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[Sachin200]

Valla parents ki 

No matter what I should get settle in USA and they rely on social pride 

Her dad wanna move here in next couple of years ( he works for state govt and wanna retire soon ) 

So if I say something happens to my job and eventually to my Visa status they r not ready to take 

My parents were still unhappy about me marrying & my father said many times that her family is not fair and eventually they  might put u in troubles.

Nenu pelli chesukunadu hi pilla ni valla family night kadhu Ani colring icha 

[Sachin200]

Vallu kamma, nenu kapu . So families opposed but I convinced them

I am not  generalising caste , just saying

Ma family valla family antha matladukoru 

 

[Paidithalli]

. mee iddhare matladukoni edhayina trip ki pondi.. 

love antunnav.. ammai laki insecurities undadam chala common... valla parents matalu pattukoni ninnu vodhileddham ankodam lo peddha surprise em ledhu..  vallu fickle minded untaru..  edho oka bad moment lo decision theeskoni dhuram avtharu.. malli ninne kavalankuntadhi.. but oka decision theeskundhi kabatti back step veyyaledhu... (parents ala veyyanivvaru)

inka situations nee control lone unnayi.. manchiga matladukondi meeru iddharu... 

nuvvu entha try chesina ammai dhuram cheskunte... middle finger chupinchu.. 

endhukante ala job ledhano... status ledhano .. dhuram ayye manushulu manaki akkarledhu.. 

Nee happiness ni neelone vethukko.. Nuvvu entha try cheyyalo antha chey... 

 

[Paidithalli]

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[iPhoneX]

3 hours ago, Sachin200 said:

Bhayyas , kotha rule vachindi ga 

ఓపీటి  శ్తెం  ki kotha rule petadu ga , does this applicable to existing ones ( all ready approved ones ). 
Iss tho matlada and this is not official . They r not sure with existing ఒనెస్

My situation: హ్చ్ 1 file chessa ( employer with same client location ) .

Lawyer: Notsure what to do. Let's  wait and see , in worse case rfe ki respond avidhi gani అంటుంది

Ckient tho matlada about this , jan 2019 lo full time chesta antunadu 
Nadi genuine ,fake ledhu ( no offense ) 
Employer : small company  Oregon
Client : Seattle lo pedha కంపెనీ

Project vundi client site Ani hire chesukunadu ( nenu uw nundi grad ayya ) . 
Wife ( with support of her parents ) divorce istha in case job pothe antudhi

Love marriage , but situations r not good after this  ( inter caste ) 

హ్చ్ 1 pick ayindhi 

ఓపీటి : Feb 2019 varaku vundi 

deenamma kashtalo

[Soul]

2 hours ago, Sachin200 said:

Valla parents ki 

No matter what I should get settle in USA and they rely on social pride 

Her dad wanna move here in next couple of years ( he works for state govt and wanna retire soon ) 

So if I say something happens to my job and eventually to my Visa status they r not ready to take 

My parents were still unhappy about me marrying & my father said many times that her family is not fair and eventually they  might put u in troubles.

Nenu pelli chesukunadu hi pilla ni valla family night kadhu Ani colring icha 

Man.  for your situation. If I were you, I would ditch your wife first. Either bayapadi set right ayithadi. lekapothe D++++++.

Intha mandhi cheppina vinakunda, I love her, I want her annav ante. Nee karma.

Status emundhi bhayya. Avasaram anukunte ye thelladanno chesuko. 

No body will be ble to black mail you brother, unless you give them power to.  I hope you grow some balls and act like a man ( No offense)

Just being honest brother. 

[kittaya]

4 hours ago, Sachin200 said:

Bhayyas , kotha rule vachindi ga 

ఓపీటి  శ్తెం  ki kotha rule petadu ga , does this applicable to existing ones ( all ready approved ones ). 
Iss tho matlada and this is not official . They r not sure with existing ఒనెస్

My situation: హ్చ్ 1 file chessa ( employer with same client location ) .

