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10 hours ago, maddhy said:

Story: boy liked girl , but her mother is very arrogant and try’s to control eveyone / everything ... what to interfere in the relationship in all aspects...if not she will abuse ... is it good idea to get into the relationship?

need suggestions? 

Arranged marriages lo Mother in law konchem gayyali .. ani telisthe mundhu mee parents e voddhu ankuntaru.. magadentha gattodayina pellam mundhu thuss....

Parents chala alochisthuntaru .. endhukante valla only intention nuvvu vallaki dhuram kakudadhani..

inka love marriages lo em alochinchakudadhu.. Ammai  ni nuvu, ninnu ammai baga ardham cheskunnake pelli cheskovali ankuntaru.. apudu kuda ammai father manchodu kadhu.. mother gayyalidhi lantivi chuskokudadhu. 

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Rule1: check ur fil status if he is henpecked then thats a red flag - u can imagine ur future going down the ...

Rule 2: Becarefull when getting married into a big joint family with (menarikam) - belive me it wont be like brahmitsavam or families in srinu vaitla movies - it doesnt take long enough to realise ur in hell

Rule 3 : **** most important - never ever just go by beauty,looks and appeal - u never know what baggage u need to carry along with the beauty

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2 hours ago, nizambadnarsingyadav said:

Rule1: check ur fil status if he is henpecked then thats a red flag - u can imagine ur future going down the ...

Rule 2: Becarefull when getting married into a big joint family with (menarikam) - belive me it wont be like brahmitsavam or families in srinu vaitla movies - it doesnt take long enough to realise ur in hell

Rule 3 : **** most important - never ever just go by beauty,looks and appeal - u never know what baggage u need to carry along with the beauty

all in one oke package kindha vasthe vadi jevitham em avali 

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4 hours ago, HugoStrange said:

maa vadu baga silent, ekkuva matladadu. Central Govt Job. Vere Match vachi almost settle ayindi. Inka repu velli confirm cheddam anukunnaru kuda. Appudu digadu aa ammayi valla father. Vella relative ni thisukochadu. Valladi velladi pakka pakka villages. Vellu eppudo tirupathi lo settle ayyaru. Maa ammayi undi, meru vere sambandam chesukunte ela ani athi chesi mari aa rojuku aa roje velli pelli chupulu arrange chesaru. 

Vellaku ammayi nachindi. confirm cheyamani sodi chesi confirm chepinchadu valla father. Vediki first match better emo ani feel ayyi intlo chepthe, ela telisina valla ammayi ayithe better kada ani oppincharu. 

pelliki mundu generally girls family vella intiki vasthundi, but ammayi valla amma raledu. Pelli ayyaka direct ga vacharu from kalyanamandapam. vella illu bagaledu ani godava start chesindi. Vere vere city lo govt quaters lo untadu. And not sure valla intiki nenu couple of times vella. baguntundi valla illu. Its an apartment. 

First night jaraganivaledu. silly vishyalu cheppi godava chesedi. Like ammayini intiki vasthe kurcho mani cheppaledu anta vedi mother. Pelli ayyaka adi aa ammayi illu avuthundi kada, inka kurcho mani kuda cheppali ga. 

honeymoon ki thisukelthe set avauthundi ani maa vadu appatikappudu book chesi deggarlo unde resort lo (less than 200 kms). Car kuda book chesadu. Vellu car endiku book chesav, madi undi kada driver kuda maa vade kada ani chepparu. Sare kada ani maa vadu valla car lo veldam, malli godava enduku anukunnadu. Car ekke time varaku maa vadiki teliyadu. Ammayi valla parents kuda vasthunnaru ani. 

Akkadiki vellaka aa ammayiki date vachindi ani cheppi, first night jaraganivaledu. Return vachaka inko godava chesindi ammayi valla amma. Vedu vadu work chese city lo apartment thisukuni family pettali ani. Enduku govt quaters bagane undi kada, furniture konta ante vinaledu. Sare le thisukunta ante, mee parents rakudadu ani condition anta. Vediki inka mandindi, ayithe meru kuda rakudadu annadu. 

