Jumpingjapaku Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 Plz serious reply’s no comments maku marriage ayyi more then 10years 2kids husband chala ista padi pelli chesukunnadu konni issues vasthe naku vadu ani chepina ,ma parents accept chepinchi chesukunta annadu. ma husband ki Nenu ante chala istam adi main problem valla parents asalu chulakanaga chudatam ma parents care cheyakpovatam ala delivery ki vachi em cheyakapovatam chala badhalu even delivery ayyana ventenne Nenu cook chesi pettanu baby kuda chudaledu,delivery time lo trauma am sensitive and manchi family background avi husband ki telusu he supported me tarvatha chala issues nenu na husband kalvakunda chala issues chesaru nenu India lo with baby but ma husband godava chesi fil ki 10lkahs enjoy chesuko kani Na wife pampinchu ante appudu memu kalisamu ma intiki relatives intiki vachi godava na koduku akkada settle kaledu kids karchulu kid pedha ayyaka vellamanu,delivery time lo Nenu narakam chusanu valla torture even delivery time lo na pakkane vunta chustha ani godava ,new born baby not even month baby tho trips dani valla naku effect na kid ki effect lifelong.after baby tho ekkadiki vachaka akkada valla Dady ex relatives tho ela chesthunnadu ani husband ki chepthe ,maku godavalu a godvalu advantage tesukoni lawyer ne matladadu fil asked for divorce ,but after that godava memu happy ga vunnamu next day India nundi phones adi ma husband realized then stopped talking about me . ma fil chala cunning ma husband earnings motham india ki pampadu Neeku pedha chestha ani kani akkada pampina amount half kuda ledu ,motham other kids ki echasadu ma husband kopam vachindi but still talking but edo parents ani Nenu vallani motham avoid chesina India lo ediana function avthe na parents pilvaru kani na parents ex relatives vallaki asalu sambandham Ledu vallani pilustharu viceversa even ma ex relatives tho kalisi issues pedha cheyatam . takkuva cheyatam cheap g matladatam My sil Emmo ma brother not sending anything not taking caring ani chepatam instead she took 20lakhs from my husband and blaming me and my husband they never called me and my kids even after second baby Nenu call chesi adigane they didn’t respond na second baby 4years appti nundi we stoped sending our earnings we saved and brought house ,so photos pampinchadu vallaki chepadu kani we didn’t invite Naku appadu newborn and 2kids kastam avthadi ani na parents kuda eppudu invite cheyaledu . invite cheyaledu ani they stoped talking and his sister reply to house photos is horrible , ma husband silent ga vunnadu kani Naku mathram chala hurt ayyanu Fil reply Nenu penchanu pedha chesanu Naku right vundi ,but ma husband edcaution loans and even they didn’t pay 5000rupees for visa he took from cousin . Sil management fee house build chethe help chesadu more then 20lakhs brother eduaction 10lakhs (uk) marriage reciptiom ki 5k and now eppudu house ki 20lakhs Mil ki 10thulas gold sil ki gold sil kids ki gold even fil ki gold more then 25thulas annatiki nenu silent ga vunna inka eppudu ma intiki vastharu ante Naku vallu ante kopam vundi ma husband ki memu change ayyanmu value telusthundi ani chepthunnaru kani naku nammakam ledu evaru em annukunna Nenu oka sari kuda vallani oka mata analedu valla antaru but vallu nannu eppudu accept cheyaledu even ma parents naku echina money tho india lo ma attha ki daughter ki sarees konichanu. I tried my best to mingle with them but enni jargina tarvatha kuda vallani chudadu anukunna but ma husband now blackmailing me and beating me to keep silent they will come .everyday is mess and having anxiety and health issues .naku inlaws ante kopam and anthakana bayam , stress valla Heath issues and na heart rate chala ekkuva vundi because of the anxiety.ma parents inlaws vasthunaru ante vallaki chala bayam ya vundi because Nenu suicide attempt chesanu fil husband rechakottadu ma husband parents ni full thittadu dady legs meeda paduthe neetasadu . after marriage in 10years Na parents meet 3times mathram ayyanu because India ki velthe issues ani eppudu adi kuda vaddu antunnadu,ma parents ekkada pilavadu they came for my delivery and asked money from them after the trip. nduku life anipisthundi 2kids struck ayyanu ,divorce ante parents not supporting me 2kids tho bayam ga vundi .collger topper but chala gap husband alle cheyaledu work ki plz no bad comments ma husband db follower at least me suggestion chusi neechukuntadu he don’t have frnds he don’t talk to anyone accept fil .atleast ela ayyana naku help avthudni ani ela post . Quote
