pregnancy time lo without parents kashtama?

[iam_who_iam]

changed topic to my family, so naadey situation anukoni suggestions cheyandi chalu, i just want suggestions anthey. thank U

[WHAT]

7 minutes ago, iam_who_iam said:

bro naku teliyaka adugutha paina ma friend anakunda naa wife ani veysthey naku poyedi emundi problem avvadaniki naku ikkada evaru teleedu so friend issue kabatti friend ani pettadam lo thappu emundi asalu?

aina friend wife or na situation edi aithey endi kavalsinavi suggestions avi ivvocchu kada?

or suggestion adagali antey ikkada account unna vallakey cheybutham antey nenu na post change cheysi my family na situation ani pedutha..

asalu chala mandi ilaa ANTA thread lu veysi ilaa genuine ga adigina comedy lu aipotunnay threads. 

+1 intha manchi frns naku leru ane jealousy feeling bro .... nakosam ila db lo ki vachi mari adigi telusukuni vallu

6 minutes ago, iam_who_iam said:

changed topic to my family, so naadey situation anukoni suggestions cheyandi chalu, i just want suggestions anthey. thank U

suggestions meeke ekkuva telisi undali....  if both in laws ki travel not possible ante ......mee frns , collegues,  ladies unte valla help tisukondi or local desi rest/grocery store vallaki baby sitting chese vallu telisi untadi ... kontha mandi old ammamlu vallu visa 0verstay chesthunna vallu baby sitting avi chestaru anta....

[Kalam_Youtheman]

2 hours ago, Pokiri_21 said:

And to what I said previously, we are hardly sleeping 4-5 hrs everyday.  WFH kabatti nadipisthunna. office ki poi panicheyyali antey matram chala kastam. and moreover wife ki ee time lo em vandi pettalo kooda manaki teliyali. we cant have her eat everything even though doctors say that. so mee vaadu vantalu baaga chesthye ok ledantey kastam. naa vishayam lo naaku vanta baaga vachu so manage chesthunna. so overall its very very very very very impossible. 

manage chesthunnnaa annav malli impossible antunnav endhii... be clear bro// poraagaalu bhadapadthunnruu

[rapchik]

1 hour ago, BostonBullodu said:

wife-no job and parents rakapothe kashtam avuthadi antava imagine situation of both working people and no remote with no parents coming... 

imagined ..inka.. Job mukyam aa pillado mukyam..gamuna intlo kusovali... Finaallllllllll

[AFDB__REBEL]

no problem dude...

just oka one month kosam oka nanny petuko ....everything is managebale

[iam_who_iam]

12 minutes ago, WHAT said:

+1 intha manchi frns naku leru ane jealousy feeling bro .... nakosam ila db lo ki vachi mari adigi telusukuni vallu

suggestions meeke ekkuva telisi undali....  if both in laws ki travel not possible ante ......mee frns , collegues,  ladies unte valla help tisukondi or local desi rest/grocery store vallaki baby sitting chese vallu telisi untadi ... kontha mandi old ammamlu vallu visa 0verstay chesthunna vallu baby sitting avi chestaru anta....

 

7 minutes ago, rapchik said:

imagined ..inka.. Job mukyam aa pillado mukyam..gamuna intlo kusovali... Finaallllllllll

 

5 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

no problem dude...

just oka one month kosam oka nanny petuko ....everything is managebale

[Lukewalker]

3 hours ago, Pokiri_21 said:

I'm in the same boat bro. Let me explain my situation. No one was there during labor and after we were discharged from hospital. pillagademo edusthadu. maakenduko teleledu. intlo pedda vallu untey konchem guidance untundi. but naa case lo ala jaragala.but my wife she learned quickly from RNs how to stuff for baby (like how to feed ? bath ? etc........). inka intiki vacham. Luckily naaku 3 months maa manager gaadu WFH ichadu. so nenu inti pani, vanta pani and office pani nenu choosthunna and pilladi pani tanu choosukuintundi. chala chala tough avuthundi evaru lekapothy. 

Nenu same situation lo unna kabatti naa exp cheppanu. he cannot manage. malla mall chepthnna.

I know the feeling bro. been there. 

I dont have sisters but we found a nanny who eventually became more than a sister to me. thanu lekapote we couldn't have survived. 

chala chala kashtam inital days lo

TS, mee friend ki nanny ni hire cheskomani cheppu, chala patience tho deal cheyyamanu situations ni. thana friends ki pillalu unte talk to them. 

Good luck!!!!

[Lukewalker]

34 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

manage chesthunnnaa annav malli impossible antunnav endhii... be clear bro// poraagaalu bhadapadthunnruu

he might have went through a lot man, andhuke inkevaru ala badhapadakudadhu ani chepthunnadu. parents or elder help undali pakka ani indirect ga chepthunnadu emo

[KATHRI]

No problem until there are any issue while delivering... if normal delivery you are good to go if not you will need help coz mom cannot do some of the things

Newborns feed and sleep a lot

 

[Pokiri_21]

43 minutes ago, KATHRI said:

No problem until there are any issue while delivering... if normal delivery you are good to go if not you will need help coz mom cannot do some of the things

Newborns feed and sleep a lot

 

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[iam_who_iam]

1 hour ago, Lukewalker said:

I know the feeling bro. been there. 

I dont have sisters but we found a nanny who eventually became more than a sister to me. thanu lekapote we couldn't have survived. 

chala chala kashtam inital days lo

TS, mee friend ki nanny ni hire cheskomani cheppu, chala patience tho deal cheyyamanu situations ni. thana friends ki pillalu unte talk to them. 

Good luck!!!!

 

1 hour ago, Lukewalker said:

he might have went through a lot man, andhuke inkevaru ala badhapadakudadhu ani chepthunnadu. parents or elder help undali pakka ani indirect ga chepthunnadu emo

 

55 minutes ago, KATHRI said:

No problem until there are any issue while delivering... if normal delivery you are good to go if not you will need help coz mom cannot do some of the things

Newborns feed and sleep a lot

 

thanks guys

[USPeddaReddy]

5 hours ago, iam_who_iam said:

ma family reasons valla parents ralekaptunnaru both side, inko couple ofweeks lo due date undi, ikkada evaraina dorukuthara take care cheysey valu ? first enni months avasaram untundi usual ga? emi emi consider cheysukovali ilanti situation lo? evaraina ila without parents help unnara?

any sugestions?

 

added:

first kid

wife-no job

husband-contracting can work from remote as long as he want

 

Nanny service pettuko for first 6 months.

After that it will be alright you guys can manage.

[perugu_vada]

I had a baby 18-months before , parents help will be tremendous during those days, especially 1st 2-months kashtam, due to lack of sleep, baby ni miru chuskunna time ki food cook chesi intlo panulu chuskuntu untaru  so i really found it helpful

[Spartan]

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Entha Family Reasons unna - both sides families lo evaro okaru rakapovadam endhi bro..

 

evaru lekunda manage cheyyadam - last option pettuko bro

Try hiring Nanny .. Ikkada nundi ayina or from India

ledha take help from your in laws, immediate cousins or close friends .. konni days intlo undhi helping hand istaremo ani atleast food and other things ki..

Nuvvu nite antha melokini undaalsi vastadhi appudappudu (when your wife is ill/tired etc etc) .. malli morning job + intlo panulu ante too much ayipotadhi - nuvvu ill avocchu ee time schedule tho.. just heads up..