srdh21 Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 31 minutes ago, Crazy_Robert said: bane undhi kani.. anavasaram ga ala abandalu vesthe... tharvatha divorce adhi idhi ani lolli lolli chestharu.. so konchem careful ga undali ilanti matters. 2 kids unnaru.. absolutely true, husband will abandon wife as well and he may develop unnecessary sympathy towards parents his FIL can enforce complete authority over her husband, she can cry for damaging whatever relationship she has with hubby Quote
Jumpingjapaku Posted July 17, 2018 Author Report Posted July 17, 2018 Naku asalu work experience ledu 10 years gap .divorce ante kids tho bayam ga vundi .entha chepina ayyana na mata vinnadu ,dady ante entha bayapaduthara even my kid she is 10years anni Ardham avthunayi ,dady vaddu Amma manam India velipodham ani badha paduthadi,kids mundu godava chesthadu koduthadu ,oka sari emergency ki vellanu cops vacharu kani nenu chepaledu ,records ki velthe prblm avthadi ani Cousiling ki veldham(Doctor Nenu suicide attempt chesinapudu suggest chesaru botu need counseling )records velthadi vaddu bagane vunnam kada antadu. nenu vaddu ante godava chesi ma parents call chesi valane thiduthadu,vallaki health issues they lost money because of relatives ,so valla issues vallaki vunnayi ,Na meeda complaints cheyataniki call chesi vallani ebandi peduthadu ,a bayam tho nenu adjust avthunna .dady ki brain clots, Amma ki bp. Quote
srdh21 Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 26 minutes ago, Jumpingjapaku said: Naku asalu work experience ledu 10 years gap .divorce ante kids tho bayam ga vundi .entha chepina ayyana na mata vinnadu ,dady ante entha bayapaduthara even my kid she is 10years anni Ardham avthunayi ,dady vaddu Amma manam India velipodham ani badha paduthadi,kids mundu godava chesthadu koduthadu ,oka sari emergency ki vellanu cops vacharu kani nenu chepaledu ,records ki velthe prblm avthadi ani Cousiling ki veldham(Doctor Nenu suicide attempt chesinapudu suggest chesaru botu need counseling )records velthadi vaddu bagane vunnam kada antadu. nenu vaddu ante godava chesi ma parents call chesi valane thiduthadu,vallaki health issues they lost money because of relatives ,so valla issues vallaki vunnayi ,Na meeda complaints cheyataniki call chesi vallani ebandi peduthadu ,a bayam tho nenu adjust avthunna .dady ki brain clots, Amma ki bp. you are suffering from anxiety, the sooner you address this, its better for your family suicide attempt is not merely an accident, its an indication of much bigger issue there is nothing wrong in visiting a psychiatrist if you really want to change your life if you do not wish to get medical treatment for this cause, read good books about natural remedies for anxiety look for a functional medical doctor in your area, functional doctors work differently by addressing the problem instead of symptoms typical to formal doctors, they may even add nutritional supplementation https://drbrighten.com/healing-anxiety-functional-medicine/ its really hard for you to accept the truth in such situation, because you are not able to distinguish between your own rights and wrongs, you need to talk to your friends who can help you distinguishing your mistakes on daily basis depression is a serious problem, it has affected rich and suppose to be happy people too, what makes it tough is your family will alienate you due to your behavioural symptoms instead of understanding you, the best thing is to initiate the though of correcting yourselves first youtube lo ample ideas unnayi to heal anxiety, try them none of your husbands activities are abnormal, those are actually quite similar to many folks.. vallandari wives suicide chesukovadam ledu.. they are trying to fix them 2 Quote
Jumpingjapaku Posted July 17, 2018 Author Report Posted July 17, 2018 Am not in suicide tendency ,adi 7 years back appudu ma age 21 ,22 .now am strong ,kids kosam mathram na life enni kastalu vachina na kids kosam brathukuthanu,kids nenu lekunda vundaleru. Quote
Spartan Posted July 17, 2018 Report Posted July 17, 2018 nakoka doubt... me aina em job chestad...? US lo own house, india ki almost 50L cash, oka 30 tolas gold.. em pani chestad...just curious... Quote
Crazy_Robert Posted July 18, 2018 Report Posted July 18, 2018 3 hours ago, srdh21 said: absolutely true, husband will abandon wife as well and he may develop unnecessary sympathy towards parents his FIL can enforce complete authority over her husband, she can cry for damaging whatever relationship she has with hubby +1 Quote
srdh21 Posted July 18, 2018 Report Posted July 18, 2018 2 hours ago, Spartan said: nakoka doubt... me aina em job chestad...? US lo own house, india ki almost 50L cash, oka 30 tolas gold.. em pani chestad...just curious... 10 yrs back vachina vallaki possible ee ippudunnanni expensive divergences levu (visiting SC's, casinos etc).. people used to save a lot, housing was way cheaper than it is now Quote
LadiesTailor Posted July 18, 2018 Report Posted July 18, 2018 to hear your story.... recent ga same situation maa close circle lo ayyundi... MIL and FIl torture peduthunte 911 ki call chesi domestic violence case pettindhi... appati nunchi both in laws ki ammayu ante pack.. husband ki kooda... wife no job and iddaru kids ante vaadi jeetham lo 75% vellake ivvalsi vastundani nijam telisi no divorce talks also... I'm not saying to do the same to your family but this is your Brahmastra... use it as last option instead of hurting yourself... Try to listen to your husband first and welcome your inlaws.... vallu change ayyu bagunte antha happies.. if not jarigindhi jariginattu mee husband ki cheppu... support cheyyakunte you know what to do... Quote
