Precautions before marriage

[ronitreddy]

1 minute ago, dakumangalsingh said:

 

Endukankul mee lanti ankuls ki malanti uth ante chinna chupu 

LOL..Yeah mee lanti thinking maaku enduku ledu ani chinna choopu

[NinduChandurudu]

6 hours ago, Staysafebro said:

Ikkada discussions and recent news choosaka, I want to be a little thorough. Before saying yes what are the precautions we have to take?

I am thinking of asking for medical reports and putting in a nuptial agreement. Konchem bhayanga undhi. I earn more and have more property to lose if something happens. Should I ask my parents to not keep any property on my name? I am not asking for any dowry or anything. If her parents want to give anything to her it is their wish. No talk from my side. Asale ammayilu ippudu maa parents ni adagandi ani cheppi later 498a vestharu. They are very cunning these days. 

If there is a fight record chesukovala? Chaala mandi husbands fight cheyakapoyina domestic violence case kinda book chesetharu. We have to be vary of that too. I think the relatives are also liable for that too. 

Ammayi meeda bharosa unte ivi Yevi avasaram ledhu ana kandi. We have to be aware these days. Abbayi entha manchiga unna bokkalo veyistharu without batting an eyelid for their selfish reasons. Abbayenti parents ni relatives ni kooda jail lo pettistharu. Kothaga pelli ayinappudu ivi ekkuvaga alochincham. But after you are married for a few years, ninnu marchaleka poyamano, nee meeda istam thaggadam vallano, they will try to manipulate you and get you in trouble. Inkaa TV lakkekinchi nee name bad cheyadaaniki kooda try chestharu. I have thought of these precautions. Inka emayina alochinchala? Any other suggestions or precautions?

also check social media accounts 

[dakumangalsingh]

3 minutes ago, ronitreddy said:

LOL..Yeah mee lanti thinking maaku enduku ledu ani chinna choopu

Btw nenu suggestions emi iyale still nannu tagulukunnav chudu 

[Staysafebro]

2 minutes ago, NinduChandurudu said:

also check social media accounts 

Closed group lo untayi man anni. They don’t want to reveal anything. So IG and Facebook are private. 

[Staysafebro]

1 hour ago, Unityunity said:

Really are you don't know. Thee are lot of private agencies are there in Hyd.. but we can trust all.. 

Ammayi ikkadunna thelusthunda?

[dakumangalsingh]

Just now, Staysafebro said:

Ammayi ikkadunna thelusthunda?

Ikkada vuntey telidu Nee sources ni pattukovadame like University lo chadivina frnds mutual frnds evadoo okadu telisthune vuntayii kada world is a small place at times. 

[NinduChandurudu]

3 minutes ago, Staysafebro said:

Closed group lo untayi man anni. They don’t want to reveal anything. So IG and Facebook are private. 

yes...i know a girl who hangs out with many boys but doesnt post any pics with them on social media

[VijayDevarakonda]

2 minutes ago, NinduChandurudu said:

yes...i know a girl who hangs out with many boys but doesnt post any pics with them on social media

Can you ask why she can't post any pics with boys on social media

[Staysafebro]

1 hour ago, whatsapp said:

https://www.venusdetective.com/matrimonial-detective-agency-in-hyderabad/

 

4 minutes ago, NinduChandurudu said:

yes...i know a girl who hangs out with many boys but doesnt post any pics with them on social media

After a lot of arguments, some suggestions on how I should be cautious. I mean naakayithe bgc chestharu anatam idhe first time.

[Android_Halwa]

6 hours ago, Staysafebro said:

Ikkada discussions and recent news choosaka, I want to be a little thorough. Before saying yes what are the precautions we have to take?

I am thinking of asking for medical reports and putting in a nuptial agreement. Konchem bhayanga undhi. I earn more and have more property to lose if something happens. Should I ask my parents to not keep any property on my name? I am not asking for any dowry or anything. If her parents want to give anything to her it is their wish. No talk from my side. Asale ammayilu ippudu maa parents ni adagandi ani cheppi later 498a vestharu. They are very cunning these days. 

If there is a fight record chesukovala? Chaala mandi husbands fight cheyakapoyina domestic violence case kinda book chesetharu. We have to be vary of that too. I think the relatives are also liable for that too. 

Ammayi meeda bharosa unte ivi Yevi avasaram ledhu ana kandi. We have to be aware these days. Abbayi entha manchiga unna bokkalo veyistharu without batting an eyelid for their selfish reasons. Abbayenti parents ni relatives ni kooda jail lo pettistharu. Kothaga pelli ayinappudu ivi ekkuvaga alochincham. But after you are married for a few years, ninnu marchaleka poyamano, nee meeda istam thaggadam vallano, they will try to manipulate you and get you in trouble. Inkaa TV lakkekinchi nee name bad cheyadaaniki kooda try chestharu. I have thought of these precautions. Inka emayina alochinchala? Any other suggestions or precautions?

Pre-nuptial is a good arrangement and atleast it will give an idea of expectations. 

Property emaina vunte parents mida ne vundani kudirithe...tondara emundi ? See if things work fine for first few years, you would be in a situation to gauge the situation and then you can transfer the property on your name..

 

[VijayDevarakonda]

Just now, Staysafebro said:

 

After a lot of arguments, some suggestions on how I should be cautious. I mean naakayithe bgc chestharu anatam idhe first time.

Nee tension chusthu vuntee nuvvu pelli chesukokundane sache tatuvunav. 

Marry a simple girl who is average nee life baguntundhi

[NinduChandurudu]

6 minutes ago, VijayDevarakonda said:

Can you ask why she can't post any pics with boys on social media

intlo no antaru bhai..adhe chepindi..they said not to post any pics with boys..marriage appudu prob avuddi ani

[VijayDevarakonda]

1 minute ago, Android_Halwa said:

Pre-nuptial is a good arrangement and atleast it will give an idea of expectations. 

Property emaina vunte parents mida ne vundani kudirithe...tondara emundi ? See if things work fine for first few years, you would be in a situation to gauge the situation and then you can transfer the property on your name..

 

Abbai name meeda vunna properties ni emii cheyamantav @Android_Halwa

[VijayDevarakonda]

1 minute ago, NinduChandurudu said:

intlo no antaru bhai..adhe chepindi..they said not to post any pics with boys..marriage appudu prob avuddi ani

elanti porilannu chesukunte husband ekadiki vellina second hand antaru

[NinduChandurudu]

chala mandi ammailu untaru atla..insta lo mottam ammailatho pics untai..real life lo ala undadu...they just get warned at home..nuvv evadtho ayina tirugu photos pettaku antaru...do u know what..girls think a lot while taking selfies with boys..as it might be a prob in future....single selfies no antaru...group lo unte they dont care