Pumpuhaar Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 Mast baadha padtaru parents but they don’t tell you.....nuvve ardam cheskoni povale man 2 Quote
karthikn Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 5 hours ago, BabeJustin11 said: very hard to decide to go to india and stay with them or stayin usa and earn some money......naku ayithe india povali ae undi...any thoughts Same here. If you are interested go. What is the difference if family had 2 kids and both settled in US? Quote
Amrita Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 1 minute ago, karthikn said: Same here. If you are interested go. What is the difference if family had 2 kids and both settled in US? Agreed. Ghar ghar ki kahani...what if both kids are daughters and abroad? It makes it more pathetic. Son in law should be ready to move and sacrifice career. Old ayyaka anna tappadu to go appadivaraku every year vallani techukovadam for 6 months is a reasonable short term solution. Quote
AlaElaAlaEla Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 Just now, Amrita said: Agreed. Ghar ghar ki kahani...what if both kids are daughters and abroad? It makes it more pathetic. Son in law should be ready to move and sacrifice career. Old ayyaka anna tappadu to go appadivaraku every year vallani techukovadam for 6 months is a reasonable short term solution. thats better temp solution to get them for 6 months. Iddaru sons unte, okaru India lo ne undatam better. That way things will be balanced. 2 daughters ante thappadu. Quote
Amrita Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 1 minute ago, AlaElaAlaEla said: thats better temp solution to get them for 6 months. Iddaru sons unte, okaru India lo ne undatam better. That way things will be balanced. 2 daughters ante thappadu. Yeah..sometimes i feel we messed up and complicated our lives. Immigration wise stability ledu...poni podichi sampadinchesindi ledu though i agree we are at a better place than we would be in India..mental peace ledu ..anubhavistondi ledu....parents orphans ayyaru...manam sukhapadatledu vallani sukhapadatledu. They at the least dont complain that they are lonely neither ask to come and visit them thinking of our financial and immigration issues. Undalem polemu 1 Quote
karthikn Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 6 minutes ago, Amrita said: Agreed. Ghar ghar ki kahani...what if both kids are daughters and abroad? It makes it more pathetic. Son in law should be ready to move and sacrifice career. Old ayyaka anna tappadu to go appadivaraku every year vallani techukovadam for 6 months is a reasonable short term solution. yep.. unna experience tho india pothe iwill be in disappointment daily.. but will plan 6 months ravadam should be OK, i guess Quote
karthikn Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 1 minute ago, Amrita said: Yeah..sometimes i feel we messed up and complicated our lives. Immigration wise stability ledu...poni podichi sampadinchesindi ledu though i agree we are at a better place than we would be in India..mental peace ledu ..anubhavistondi ledu....parents orphans ayyaru...manam sukhapadatledu vallani sukhapadatledu. They at the least dont complain that they are lonely neither ask to come and visit them thinking of our financial and immigration issues. Undalem polemu sure aa.. if you were from middle class you won't say like this Quote
Amrita Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 3 minutes ago, karthikn said: yep.. unna experience tho india pothe iwill be in disappointment daily.. but will plan 6 months ravadam should be OK, i guess My parents don't come for 6 months but 2-3 months ki every year they are coming for last 3-4 years. Myself and my sibling visit every other year so that they feel someone is coming every year. Quote
AlaElaAlaEla Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 Just now, Amrita said: Yeah..sometimes i feel we messed up and complicated our lives. Immigration wise stability ledu...poni podichi sampadinchesindi ledu though i agree we are at a better place than we would be in India..mental peace ledu ..anubhavistondi ledu....parents orphans ayyaru...manam sukhapadatledu vallani sukhapadatledu. They at the least dont complain that they are lonely neither ask to come and visit them thinking of our financial and immigration issues. Undalem polemu thats true. Main dragging for all of us here will be the same things, missing our parents and extended family. reminded me Nuv naku nachav movie lo venkatesh cheppe dialogue ..its so sensible and convincing.. Quote
Amrita Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 2 minutes ago, karthikn said: sure aa.. if you were from middle class you won't say like this Money in bank is not sukham or traveling and visiting places is not sukham at least for me. Sukham def could be different for different people. 1 Quote
Amrita Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 3 minutes ago, AlaElaAlaEla said: thats true. Main dragging for all of us here will be the same things, missing our parents and extended family. reminded me Nuv naku nachav movie lo venkatesh cheppe dialogue ..its so sensible and convincing.. Agreed Quote
karthikn Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 7 minutes ago, Amrita said: Money in bank is not sukham or traveling and visiting places is not sukham at least for me. Sukham def could be different for different people. improving parents living standards by many folds is sukham.. better house and stuff Quote
Amrita Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 Just now, karthikn said: improving parents living standards by many folds is sukham.. better house and stuff Could be . I haven't got that opportunity and will never get one as my both parents are working and they never took a penny. They honestly don't know my salary too. All i could ever do to them is ikkadiki vaste i take them to places around as i have a feeling they sacrificed all their life for us and never enjoyed life. Quote
SeemaLekka Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 16 minutes ago, AlaElaAlaEla said: thats true. Main dragging for all of us here will be the same things, missing our parents and extended family. reminded me Nuv naku nachav movie lo venkatesh cheppe dialogue ..its so sensible and convincing.. endi aa dialog maku kuda gurthucheyyaradu Quote
Amrita Posted July 23, 2018 Report Posted July 23, 2018 1 minute ago, SeemaLekka said: endi aa dialog maku kuda gurthucheyyaradu Quote
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