Is Mil Overbearing Or Genuinely Trying To Be Helpful?

[Spartan]

Firstly, I'm really sick of my MIL's remarks regarding how want to bring up DS (14 months old). After many quarrels with IL and being kicked many times for defending myself, I'm still living with them so their 'perfect family' image isn't tarnished. BTW they have always made DH bring me back then they pretend like nothing ever happened.

Anyways, regarding my question, my DS is sick and isn't sleeping well. MIL always want to take him from me, always instigating she can watch him better. She behaves differently with me in front of DH, always more polite when he is around. Othertimes she doesn't say a word. Me on the otherhand, I limit my conversations with her as much as possible because I can't stand her.

DH thinks his mum is only trying to help. I give IL's grandparents bonding time with DS everyday. Its just he is sick and needs me to look after him. I also think we need to be able to manage DS on our own without help from either parents so we can be more independent.

Also, tonight DS was crying alot. Both IL came in his room and said give DS to MIL so she can put him to sleep. H and I told them we are fine and DS is sick thats why he is crying alot. Then it somehow turned around that we shouldn't be letting DS cry etc etc. FIL had a heart surgery 3 weeks ago so i tried to be careful with my words but every time i tried to say something my MIL kept saying 'ssshhhhsssh' (which i thought was so rude and made me more pissed off). So basically i got a good hearing from them but wasn't allowed to say anything in my defense. I angry because evrytime we try to set boundaries with IL they just step all over it

[sattipandu]

start chesinavaaa??? every monthly edo cycle start ayinattu

neeku  kooda  appudappudu IL forum ki vellali ani anipisthada?????

[raccha rambabu]

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[Spartan]

Just now, raccha rambabu said:

Appendix kuda veyyi bhayya.. shortcuts lo konni artham ayyayi.. konni bouncers ellai naku..  clarity raledhu shortcuts valla

 

MIL - mother inlaw

FIL - father in law

dh - Dear Husband..

DS- Dear Son

[Myth1]

58 minutes ago, Spartan said:

MIL - mother inlaw

FIL - father in law

dh - Dear Husband..

DS- Dear Son

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[Spartan]

27 minutes ago, Myth1 said:

Mari wife ?  

adi only ladies forum..

 

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[ARYA]

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[Spartan]

2 minutes ago, ARYA said:

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[Myth1]

10 minutes ago, Spartan said:

adi only ladies forum..

 

so I, me, = wife always there..

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[Spartan]

Just now, Myth1 said:

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[ARYA]

7 minutes ago, Spartan said:

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[Spartan]

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[ARYA]

Just now, Spartan said:

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[Myth1]

11 minutes ago, Spartan said:

few are from Quora..so @sri_india effect..

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[Spartan]

Just now, Myth1 said:

U mean @ronitreddy's fiancee  

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