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I m posting here for the first .I m going through a real crisis in life. Hope will get some good suggtestions to come out of it.

I m a married , working lady , i got married last year only ours is a arranged marriage . After one month of my marriage, I got a job abroad , and decided to pursue that for one year . After I relocated , I was missing my newly wedded husband very much. The enormous amount of work load , as well a totally new country , with no friends around , I used to cry everyday while talking to my husband.


My husbnad used to console me for hours.


After two months a friend of my husband also relocated to my place. My husband asked him to take care of me . I knew this friend by name only. When he came , we met , and we became very good friends. He seemed to be like a family member , the only person I can rely in the foreign land.We used to hang out during weekends and explore different places. Our taste and likings are so similar that enjoyed doing everything together. More we both were alone and knew no body. I used to tell everything to my husband. He was also happy that I cry no more . After three months this friend of mine went home for few days, it was during that time when I started missing him more than my husband . I tried to control my feelings but somehow they just grew. When he came back , he told me that he also missed me, then I knew our feelings were alike . That night we shared our feelings for each other , and realised that we both have fallen in love, and that he was also trying to hide and control himself. We realised that whatever is going on is not correct and we promised not to go further. One of us is already married and the other is engaged . We tried real hard to suppress our feelings , But everything failed. Our loneliness brought us more closer. We knew we are not doing right but we just did it. The feelings were so strong , We felt that we are just made for each other. I started comparing him with my husband and he started comparing me with his fiance. After six months , one weekend I went to his room , and we slept for the first time. I felt guilty but can not stop myself.


Now he is married , His wife suspects both of us. We are trying our best to keep them happy. I m trying to maintain distance . I miss him like anything , I know whatever we have done is totally wrong , But whatever happened was something that can not be erased. I do love him and he also, both of us wants to be happy in our own married life , and do our responsibilities that we have taken. But somehow it seems so difficult to part. Friends I m totally shattered, I cannot stop myself from thinking about him , and at the same time I m feeling guilty and want to forget everything and start afresh.
Please help me becoming strong and cope with the situation.

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Posted
14 minutes ago, Spartan said:

I m posting here for the first .I m going through a real crisis in life. Hope will get some good suggtestions to come out of it.

I m a married , working lady , i got married last year only ours is a arranged marriage . After one month of my marriage, I got a job abroad , and decided to pursue that for one year . After I relocated , I was missing my newly wedded husband very much. The enormous amount of work load , as well a totally new country , with no friends around , I used to cry everyday while talking to my husband.


My husbnad used to console me for hours.


After two months a friend of my husband also relocated to my place. My husband asked him to take care of me . I knew this friend by name only. When he came , we met , and we became very good friends. He seemed to be like a family member , the only person I can rely in the foreign land.We used to hang out during weekends and explore different places. Our taste and likings are so similar that enjoyed doing everything together. More we both were alone and knew no body. I used to tell everything to my husband. He was also happy that I cry no more . After three months this friend of mine went home for few days, it was during that time when I started missing him more than my husband . I tried to control my feelings but somehow they just grew. When he came back , he told me that he also missed me, then I knew our feelings were alike . That night we shared our feelings for each other , and realised that we both have fallen in love, and that he was also trying to hide and control himself. We realised that whatever is going on is not correct and we promised not to go further. One of us is already married and the other is engaged . We tried real hard to suppress our feelings , But everything failed. Our loneliness brought us more closer. We knew we are not doing right but we just did it. The feelings were so strong , We felt that we are just made for each other. I started comparing him with my husband and he started comparing me with his fiance. After six months , one weekend I went to his room , and we slept for the first time. I felt guilty but can not stop myself.


Now he is married , His wife suspects both of us. We are trying our best to keep them happy. I m trying to maintain distance . I miss him like anything , I know whatever we have done is totally wrong , But whatever happened was something that can not be erased. I do love him and he also, both of us wants to be happy in our own married life , and do our responsibilities that we have taken. But somehow it seems so difficult to part. Friends I m totally shattered, I cannot stop myself from thinking about him , and at the same time I m feeling guilty and want to forget everything and start afresh.
Please help me becoming strong and cope with the situation.

edikelli pattukosthunnav kaka e story lu...comments kuda post seyi..

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2 minutes ago, Desi_guy said:

edikelli pattukosthunnav kaka e story lu...comments kuda post seyi..

manam disco cheddam kada..valla comments manakenduku.

btw indus ladies.

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7 minutes ago, Spartan said:

manam disco cheddam kada..valla comments manakenduku.

btw indus ladies.

rei munda mopi

Posted
8 minutes ago, Spartan said:

manam disco cheddam kada..valla comments manakenduku.

btw indus ladies.

disco emudi kaka...dani mogudu ila feel avthuntadu thelisthe 

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Posted
27 minutes ago, Spartan said:

I m posting here for the first .I m going through a real crisis in life. Hope will get some good suggtestions to come out of it.

