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[Paidithalli]

3 minutes ago, Avakashavadi said:

Money was never an issue, thanks to my ancestors who made sure they saved the properties for later generations and that is my strength. and with land prices rising, my confidence in them is getting boosted..

Thinking to go back, start my Ph.D(Something I started but never went through), spend 4-5 years , work on my thesis...will have enough time to spend with my family, kids, parents...

 

[Avakashavadi]

I don;t know, How many people who plan to go back is because of family, but for me I think its a priority...

Mom and Dad, she is 58 and dad is 62...they are active and healthy, retired and have a tensed free life after working their ass off to make sure I get better education and quality of life. They stay home and spend quality social time.

I'm married now...Kids will happen soon, I will be 35+ when I plan to move back to India...

I can rescind the olden days where kids had wonderful time with their grand parents, Where I can have peaceful time with my parents which was not possible earlier, Can take care of things in my favour and I will be priority for everyone..

if I had choose between jobs,visas,immigration or decent time with family...I think I'm inclined towards family...

 

[Jobsforeveryone]

7 minutes ago, Avakashavadi said:

I have been out of India since 2007...Bagane tirigina sadukunna, udyogalu chesina. aninto intho jara paisal gitla jamachesina...But in the last 11 years, not even one year kuda oka place lo sarigga lenu...the lengthiest being in LA its little over year and half now. 

Naalo edo problem vundi anukunna kani, reality is that I can't stay in same house, same city or place for a long time or cant even do the same for long time...I need dynamic life, changing life...I'm trying to make life dynamic here...i'm not restricted to just IT field..edi aina pani chesukunta, paisal sampainchukunta...recently I even tried my hands at fixing houses, renting cars, blah blah...I love to do explore life..

and last two years nundi, started thinking about life...entha mechanical life, everyday fear of job, visa extensions, prosperity, wife, kids, house, cars, insurance...these are the only things I have been thinking about and life..came to a dead end..!!!

Naa Priority date is Feb 2016...and if i'm waiting for the GC to come by then I think i'm biggest fool here...I lost a lot earning dollars..

Now, I have decided to go back...may not be for good but for a while atleast..

 

 

Interesting, good luck man. I hope you find a stable life in India. 

[Jobsforeveryone]

1 minute ago, Avakashavadi said:

I don;t know, How many people who plan to go back is because of family, but for me I think its a priority...

Mom and Dad, she is 58 and dad is 62...they are active and healthy, retired and have a tensed free life after working their ass off to make sure I get better education and quality of life. They stay home and spend quality social time.

I'm married now...Kids will happen soon, I will be 35+ when I plan to move back to India...

I can rescind the olden days where kids had wonderful time with their grand parents, Where I can have peaceful time with my parents which was not possible earlier, Can take care of things in my favour and I will be priority for everyone..

if I had choose between jobs,visas,immigration or decent time with family...I think I'm inclined towards family...

 

Good decision bro. End of the day, parents should be everyone's priority as we are what we are today because of them. No matter whatever people think, we should decide our life and we should take care of our parents. 

[Paidithalli]

Just now, Avakashavadi said:

I don;t know, How many people who plan to go back is because of family, but for me I think its a priority...

Mom and Dad, she is 58 and dad is 62...they are active and healthy, retired and have a tensed free life after working their ass off to make sure I get better education and quality of life. They stay home and spend quality social time.

I'm married now...Kids will happen soon, I will be 35+ when I plan to move back to India...

I can rescind the olden days where kids had wonderful time with their grand parents, Where I can have peaceful time with my parents which was not possible earlier, Can take care of things in my favour and I will be priority for everyone..

if I had choose between jobs,visas,immigration or decent time with family...I think I'm inclined towards family...

 

nijanga eeyala repu poragallani chusthe navvalno, edvalno ardham kadhu.. eppud phone lu, ipad lu... okkasari manam alavatu chesthe vodhilipettaru.. india lo mana chinnapdu enni aatalu adukunetollam.. urlallo unte goteelu nunchi gully cricket dhaka..edhi vadhalakunda aadetollam. pillalu ikkada perigithe chala advantages untayemo.. kani chala miss avtharu

[Desi_guy]

Just now, Jobsforeveryone said:

Good decision bro. End of the day, parents should be everyone's priority as we are what we are today because of them. No matter whatever people think, we should decide our life and we should take care of our parents. 

[Jobsforeveryone]

24 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

jobs kosam Hyd e dhikku kadha  bro.. but KNR kuda not much far.. 100 miles e ga... aa pilla kuda single child. so two-sides parents ki kuda india lone unte baguntadhani undhi 

Good. Hyderabad lo untene jobs and other financial options ekkuvaga untayi. KNR takes 10-15 more years to develop. Lucky you got that family who supports your plan. 

[Avakashavadi]

Just now, Jobsforeveryone said:

Interesting, good luck man. I hope you find a stable life in India. 

Honestly, I'm not looking for stable life either...I probably might have a stable life here in US if I can some habits but stability is making me more sober...My energy is running out...I will not have the same energy as I have today 10 years later...I will probably be thinking about nutritional chart before I eat anything a decade later...

and India is growing at 8% and assured growth for another 20 years. Bright spot...anyone who can tap this, can reap harvest quickly...Want to go back and do something where I can use brain better...