Crazy_Robert Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 idhedho maa vodi story laa undhe... taking screenshot Quote
tacobell fan Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 6 minutes ago, Crazy_Robert said: idhedho maa vodi story laa undhe... taking screenshot Quote
Fish Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 sorrry for your situation firsf stand on your feet...look for job which gives you confidence...there is nothing impossible in life 1 Quote
AndhraneedSCS Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 I dont think I understand everything in detail. People change. I think your husbands parents may have changed too. Discuss with your husband and give them a chance. Tell your husband that you want to mingle with your family as well. Even if you don't like, your kids should know who their ancestors are. If they don't behave well with you, then it's up to your husband to restore the existing situation. Hope he stands up and be for you. Quote
Spartan Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 me FIL ikkada vachaka... sexual abuse cheyaboyadu ani 911 ki call cheyi...bokkalo tostaru .. me aina vidpinchi vallani india pampistadu..a bhayam to husband ninnu kottadu..vallu malli US ki raaru... Quote
Crazy_Robert Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 for you sister.. strong ga undu ...mee husband lo sudden change pakkanedithe.. athanu manchodu annav kadha... nayano...bayano athanu konchem nee mata vinela chusko... (grip lo petkodam kadhu). inka valla parents ki, in laws ki pettadam ayina ishtam.. but andharu adalla laga kuda kakunda nuvvu urkunnandhuku happy. athaniki close friends , cousins unte vallatho ardham ayyela cheppinchadam better ani naa feeling. ila suicide lu, depression lu kakunda ayanatho baguntu.. settle cheskovali ilanti matters. pellam mogudlani... inlaws kadhu kadha dhevudu vocchina vidadheeyaledu.. keep calm and be strong.. things will get better. Quote
Crazy_Robert Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 1 minute ago, Spartan said: me FIL ikkada vachaka... sexual abuse cheyaboyadu ani 911 ki call cheyi...bokkalo tostaru .. me aina vidpinchi vallani india pampistadu..a bhayam to husband ninnu kottadu..vallu malli US ki raaru... bane undhi kani.. anavasaram ga ala abandalu vesthe... tharvatha divorce adhi idhi ani lolli lolli chestharu.. so konchem careful ga undali ilanti matters. 2 kids unnaru.. Quote
Biskot Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 Asalu ee Kalam lo kuda intha badha paduthu vundala.... take divorce ,topper antunau ga .. job easy ga vasthadi .. you have a strength .. raise your kids and plan your life ... be happy . i know cheppi nantha easy kadhu , but think ... release from jail .. oka vela na sister unna e position la adhey cheptha.. Appudu pothamo manake telidu .. endhuku intha racha .. step forward .. 1 Quote
Spartan Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 13 minutes ago, Crazy_Robert said: bane undhi kani.. anavasaram ga ala abandalu vesthe... tharvatha divorce adhi idhi ani lolli lolli chestharu.. so konchem careful ga undali ilanti matters. 2 kids unnaru.. ikkada oka sari jail ki pampiste chalu...next time divorce lolli undadu.. valla husband elago US vadili velladu..illu avanni unnai ga. Quote
srdh21 Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 1 hour ago, Jumpingjapaku said: Plz serious reply’s no comments maku marriage ayyi more then 10years 2kids husband chala ista padi pelli chesukunnadu konni issues vasthe naku vadu ani chepina ,ma parents accept chepinchi chesukunta annadu. ma husband ki Nenu ante chala istam adi main problem valla parents asalu chulakanaga chudatam ma parents care cheyakpovatam ala delivery ki vachi em cheyakapovatam chala badhalu even delivery ayyana ventenne Nenu cook chesi pettanu baby kuda chudaledu,delivery time lo trauma am sensitive and manchi family background avi husband ki telusu he supported me tarvatha chala issues nenu na husband kalvakunda chala issues chesaru nenu India lo with baby but ma husband godava chesi fil ki 10lkahs enjoy chesuko kani Na wife pampinchu ante appudu memu kalisamu ma intiki relatives intiki vachi godava na koduku akkada settle kaledu kids karchulu kid pedha ayyaka vellamanu,delivery time lo Nenu narakam chusanu valla torture