Who Should Be Buying Gifts Me Or Mil Or Both ?

[Spartan]

I stay abroad and my Mil stays in my native. Whenever we call her or messages her she gives us a very long list. In the starting she used to message my hubby saying she wants this and that. When ever I visit her she takes note of what I wear and ask me about it in front of my husband. My husband takes note of all these and buys things for her from India as well as from abroad. She has never bought me even a handkerchief , while we have to buy her long list plus common items that people usually bring from abroad to India for their family. She never gave me anything till now. My husband is saying he wants to buy MIL some gold.

Now see I can take this in two ways. I can think of it like okay.. let son buy mom gifts.. his money his things.
I can also think as MIL is taking away my future kids money..
Do you think a wife has any right over a husbands money.. I am not against him spending a bit.. but not like gold and all.. I also feel sad when people remind me that my MIL never bought me anything till now.. even after me selecting and buying her things.

I would also like to ask about your view about living as a dependent . Like how is it to live with your husbands money ? Is your husband okay with you spending money? My MIL doesnt like me spend my husbands money .

[sattipandu]

start chesinavaaa??? every monthly edo cycle start ayinattu

neeku  kooda  appudappudu IL forum ki vellali ani anipisthada?????

[TOM_BHAYYA]

Yes definitely it’s wrong .. get divorce 

[Myth1]

I love cheesecake