduku pothundee... few days back her birthday , I asked wat did u do , she is like “ na bonda oo wish kuda leydhu na mogudee dagara nunche “ she shouldn’t be on social media , fb lo account undee anee danikee oo gola 

Ok , how does she look like ?? Subjective question, but women who are often depressed ( late stages of depression) lo unna walluu they act normal and smile often but deep inside they are dying , if she looks overweight or anorexia she might be suffering from depression, they can be a emotional eater or not eat at all . 

Talk out to her to workout and eat healthy , may sound silly but gradually if she improve the way she looks she may have hope in life and regain confidence ( I bet  she is all crippled) . Exercise keeps her cortisol levels in check ( ask her to make her health a priority just for the kids )Make her open s seperate bank account , ente mallee walla husband matladdadda? Maney manuu ? Ippudu ochina nastham eamee Leydhu . Ask her to be firm on her decision , don’t give up !! 

[Babunuvbtechah]

30 minutes ago, Chandralekha said:

Arey , ninnu allagey address cheyalsi ostunde maree nee maturity levels antha lowest low loo unnai maree 

ikkada intha jarugutuntey , neeku neynu adda ? Magha? anney dhannemedha nee focus ente ra , peanut brain anee uurikey annaleydhu mimalnee @MagaMaharaju

Lol