nearachakam Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 What is something you want to "get off your chest"? Anonymous Answered Mar 18 I’m 25. Female. Married for 2 years. My husband is still a stranger. I’m still a virgin. I completed my graduation & got married to a guy of my parents’ choice. Before our marriage, he seemed like a shy guy. My parents said it’s good that he’s valued & conservative. He knows his boundaries with girls, & respect customs & elders. We got married & he still behaved the same with me. He’s nice to me in front our family. But alone in our bedroom, he doesn’t even acknowledge my existence. I kept thinking may be he’s still shy. I tried tiny gestures like cooking his favourite dishes, he ate them but never said anything. I tried holding his hand but he brushed it away. I went from phases of thinking I’m not attractive enough for him, I did something to upset him, he doesn’t like sex, he is impotent, and what not. After a lot of time I realized that my husband is gay. One day I gathered the courage to ask him if he is. He smiled at me & said ‘Now you know. So stop trying now.’ I don’t know what to do. I begged my husband to at least stay as friends, but he wants nothing to do with me. He just wants the tag of a husband & a girl to care for his parents. I think his parents have a doubt about his sexuality, yet they got him married. I once hinted my mother-in-law about it, but she said if I’m woman enough to attract him, the problem will be solved. I once told my mother about it & said I want to get a divorce, but she started crying. She said my father is a heart patient, something like this will kill him. And that she will have to face humiliation in the society at such old age rather than being able to live with peace & respect. My mother-in-law even said that I’m a disgusting woman who is just obsessed with sex. But am I wrong to want emotional & physical intimacy? Both our mothers keep telling me to just have a child, and everything will be fine then. It has been 2 years, so the relatives & neighbors think I must have medical issues. This allegation infuriates both the families even more because our image is being spoiled, and the pressure on me keeps on increasing. But how do I have a child if my husband doesn’t even look at me? I’m alone. With no family, friends, child or companion. PS : Im not very good in English. Thanks for my Indian sister on Quora[I’m not Indian] for correcting my language mistakes. Quote
hello987 Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 2 minutes ago, nearachakam said: What is something you want to "get off your chest"? Anonymous Answered Mar 18 I’m 25. Female. Married for 2 years. My husband is still a stranger. I’m still a virgin. I completed my graduation & got married to a guy of my parents’ choice. Before our marriage, he seemed like a shy guy. My parents said it’s good that he’s valued & conservative. He knows his boundaries with girls, & respect customs & elders. We got married & he still behaved the same with me. He’s nice to me in front our family. But alone in our bedroom, he doesn’t even acknowledge my existence. I kept thinking may be he’s still shy. I tried tiny gestures like cooking his favourite dishes, he ate them but never said anything. I tried holding his hand but he brushed it away. I went from phases of thinking I’m not attractive enough for him, I did something to upset him, he doesn’t like sex, he is impotent, and what not. After a lot of time I realized that my husband is gay. One day I gathered the courage to ask him if he is. He smiled at me & said ‘Now you know. So stop trying now.’ I don’t know what to do. I begged my husband to at least stay as friends, but he wants nothing to do with me. He just wants the tag of a husband & a girl to care for his parents. I think his parents have a doubt about his sexuality, yet they got him married. I once hinted my mother-in-law about it, but she said if I’m woman enough to attract him, the problem will be solved. I once told my mother about it & said I want to get a divorce, but she started crying. She said my father is a heart patient, something like this will kill him. And that she will have to face humiliation in the society at such old age rather than being able to live with peace & respect. My mother-in-law even said that I’m a disgusting woman who is just obsessed with sex. But am I wrong to want emotional & physical intimacy? Both our mothers keep telling me to just have a child, and everything will be fine then. It has been 2 years, so the relatives & neighbors think I must have medical issues. This allegation infuriates both the families even more because our image is being spoiled, and the pressure on me keeps on increasing. But how do I have a child if my husband doesn’t even look at me? I’m alone. With no family, friends, child or companion. PS : Im not very good in English. Thanks for my Indian sister on Quora[I’m not Indian] for correcting my language mistakes. Fake Quote
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Quickgun_murugan Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 1 hour ago, nearachakam said: What is something you want to "get off your chest"? Anonymous Answered Mar 18 I’m 25. Female. Married for 2 years. My husband is still a stranger. I’m still a virgin. I completed my graduation & got married to a guy of my parents’ choice. Before our marriage, he seemed like a shy guy. My parents said it’s good that he’s valued & conservative. He knows his boundaries with girls, & respect customs & elders. We got married & he still behaved the same with me. He’s nice to me in front our family. But alone in our bedroom, he doesn’t even acknowledge my existence. I kept thinking may be he’s still shy. I tried tiny gestures like cooking his favourite dishes, he ate them but never said anything. I tried holding his hand but he brushed it away. I went from phases of thinking I’m not attractive enough for him, I did something to upset him, he doesn’t like sex, he is impotent, and what not. After a lot of time I realized that my husband is gay. One day I gathered the courage to ask him if he is. He smiled at me & said ‘Now you know. So stop trying now.’ I don’t know what to do. I begged my husband to at least stay as friends, but he wants nothing to do with me. He just wants the tag of a husband & a girl to care for his parents. I think his parents have a doubt about his sexuality, yet they got him married. I once hinted my mother-in-law about it, but she said if I’m woman enough to attract him, the problem will be solved. I once told my mother about it & said I want to get a divorce, but she started crying. She said my father is a heart patient, something like this will kill him. And that she will have to face humiliation in the society at such old age rather than being able to live with peace & respect. My mother-in-law even said that I’m a disgusting woman who is just obsessed with sex. But am I wrong to want emotional & physical intimacy? Both our mothers keep telling me to just have a child, and everything will be fine then. It has been 2 years, so the relatives & neighbors think I must have medical issues. This allegation infuriates both the families even more because our image is being spoiled, and the pressure on me keeps on increasing. But how do I have a child if my husband doesn’t even look at me? I’m alone. With no family, friends, child or companion. PS : Im not very good in English. Thanks for my Indian sister on Quora[I’m not Indian] for correcting my language mistakes. valla address isthey child kosam evaraina help chestaru... or she can go that IVF methods for kids... Quote