 

[Jobsforeveryone]

8 minutes ago, jua_java said:

all these threads are mere sollu...evadu kuda change ni accept cheyaledu....ikkada alavatu padda vadu sache daka ikkade vundali ani poradatadu..evaraini vachi tarimeste tappa antha pedda decision tesukoru. but still goo time pass for weekend disco  lets continueee vuuuuuuuuuuu

hahaha, brother not everyone thinks in your way right? Everyone has their priorities set and if you still think that this thread is sollu and all, I can't help you . But anyways, cheers.

[Avakashavadi]

2 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

nijanga eeyala repu poragallani chusthe navvalno, edvalno ardham kadhu.. eppud phone lu, ipad lu... okkasari manam alavatu chesthe vodhilipettaru.. india lo mana chinnapdu enni aatalu adukunetollam.. urlallo unte goteelu nunchi gully cricket dhaka..edhi vadhalakunda aadetollam. pillalu ikkada perigithe chala advantages untayemo.. kani chala miss avtharu

Coming to Kids...no doubt that american kids are much smarter but when it comes to survival, they cannot take a decision quickly and aptly...

 But India, society teaches you to be tough..hard..it will make you hard..it will teach you importance of survival and life, I want my kids to hit back hard at people who bullies them instead of going to teacher or coming back home to complain...

Street Smart....! This is what I want my kids to be ...not rich, not highly educated...but want to make sure they are street smart...! 

[Avakashavadi]

5 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

nijanga eeyala repu poragallani chusthe navvalno, edvalno ardham kadhu.. eppud phone lu, ipad lu... okkasari manam alavatu chesthe vodhilipettaru.. india lo mana chinnapdu enni aatalu adukunetollam.. urlallo unte goteelu nunchi gully cricket dhaka..edhi vadhalakunda aadetollam. pillalu ikkada perigithe chala advantages untayemo.. kani chala miss avtharu

bachpan mein...poddugala 7-8 am ki cricket adadam start pedithe evening dark ayevaraku adetollam...a summer la...40 degrees heat la...now, we can't live without AC for a minute..!!! 

gotilu..tamper goti..lingochi...marampeti..and all those mind games..its out door...complete outdoor..

[Avakashavadi]

13 minutes ago, jua_java said:

all these threads are mere sollu...evadu kuda change ni accept cheyaledu....ikkada alavatu padda vadu sache daka ikkade vundali ani poradatadu..evaraini vachi tarimeste tappa antha pedda decision tesukoru. but still goo time pass for weekend disco  lets continueee vuuuuuuuuuuu

That was the criteria earlier...with visa regimes changing so fast and uncertainty prevailing, the option of going back to India has just started popping up in the brain...

end of the day, its a choice..! 

[Jobsforeveryone]

9 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

nijanga eeyala repu poragallani chusthe navvalno, edvalno ardham kadhu.. eppud phone lu, ipad lu... okkasari manam alavatu chesthe vodhilipettaru.. india lo mana chinnapdu enni aatalu adukunetollam.. urlallo unte goteelu nunchi gully cricket dhaka..edhi vadhalakunda aadetollam. pillalu ikkada perigithe chala advantages untayemo.. kani chala miss avtharu

Paidi bhayya, nenu oorlo putti KNR lo chadivina. Naaku oorante chachentha ishtam. oorlo unde aatalanni aadetonni chinnappudu... Pedda pedda agricultural wells and canals lo swim chesetonni. Avanni gurthu thechukoni maa amma and wife tho share cheskunta every now and then. Manam aadinanni aatalu mana mundu generation vallu aadaledu and ippati generation vallu aadaru. This generation is the most ** up generation I feel and I seriously pity them. Every body is hooked up to their mobile phones and games in them. I have bought few acres of land in an hour distance from Hitech city and now I have decided to start farming and construct a small farm house there and take my kid there every evening after his school. Chudaali ee plans anni work out aithayo ledo.... 

[Jobsforeveryone]

12 minutes ago, Avakashavadi said:

Honestly, I'm not looking for stable life either...I probably might have a stable life here in US if I can some habits but stability is making me more sober...My energy is running out...I will not have the same energy as I have today 10 years later...I will probably be thinking about nutritional chart before I eat anything a decade later...

and India is growing at 8% and assured growth for another 20 years. Bright spot...anyone who can tap this, can reap harvest quickly...Want to go back and do something where I can use brain better...

 

Honestly, one of my going back reasons is the growth rate of India clocked at 8% for the next 20 years. Man, it will be very interesting to live there when India is growing at that speed. And absolutely, anyone who can take risk and work hard can reap the benefits quickly than working here for the same pay check over the next 20 years. 

[Jobsforeveryone]

8 minutes ago, Avakashavadi said:

bachpan mein...poddugala 7-8 am ki cricket adadam start pedithe evening dark ayevaraku adetollam...a summer la...40 degrees heat la...now, we can't live without AC for a minute..!!! 

gotilu..tamper goti..lingochi...marampeti..and all those mind games..its out door...complete outdoor..

Gotilu, sirra gone, swimming, cricket non stop from 8Am to 6PM, Volleyball, carrom board, chess masthu games aadetollam chinnappudu. Seriously man, sometimes I feel those days are the best. Even watching a one day cricket match used to be full of tensed and fun in those days.