even delivery time lo na pakkane vunta chustha ani godava ,new born baby not even month baby tho trips dani valla naku effect na kid ki effect lifelong.after baby tho ekkadiki vachaka akkada valla Dady ex relatives tho ela chesthunnadu ani husband ki chepthe ,maku godavalu a godvalu advantage tesukoni lawyer ne matladadu fil asked for divorce ,but after that godava memu happy ga vunnamu next day India nundi phones adi ma husband realized then stopped talking about me . ma fil chala cunning ma husband earnings motham india ki pampadu Neeku pedha chestha ani kani akkada pampina amount half kuda ledu ,motham other kids ki echasadu ma husband kopam vachindi but still talking but edo parents ani Nenu vallani motham avoid chesina India lo ediana function avthe na parents pilvaru kani na parents ex relatives vallaki asalu sambandham Ledu vallani pilustharu viceversa even ma ex relatives tho kalisi issues pedha cheyatam . takkuva cheyatam cheap g matladatam My sil Emmo ma brother not sending anything not taking caring ani chepatam instead she took 20lakhs from my husband and blaming me and my husband they never called me and my kids even after second baby Nenu call chesi adigane they didn’t respond na second baby 4years appti nundi we stoped sending our earnings we saved and brought house ,so photos pampinchadu vallaki chepadu kani we didn’t invite Naku appadu newborn and 2kids kastam avthadi ani na parents kuda eppudu invite cheyaledu . invite cheyaledu ani they stoped talking and his sister reply to house photos is horrible , ma husband silent ga vunnadu kani Naku mathram chala hurt ayyanu Fil reply Nenu penchanu pedha chesanu Naku right vundi ,but ma husband edcaution loans and even they didn’t pay 5000rupees for visa he took from cousin . Sil management fee house build chethe help chesadu more then 20lakhs brother eduaction 10lakhs (uk) marriage reciptiom ki 5k and now eppudu house ki 20lakhs Mil ki 10thulas gold sil ki gold sil kids ki gold even fil ki gold more then 25thulas annatiki nenu silent ga vunna inka eppudu ma intiki vastharu ante Naku vallu ante kopam vundi ma husband ki memu change ayyanmu value telusthundi ani chepthunnaru kani naku nammakam ledu evaru em annukunna Nenu oka sari kuda vallani oka mata analedu valla antaru but vallu nannu eppudu accept cheyaledu even ma parents naku echina money tho india lo ma attha ki daughter ki sarees konichanu. I tried my best to mingle with them but enni jargina tarvatha kuda vallani chudadu anukunna but ma husband now blackmailing me and beating me to keep silent they will come .everyday is mess and having anxiety and health issues .naku inlaws ante kopam and anthakana bayam , stress valla Heath issues and na heart rate chala ekkuva vundi because of the anxiety.ma parents inlaws vasthunaru ante vallaki chala bayam ya vundi because Nenu suicide attempt chesanu fil husband rechakottadu ma husband parents ni full thittadu dady legs meeda paduthe neetasadu . after marriage in 10years Na parents meet 3times mathram ayyanu because India ki velthe issues ani eppudu adi kuda vaddu antunnadu,ma parents ekkada pilavadu they came for my delivery and asked money from them after the trip. nduku life anipisthundi 2kids struck ayyanu ,divorce ante parents not supporting me 2kids tho bayam ga vundi .collger topper but chala gap husband alle cheyaledu work ki plz no bad comments ma husband db follower at least me suggestion chusi neechukuntadu he don’t have frnds he don’t talk to anyone accept fil .atleast ela ayyana naku help avthudni ani ela post . worrying too much typically involves bad experiences, those bad experience can damage your thinking ability in this scenario, you "worrying about entry of In Laws/reintroduction of past problems" may not be problem at all, discussing with husband about disconnecting in any form is going to irritate him rather than you predicting bad situations and reacting, you should let you husband experience any negative outcomes himself if his parents attitude has not changed Its not easy to take care of family in US with single income, if more financial obligations are added, it will be very stressful for you husband itself, stop worrying and just enjoy their presence get some remedy for anxiety, get proper physicals done.. "SOMETIMES THINKING ITSELF IS A BIGGER PROBLEM THAN THE POTENTIAL PROBLEM THAT HAS NOT YET OCCURED" Quote
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