Quickgun_murugan Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 http://waynedailynews.com/abc_health/couple-who-had-7-kids-through-ivf-gives-advice-to-others-abcid36054041/ Quote
Quickgun_murugan Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 బట్టల్లేకుండా యోగా బాగా చేస్తా బాలీవుడ్ బ్యూటీల్లో యోగాకు పెట్టింది పేరు శిల్పాషెట్టి. ఇప్పటికే ఆమె దీనిపై కొన్ని డీవీడీలు కూడా రిలీజ్ చేసింది. వయసు పెరిగినప్పటికీ, పెళ్లయి పిల్లలున్నప్పటికీ తన గ్లామర్ కు కారణం యోగానే అంటోంది శిల్పాషెట్టి. అంతేకాదు, బట్టల్లేకుండా అయితే ఇంకా బాగా యోగా చేయగలనని సెలవిచ్చింది. ముంబయిలో బీబీసీ ఎర్త్ ఏర్పాటుచేసిన ఓ ప్రత్యేక కార్యక్రమానికి గెస్ట్ గా హాజరైంది శిల్పాషెట్టి. మెడికల్ జర్నలిస్ట్ డాక్టర్ మైఖేల్ మోస్లేతో ప్రత్యేకంగా భేటీ అయింది. ఈవెంట్ ను కవర్ చేయడానికి వచ్చిన జర్నలిస్టులకు యోగాలో కొన్ని టిప్స్ నేర్పించింది. ఈ సందర్భంగా మీడియాతో సరదాగా మాట్లాడిన శిల్పాషెట్టి.. ఒంటిపై దుస్తులు ఉండడం వల్ల యోగా చేయడం కష్టంగా ఉందని, దుస్తులు లేకపోతే యోగా ఇంకా పెర్ ఫెక్ట్ గా వస్తుందని అంటోంది. దుస్తుల్లేకుండా యోగా చేస్తే సూపర్ గా ఉంటుందంటూ శిల్ప అనేసరికి కాసేపు అక్కడున్నవాళ్లకు అర్థంకాలేదు. కాసేపు అంతా సైలెంట్ అయిపోయారు. ఆ తర్వాత తను జోక్ చేశానంటూ శిల్పాషెట్టి నవ్వేసరికి, ఆమెతో పాటు అంతా నవ్వేశారు. Quote
Pumpuhaar Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 25 minutes ago, Quickgun_murugan said: బట్టల్లేకుండా యోగా బాగా చేస్తా బాలీవుడ్ బ్యూటీల్లో యోగాకు పెట్టింది పేరు శిల్పాషెట్టి. ఇప్పటికే ఆమె దీనిపై కొన్ని డీవీడీలు కూడా రిలీజ్ చేసింది. వయసు పెరిగినప్పటికీ, పెళ్లయి పిల్లలున్నప్పటికీ తన గ్లామర్ కు కారణం యోగానే అంటోంది శిల్పాషెట్టి. అంతేకాదు, బట్టల్లేకుండా అయితే ఇంకా బాగా యోగా చేయగలనని సెలవిచ్చింది. ముంబయిలో బీబీసీ ఎర్త్ ఏర్పాటుచేసిన ఓ ప్రత్యేక కార్యక్రమానికి గెస్ట్ గా హాజరైంది శిల్పాషెట్టి. మెడికల్ జర్నలిస్ట్ డాక్టర్ మైఖేల్ మోస్లేతో ప్రత్యేకంగా భేటీ అయింది. ఈవెంట్ ను కవర్ చేయడానికి వచ్చిన జర్నలిస్టులకు యోగాలో కొన్ని టిప్స్ నేర్పించింది. ఈ సందర్భంగా మీడియాతో సరదాగా మాట్లాడిన శిల్పాషెట్టి.. ఒంటిపై దుస్తులు ఉండడం వల్ల యోగా చేయడం కష్టంగా ఉందని, దుస్తులు లేకపోతే యోగా ఇంకా పెర్ ఫెక్ట్ గా వస్తుందని అంటోంది. దుస్తుల్లేకుండా యోగా చేస్తే సూపర్ గా ఉంటుందంటూ శిల్ప అనేసరికి కాసేపు అక్కడున్నవాళ్లకు అర్థంకాలేదు. కాసేపు అంతా సైలెంట్ అయిపోయారు. ఆ తర్వాత తను జోక్ చేశానంటూ శిల్పాషెట్టి నవ్వేసరికి, ఆమెతో పాటు అంతా నవ్వేశారు. ippudu ee musaldaani battalekunda soodadam avasarama Quote
nearachakam Posted April 5, 2018 Author Report Posted April 5, 2018 5 minutes ago, Quickgun_murugan said: బట్టల్లేకుండా యోగా బాగా చేస్తా బాలీవుడ్ బ్యూటీల్లో యోగాకు పెట్టింది పేరు శిల్పాషెట్టి. ఇప్పటికే ఆమె దీనిపై కొన్ని డీవీడీలు కూడా రిలీజ్ చేసింది. వయసు పెరిగినప్పటికీ, పెళ్లయి పిల్లలున్నప్పటికీ తన గ్లామర్ కు కారణం యోగానే అంటోంది శిల్పాషెట్టి. అంతేకాదు, బట్టల్లేకుండా అయితే ఇంకా బాగా యోగా చేయగలనని సెలవిచ్చింది. ముంబయిలో బీబీసీ ఎర్త్ ఏర్పాటుచేసిన ఓ ప్రత్యేక కార్యక్రమానికి గెస్ట్ గా హాజరైంది శిల్పాషెట్టి. మెడికల్ జర్నలిస్ట్ డాక్టర్ మైఖేల్ మోస్లేతో ప్రత్యేకంగా భేటీ అయింది. ఈవెంట్ ను కవర్ చేయడానికి వచ్చిన జర్నలిస్టులకు యోగాలో కొన్ని టిప్స్ నేర్పించింది. ఈ సందర్భంగా మీడియాతో సరదాగా మాట్లాడిన శిల్పాషెట్టి.. ఒంటిపై దుస్తులు ఉండడం వల్ల యోగా చేయడం కష్టంగా ఉందని, దుస్తులు లేకపోతే యోగా ఇంకా పెర్ ఫెక్ట్ గా వస్తుందని అంటోంది. దుస్తుల్లేకుండా యోగా చేస్తే సూపర్ గా ఉంటుందంటూ శిల్ప అనేసరికి కాసేపు అక్కడున్నవాళ్లకు అర్థంకాలేదు. కాసేపు అంతా సైలెంట్ అయిపోయారు. ఆ తర్వాత తను జోక్ చేశానంటూ శిల్పాషెట్టి నవ్వేసరికి, ఆమెతో పాటు అంతా నవ్వేశారు. edi night time lo chestharey adenaa....nishabda yuddam.. Quote
Quickgun_murugan Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 25 minutes ago, nearachakam said: edi night time lo chestharey adenaa....nishabda yuddam.. Yes.. shilpa shetty is a very imfroved his a ferformance.. mainly night time Quote
Quickgun_murugan Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 28 minutes ago, Pumpuhaar said: ippudu ee musaldaani battalekunda soodadam avasarama denni sooshi inspire ayi evaranna mana youth poreelu try chestey yappies a kada manaki Quote
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