Atta gurinchi mogudiki complaint cheyocha leda....

[Spartan]

I have some issues with MIL. We all live together. MIL is a liar, manipulative and two facing.She will talk sweetly to me and say no , you don't need to do this work,you go to office, i will do it later, you don't worry. and then later complain to my mom or anyone else that i didn't do this work. She will blatantly lie about me to FIL and mail and relatives about other petty things. She can't wear saree, she can't even cook. She doesn't wear bangles, we gave her gold, she doesn't wear it. Blah blah blah. I have a side on all this too, i have my reasons.
Many a times, DH will ask why are you upset about MIL ?? Why are you so quiet, what happened? I don't feel like burdening him with all this in-law drama. But at the same time, i feel if i don't tell him - who else will i share all this with?

I wanted your opinion on whether we should complain or even share things about MIL to DH or not. What are the pros and cons of it?
IMO, On one hand, complaining about MIL will make me a villain that i can't adjust with his angel mom. According to him, she takes care of the house and everything, doesn't burden me with responsibility, she is so kind hearted and i still complain about her. On the other hand, hearing only MIL's version will leave DH with a one sided view on things, and obviously MIL will only share her side, not mine. That will anyway prove me to be the villian.

[solman]

[dasara_bullodu]

Bharinche vadu bharta annaru peddalu

[Spartan]

2 minutes ago, solman said:

TSLA short chesko 340 ki...

RKDA short chesava leda...

[Pitta]

[solman]

1 minute ago, Spartan said:

TSLA short chesko 340 ki...

RKDA short chesava leda...

RKDA name first time vintunna nenu.... 

[Spartan]

Just now, solman said:

RKDA name first time vintunna nenu.... 

chudu oka sari

[TrumpCare]

4 minutes ago, Spartan said:

I have some issues with MIL. We all live together. MIL is a liar, manipulative and two facing.She will talk sweetly to me and say no , you don't need to do this work,you go to office, i will do it later, you don't worry. and then later complain to my mom or anyone else that i didn't do this work. She will blatantly lie about me to FIL and mail and relatives about other petty things. She can't wear saree, she can't even cook. She doesn't wear bangles, we gave her gold, she doesn't wear it. Blah blah blah. I have a side on all this too, i have my reasons.
Many a times, DH will ask why are you upset about MIL ?? Why are you so quiet, what happened? I don't feel like burdening him with all this in-law drama. But at the same time, i feel if i don't tell him - who else will i share all this with?

I wanted your opinion on whether we should complain or even share things about MIL to DH or not. What are the pros and cons of it?
IMO, On one hand, complaining about MIL will make me a villain that i can't adjust with his angel mom. According to him, she takes care of the house and everything, doesn't burden me with responsibility, she is so kind hearted and i still complain about her. On the other hand, hearing only MIL's version will leave DH with a one sided view on things, and obviously MIL will only share her side, not mine. That will anyway prove me to be the villian.

avasaraalaku darulu tokku patralu tappa herolu villianlu leru ee natakam lo...just fcuk with DH and njoy ur life 

[Quickgun_murugan]

8 minutes ago, Spartan said:

I have some issues with MIL. We all live together. MIL is a liar, manipulative and two facing.She will talk sweetly to me and say no , you don't need to do this work,you go to office, i will do it later, you don't worry. and then later complain to my mom or anyone else that i didn't do this work. She will blatantly lie about me to FIL and mail and relatives about other petty things. She can't wear saree, she can't even cook. She doesn't wear bangles, we gave her gold, she doesn't wear it. Blah blah blah. I have a side on all this too, i have my reasons.
Many a times, DH will ask why are you upset about MIL ?? Why are you so quiet, what happened? I don't feel like burdening him with all this in-law drama. But at the same time, i feel if i don't tell him - who else will i share all this with?

I wanted your opinion on whether we should complain or even share things about MIL to DH or not. What are the pros and cons of it?
IMO, On one hand, complaining about MIL will make me a villain that i can't adjust with his angel mom. According to him, she takes care of the house and everything, doesn't burden me with responsibility, she is so kind hearted and i still complain about her. On the other hand, hearing only MIL's version will leave DH with a one sided view on things, and obviously MIL will only share her side, not mine. That will anyway prove me to be the villian.

Iyyala repu technology ochaka anni easy aynay... 

ask her to record what happens between her and MIL... and when MIL says otherwise ..show that to people if she has that insecurity feeling that others might think she is a villain...

 

[solman]

3 minutes ago, Spartan said:

chudu oka sari

endhi adhi ee roju antha pergindhi...

[Spartan]

1 minute ago, solman said:

endhi adhi ee roju antha pergindhi...

edo wheat program lo met goals..

[Diana]

She can deal MIL on her own, I guess..

[solman]

1 minute ago, Spartan said:

edo wheat program lo met goals..

ok...nenu only konni stocks trade chesta...

[Pumpuhaar]

[sattipandu]

19 minutes ago, Spartan said:

I have some issues with MIL. We all live together. MIL is a liar, manipulative and two facing.She will talk sweetly to me and say no , you don't need to do this work,you go to office, i will do it later, you don't worry. and then later complain to my mom or anyone else that i didn't do this work. She will blatantly lie about me to FIL and mail and relatives about other petty things. She can't wear saree, she can't even cook. She doesn't wear bangles, we gave her gold, she doesn't wear it. Blah blah blah. I have a side on all this too, i have my reasons.
Many a times, DH will ask why are you upset about MIL ?? Why are you so quiet, what happened? I don't feel like burdening him with all this in-law drama. But at the same time, i feel if i don't tell him - who else will i share all this with?

I wanted your opinion on whether we should complain or even share things about MIL to DH or not. What are the pros and cons of it?
IMO, On one hand, complaining about MIL will make me a villain that i can't adjust with his angel mom. According to him, she takes care of the house and everything, doesn't burden me with responsibility, she is so kind hearted and i still complain about her. On the other hand, hearing only MIL's version will leave DH with a one sided view on things, and obviously MIL will only share her side, not mine. That will anyway prove me to be the villian.

em time pass kakak IL group devulaaduthunnava??