Lawyer: Notsure what to do. Let's  wait and see , in worse case rfe ki respond avidhi gani అంటుంది

Ckient tho matlada about this , jan 2019 lo full time chesta antunadu 
Nadi genuine ,fake ledhu ( no offense ) 
Employer : small company  Oregon
Client : Seattle lo pedha కంపెనీ

Project vundi client site Ani hire chesukunadu ( nenu uw nundi grad ayya ) . 
Wife ( with support of her parents ) divorce istha in case job pothe antudhi

Love marriage , but situations r not good after this  ( inter caste ) 

హ్చ్ 1 pick ayindhi 

ఓపీటి : Feb 2019 varaku vundi 

Ammai valla parents Ni kapuram loki techavu antene .... Aedo oka Penta tisukostharu.

 

2 faimilies alagae nasanam ayyayi... Miku Baga dabbu undha

[Gaali_Gottam_Govinda]

4 hours ago, Sachin200 said:

 

Wife ( with support of her parents ) divorce istha in case job pothe antudhi

 

 

lol what a wife you have........... This is your only problem..... divorce ichi tengu........ All your probs will be solved.

[Android_Halwa]

ehe nee lavadala lolli....udyogam pothe pendlam bediristundi anta...

pendlam annaka barabar bediristaru bhai...nuv enduku bhayapadutunav ?

jeetham peekithe divorce isthadanta....iyamanu...endi vaya nee pendlam divorce ichedi...nuvve munde chepeyu, ae roju job pothe aroju battalu sardukuni vellipomanu...divorce papers mellaga pampistha ani cheppu...

dude, niku divorce ane word vintene bhayam aitundi...adi nee pendlam cash chesukuntundi...intaki endi vaya nee pendlam, h4 dependent uh leka udyogam gitla emaina sestunda ?

[Android_Halwa]

chal maaki...inkosari divorce annadi anuko....nuve voluntary ga mundalki ra...job poina very day suitcase teesukuni dobbeymanu INdia ki...

apatiki vinakapothey divorce attorney degariki po vaya....mokam ellapeddatam thapa emi cheyaledu...kali peeli bhadkav muchata idi anthe

Remember,, Be a male...

[dasara_bullodu]

bro job pothe divorce ista ane wife unte alanti wife unna undakapoyina okate

[Sachin200]

Thanks for the replies

About me : dad govt officer , mom house wife. I am the only son , sister ( elder ) and she settled in Hyderabad. Andhariki kopam vundi nenu marriage evarini kadhu Ani chesukua Ani 

Status: middle class famiky

Eppude nenu settle avutuna , next year ki job full time avudhi and life bagane settle avudhi anukuntuna

Everything was smooth until December of last year and things changed ever since her parents came to my place . 

Wife visa : H1 deny   ayindhi and currently on day 1 CPT 

Ma parents will not visit anaru , in case need wife pregnant ayithe we will help and will  do our responsibilities anaru brothers 

Relation: I know her since 4 years ( Masters nundi) and got married last year 

All of a sudden third party client restriction vachetapatiki, started blackmailing me

Not scared of my wife, don't wanna break the marriage for silly reasons . I am trying my best to convince them 

 

[Sachin200]

Company lo audit ayindhii , ma project ki and it went smooth . Company award icharu and I mentioned to my in laws & wife . 

Wife response was : aripoye deepaniki vellugu ekkuva antundhi. 

I have no idea why they changed a lot

 dowry Ami teeskoledhu ( my dad was against to that policy).

Just sharing my story , not for sympathy  

 

 

[Rushabhi]

Inko ft ki try cheyyi. Regarding your wife God bless you

[Android_Halwa]

Mee same ninnu blackmail chestundi...fikar cheyak, gattiga vundu...nuv kaadu, your wife is vulnerable and she should be scared of the situation ...but the way they are playing things around , it’s evident that they are afraid to face the consequences and so out of those issues, they are trying to exert pressure on you..! 

Lauda la pressure...masthu chusinam vaya isontivi, emi fikar cheyak...inkosari divorce ante yeah let’s go ahead with divorce anu...chup chap calm ga kuauntadi...remember she is on Day-1 CPT...country dati velli ravalante komcham risky...take advantage of her situation