I realized that she is very simple, understanding and practical girl.

[Spartan]

While studying post graduate degree in one of metro cities in India, I had a best friend (male). He was in love with this girl. She used to study in different college. He used to call her daily and share things about their relationship. Once I talked to her on phone and once met in person. That’s it.

After completion of degree, he got married to her. Girl’s parents were against their marriage but somehow they convinced. Their married life started. Meanwhile, I was working and traveling in different cities.

We three were Facebook friends obviously and sometimes he used to call me and we used to talk about career and future plans etc. Sometimes, he used to handover phone to his wife, just to talk friendly. I realized that she is very simple, understanding and practical girl. Once or twice, we talked and our talks extended to about 20–30 minutes. She used to suggest what we should do to further in career and what is her opinion about this and that. But that’s it. It was all in presence of her husband, i.e. my friend.

Days passed. One day, I received a message from her saying ‘Hi’ on Facebook. We started chatting and she shared something about her personal marital life which was unexpected for me.

She shared that after marriage, he in-laws are totally non-cooperative and quarrelsome. They have their own issues and it was having bad impact on her. Whenever their is an dispute, my friend used to take sides with his parents and never listen to her. He was not giving any consideration to her needs and feelings.

She was suffering in that atmosphere and she had no one to talk to. She could not talk to anyone from her own family as she married against their wishes. She had limited friends at her place. Moreover she could not trust anyone.

She needed someone to talk to, someone who will listen to her and pass no-judgments, someone who is friendly with her and say few words of appreciation, as she had sacrificed much but her husband (my friend) was not acknowledging and always taking sides with his own parents.

Once she told me everything, I offered if she wants to talk on phone. We talked on phone. The phone talks increased. We used to talk daily. I used to listen to her and offer suggestions. I had no other intention.

I was also alone at that time and I realized that mostly we share similar values about life.

My friend behaved irresponsibly and changed two -three jobs. She was very sad. It was like she only had a stable job and stable income for some time.

Later, my friend got a job in nearby town. He used to stay there from Monday to Friday. During this time, we started talking in the night too. Our talks increased to the extent that we talked until 4 o’clock in the morning. After he came back we stopped and remained best friends as we were.

Then later, I went abroad to study. There I faced tremendous difficulties. I faced health problems as well as it was difficult for me to adjust with new life. I felt alone and miserable.

During this time, our contact was lost. I became aloof, kind of depressed. She tried contacting me but I did not respond back. Then she did not contact me for a month or two.

Somehow, after 3 months or so, after joining my course, she contacted me. I wrote back that I am fine and had some problems. She inquired about my problems and asked for my phone number.

I was kind of not expecting any call from her on my phone as it is expensive to call on a normal mobile line from India. but I gave her my phone number.

One morning, at 6 or something, my phone rang. I picked up and found her on the phone line. She just called me to ask about my health. It was really great to hear her voice and know she still cared for me. She did not care to spend so much money for a phone call. We talked for a 2 -3 minutes and she said she will call again.

In the next two three days, she again called me and we talked for 2–3 minutes.

Next time, I disconnected and called from Skype as I did not want her to spend more money.

She also told me that when she was vulnerable, and sad, I was the person who listened to her without any judgment and now, when I am not well, she could not leave me alone to suffer.

We just talked but in these days, I realized that I love her and maybe she also loved me. but we never expressed. We were best friends and ours was the best friendship.

Once I was on the phone call with her. I don’t know what happened but I just said that I love her. She was shocked and cut the phone. She called me the next day, and said that this is all in vain and we should not go ahead as there is no future. I said, I just expressed what I felt and wanted to know if she felt the same.

After few days she expressed that she felt the same.

Later, we were really really close and always talked on the phone, listened to each other and supported. We felt the attraction, there was a chance to come close physically but it did not materialize.

Later, she convinced me that as there is no future, we should somehow stop as I also should look for a real life partner. We are still in touch and support each other but we talk less frequently and not so intimately. She said it will create problems in my future life to which I agree too.

[Idassamed]

Chitti gaaru entidi aha makentidi antunna

[Myth1]

2 lines lo cheppu anna  

[tacobell fan]

@Spartan DB meeda pagapattinattu unnav. ee essay writing enti maku Friday roju.

[samaja_varagamana]

2 minutes ago, Myth1 said:

2 lines lo cheppu anna  

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[samaja_varagamana]

Just now, tacobell fan said:

@Spartan DB meeda pagapattinattu unnav. ee essay writing enti maku Friday roju.

pakka db nundi lifted emo

[Myth1]

8 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

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Indhukaadhu pitta ninnu thittedhi  

[nearachakam]

27 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

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[johnubhai_01]

enti ee thread lu eeroju,, 

[Spartan]

3 minutes ago, johnubhai_01 said:

enti ee thread lu eeroju,, 

•   politics ki side cehddam ani.

[samaja_varagamana]

54 minutes ago, Myth1 said:

Indhukaadhu pitta ninnu thittedhi  

[Myth1]

Just now, samaja_varagamana said:

 

[iam_who_iam]

37 minutes ago, Spartan said:

•   politics ki side cehddam ani.

[stag]

bro. ilanti postlu monday eyyochu kadha. friday intiki poye thondara lo chadavalekapothunna

[Spartan]

1 minute ago, stag said:

bro. ilanti postlu monday eyyochu kadha. friday intiki poye thondara lo chadavalekapothunna

Monady pani cheskovali..Friday stories cahdavali.