I m a married , working lady , i got married last year only ours is a arranged marriage . After one month of my marriage, I got a job abroad , and decided to pursue that for one year . After I relocated , I was missing my newly wedded husband very much. The enormous amount of work load , as well a totally new country , with no friends around , I used to cry everyday while talking to my husband.


My husbnad used to console me for hours.


After two months a friend of my husband also relocated to my place. My husband asked him to take care of me . I knew this friend by name only. When he came , we met , and we became very good friends. He seemed to be like a family member , the only person I can rely in the foreign land.We used to hang out during weekends and explore different places. Our taste and likings are so similar that enjoyed doing everything together. More we both were alone and knew no body. I used to tell everything to my husband. He was also happy that I cry no more . After three months this friend of mine went home for few days, it was during that time when I started missing him more than my husband . I tried to control my feelings but somehow they just grew. When he came back , he told me that he also missed me, then I knew our feelings were alike . That night we shared our feelings for each other , and realised that we both have fallen in love, and that he was also trying to hide and control himself. We realised that whatever is going on is not correct and we promised not to go further. One of us is already married and the other is engaged . We tried real hard to suppress our feelings , But everything failed. Our loneliness brought us more closer. We knew we are not doing right but we just did it. The feelings were so strong , We felt that we are just made for each other. I started comparing him with my husband and he started comparing me with his fiance. After six months , one weekend I went to his room , and we slept for the first time. I felt guilty but can not stop myself.


Now he is married , His wife suspects both of us. We are trying our best to keep them happy. I m trying to maintain distance . I miss him like anything , I know whatever we have done is totally wrong , But whatever happened was something that can not be erased. I do love him and he also, both of us wants to be happy in our own married life , and do our responsibilities that we have taken. But somehow it seems so difficult to part. Friends I m totally shattered, I cannot stop myself from thinking about him , and at the same time I m feeling guilty and want to forget everything and start afresh.
Please help me becoming strong and cope with the situation.

bhayya ekkada nunchi lepi copy koduthunnav evi anni

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14 minutes ago, bhaigan said:

bhayya ekkada nunchi lepi copy koduthunnav evi anni

IL

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Have bumchik with him continuosly for few months. Mozu teeripotundi vadiki neeku, then continue your married lifes with guilt.

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Mogudu ki buddi ledu .... Asalu pelli ayyaka ventane pampatame pedda tappu that to a different country .... Paiga okadi todu anta... Ice Cream koni pakka vadi chetulo pedite .... chapparichakunda vuntada.... Anta Assamey

Posted
1 hour ago, Spartan said:

manam disco cheddam kada..valla comments manakenduku.

btw indus ladies.

today is not friday *7*^

Posted
2 hours ago, Spartan said:

I m posting here for the first .I m going through a real crisis in life. Hope will get some good suggtestions to come out of it.

I m a married , working lady , i got married last year only ours is a arranged marriage . After one month of my marriage, I got a job abroad , and decided to pursue that for one year . After I relocated , I was missing my newly wedded husband very much. The enormous amount of work load , as well a totally new country , with no friends around , I used to cry everyday while talking to my husband.


My husbnad used to console me for hours.


After two months a friend of my husband also relocated to my place. My husband asked him to take care of me . I knew this friend by name only. When he came , we met , and we became very good friends. He seemed to be like a family member , the only person I can rely in the foreign land.We used to hang out during weekends and explore different places. Our taste and likings are so similar that enjoyed doing everything together. More we both were alone and knew no body. I used to tell everything to my husband. He was also happy that I cry no more . After three months this friend of mine went home for few days, it was during that time when I started missing him more than my husband . I tried to control my feelings but somehow they just grew. When he came back , he told me that he also missed me, then I knew our feelings were alike . That night we shared our feelings for each other , and realised that we both have fallen in love, and that he was also trying to hide and control himself. We realised that whatever is going on is not correct and we promised not to go further. One of us is already married and the other is engaged . We tried real hard to suppress our feelings , But everything failed. Our loneliness brought us more closer. We knew we are not doing right but we just did it. The feelings were so strong , We felt that we are just made for each other. I started comparing him with my husband and he started comparing me with his fiance. After six months , one weekend I went to his room , and we slept for the first time. I felt guilty but can not stop myself.


Now he is married , His wife suspects both of us. We are trying our best to keep them happy. I m trying to maintain distance . I miss him like anything , I know whatever we have done is totally wrong , But whatever happened was something that can not be erased. I do love him and he also, both of us wants to be happy in our own married life , and do our responsibilities that we have taken. But somehow it seems so difficult to part. Friends I m totally shattered, I cannot stop myself from thinking about him , and at the same time I m feeling guilty and want to forget everything and start afresh.
Please help me becoming strong and cope with the situation.

Title justification jarigindi ga.. he took care of her fully and completely .. inka lolli enduku ?

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7 minutes ago, SeemaLekka said:

title chalu inka story chadavakkarlebemmi.lol1.gif

Gp 

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