Full godavalu, Gruha himsa chattam lo case and vediki vishayam ledu ani case. malli valla thammudini kuda pettaru case lo. Valla thammudu Delhi lo untadu. Pelli ki vachi velladu anthe. Peddala deggara panchayathi petti 50L demand chesaru for divorce. Vellu memu 15 kante ekkuva evalemu. Memu emi thisukoledu ani chepparu. 20l ki settle ayindi

Last ki twist enti ante, eppudu aa ammayi nenu vasthanu try cheddam ani cheppindi. Vedu emo, ee sari vachi thanaku thane edo chesukuni naa meda case pedithe ela ani no chepthunnadu

very bad....evvi ekada chepatledhu ....last 2 months nunchi  India lo wives killing husband alot . 

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3 hours ago, nizambadnarsingyadav said:

Rule1: check ur fil status if he is henpecked then thats a red flag - u can imagine ur future going down the ...

Rule 2: Becarefull when getting married into a big joint family with (menarikam) - belive me it wont be like brahmitsavam or families in srinu vaitla movies - it doesnt take long enough to realise ur in hell

Rule 3 : **** most important - never ever just go by beauty,looks and appeal - u never know what baggage u need to carry along with the beauty

inni rules chadivaka ..evadina pelli cheskuntada assalu

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5 hours ago, HugoStrange said:

maa vadu baga silent, ekkuva matladadu. Central Govt Job. Vere Match vachi almost settle ayindi. Inka repu velli confirm cheddam anukunnaru kuda. Appudu digadu aa ammayi valla father. Vella relative ni thisukochadu. Valladi velladi pakka pakka villages. Vellu eppudo tirupathi lo settle ayyaru. Maa ammayi undi, meru vere sambandam chesukunte ela ani athi chesi mari aa rojuku aa roje velli pelli chupulu arrange chesaru. 

Vellaku ammayi nachindi. confirm cheyamani sodi chesi confirm chepinchadu valla father. Vediki first match better emo ani feel ayyi intlo chepthe, ela telisina valla ammayi ayithe better kada ani oppincharu. 

pelliki mundu generally girls family vella intiki vasthundi, but ammayi valla amma raledu. Pelli ayyaka direct ga vacharu from kalyanamandapam. vella illu bagaledu ani godava start chesindi. Vere vere city lo govt quaters lo untadu. And not sure valla intiki nenu couple of times vella. baguntundi valla illu. Its an apartment. 

First night jaraganivaledu. silly vishyalu cheppi godava chesedi. Like ammayini intiki vasthe kurcho mani cheppaledu anta vedi mother. Pelli ayyaka adi aa ammayi illu avuthundi kada, inka kurcho mani kuda cheppali ga. 

honeymoon ki thisukelthe set avauthundi ani maa vadu appatikappudu book chesi deggarlo unde resort lo (less than 200 kms). Car kuda book chesadu. Vellu car endiku book chesav, madi undi kada driver kuda maa vade kada ani chepparu. Sare kada ani maa vadu valla car lo veldam, malli godava enduku anukunnadu. Car ekke time varaku maa vadiki teliyadu. Ammayi valla parents kuda vasthunnaru ani. 

Akkadiki vellaka aa ammayiki date vachindi ani cheppi, first night jaraganivaledu. Return vachaka inko godava chesindi ammayi valla amma. Vedu vadu work chese city lo apartment thisukuni family pettali ani. Enduku govt quaters bagane undi kada, furniture konta ante vinaledu. Sare le thisukunta ante, mee parents rakudadu ani condition anta. Vediki inka mandindi, ayithe meru kuda rakudadu annadu. 

Full godavalu, Gruha himsa chattam lo case and vediki vishayam ledu ani case. malli valla thammudini kuda pettaru case lo. Valla thammudu Delhi lo untadu. Pelli ki vachi velladu anthe. Peddala deggara panchayathi petti 50L demand chesaru for divorce. Vellu memu 15 kante ekkuva evalemu. Memu emi thisukoledu ani chepparu. 20l ki settle ayindi

Last ki twist enti ante, eppudu aa ammayi nenu vasthanu try cheddam ani cheppindi. Vedu emo, ee sari vachi thanaku thane edo chesukuni naa meda case pedithe ela ani no chepthunnadu

Bhayya present generation some ammailu have no sense they are doing with love of their parents like this witch mother 

Many people are facing same problem

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