vendettaa Posted July 18, 2018 Report Posted July 18, 2018 16 hours ago, Jumpingjapaku said: Plz serious reply’s no comments maku marriage ayyi more then 10years 2kids husband chala ista padi pelli chesukunnadu konni issues vasthe naku vadu ani chepina ,ma parents accept chepinchi chesukunta annadu. ma husband ki Nenu ante chala istam adi main problem valla parents asalu chulakanaga chudatam ma parents care cheyakpovatam ala delivery ki vachi em cheyakapovatam chala badhalu even delivery ayyana ventenne Nenu cook chesi pettanu baby kuda chudaledu,delivery time lo trauma am sensitive and manchi family background avi husband ki telusu he supported me tarvatha chala issues nenu na husband kalvakunda chala issues chesaru nenu India lo with baby but ma husband godava chesi fil ki 10lkahs enjoy chesuko kani Na wife pampinchu ante appudu memu kalisamu ma intiki relatives intiki vachi godava na koduku akkada settle kaledu kids karchulu kid pedha ayyaka vellamanu,delivery time lo Nenu narakam chusanu valla torture even delivery time lo na pakkane vunta chustha ani godava ,new born baby not even month baby tho trips dani valla naku effect na kid ki effect lifelong.after baby tho ekkadiki vachaka akkada valla Dady ex relatives tho ela chesthunnadu ani husband ki chepthe ,maku godavalu a godvalu advantage tesukoni lawyer ne matladadu fil asked for divorce ,but after that godava memu happy ga vunnamu next day India nundi phones adi ma husband realized then stopped talking about me . ma fil chala cunning ma husband earnings motham india ki pampadu Neeku pedha chestha ani kani akkada pampina amount half kuda ledu ,motham other kids ki echasadu ma husband kopam vachindi but still talking but edo parents ani Nenu vallani motham avoid chesina India lo ediana function avthe na parents pilvaru kani na parents ex relatives vallaki asalu sambandham Ledu vallani pilustharu viceversa even ma ex relatives tho kalisi issues pedha cheyatam . takkuva cheyatam cheap g matladatam My sil Emmo ma brother not sending anything not taking caring ani chepatam instead she took 20lakhs from my husband and blaming me and my husband they never called me and my kids even after second baby Nenu call chesi adigane they didn’t respond na second baby 4years appti nundi we stoped sending our earnings we saved and brought house ,so photos pampinchadu vallaki chepadu kani we didn’t invite Naku appadu newborn and 2kids kastam avthadi ani na parents kuda eppudu invite cheyaledu . invite cheyaledu ani they stoped talking and his sister reply to house photos is horrible , ma husband silent ga vunnadu kani Naku mathram chala hurt ayyanu Fil reply Nenu penchanu pedha chesanu Naku right vundi ,but ma husband edcaution loans and even they didn’t pay 5000rupees for visa he took from cousin . Sil management fee house build chethe help chesadu more then 20lakhs brother eduaction 10lakhs (uk) marriage reciptiom ki 5k and now eppudu house ki 20lakhs Mil ki 10thulas gold sil ki gold sil kids ki gold even fil ki gold more then 25thulas annatiki nenu silent ga vunna inka eppudu ma intiki vastharu ante Naku vallu ante kopam vundi ma husband ki memu change ayyanmu value telusthundi ani chepthunnaru kani naku nammakam ledu evaru em annukunna Nenu oka sari kuda vallani oka mata analedu valla antaru but vallu nannu eppudu accept cheyaledu even ma parents naku echina money tho india lo ma attha ki daughter ki sarees konichanu. I tried my best to mingle with them but enni jargina tarvatha kuda vallani chudadu anukunna but ma husband now blackmailing me and beating me to keep silent they will come .everyday is mess and having anxiety and health issues .naku inlaws ante kopam and anthakana bayam , stress valla Heath issues and na heart rate chala ekkuva vundi because of the anxiety.ma parents inlaws vasthunaru ante vallaki chala bayam ya vundi because Nenu suicide attempt chesanu fil husband rechakottadu ma husband parents ni full thittadu dady legs meeda paduthe neetasadu . after marriage in 10years Na parents meet 3times mathram ayyanu because India ki velthe issues ani eppudu adi kuda vaddu antunnadu,ma parents ekkada pilavadu they came for my delivery and asked money from them after the trip. nduku life anipisthundi 2kids struck ayyanu ,divorce ante parents not supporting me 2kids tho bayam ga vundi .collger topper but chala gap husband alle cheyaledu work ki plz no bad comments ma husband db follower at least me suggestion chusi neechukuntadu he don’t have frnds he don’t talk to anyone accept fil .atleast ela ayyana naku help avthudni ani ela post . Hi 10yrs tarvata mee husband tittadam kottadam chestunnadu? na advise don't comment his family ,silent ga undandi mee kids mee husband ni baga chuskondi.kids unnaru kabatti mee husband me marriage ke preference istaru calm n cool ga undandi don't think much about inlaws n their tantrums avi alochiste mee burra and health padavtadi 10yrs career gap is nothing ,I have seen women getting into jobs after 10 to 15 yrs gap.i have my cousin she got married at 21 and ventane kids ,then babu Ki 12 yrs vachaka then she started working as Magistrate danikimundu intlone intu Law practise chesindi 1 yr.Job main and independent ga unte edoka career avagation unte ivanni problems mana mind Loki ravu Health jagratta,gynecologist ni consult cheyandi ,e anxiety levels pergadaniki hormonal imbalances reason untay,lot of women go through that almost 90% so ignore cheyakunda kapuram paducheskovaddu Quote
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