Why do a lot of Asian American women exclusively date white guys in college, but marry an Asian man and settle later in life?

[karthikn]

1 minute ago, Deadp0ol2 said:

white guy can pick any girl he wants.....it is easy for them....mana desi men kante galeez ga a race lo evadu undadu, groups la tirugutaar, em maatladalo etla maatladalo telvadu, kompu kodtaa untaru, cartoon laaga kanipistaru....most importantly boring ppl on the planet.....desis ki tella di paddadi ante daanidi mother teresa manasu anna ayyi undaale leda desi gaani paisal kosam anna padi undaale 

If a desi guy roams with his own gang, never explores local culture or creates his own interests and even on weekends biryani and big boss shows, never ends up marrying an amru unless he pays or that lady is a single mom..

But I saw few cases where the guy impressed papa. But be needs to be ajeeb according to telugu standards.. This telugu gang will tag him as something offending and think of themselves as high

[dakumangalsingh]

14 minutes ago, karthikn said:

Yeah.. If one is a neck beard guy living in mom's basement complains that women are shallow etc.. Slowly eats the red pill and becomes anti feminist.. 

I recently read a book named Models by Mark Manson.. It was spot on. So much self reflection.. That book changed my perspective about dating in general, how women hate men who are needy, who doesn't have any qualities specific to him.like telugu guys roaming as a group, Friday night parties, fighting over heroes and politicians.(I was partially the Same and changed now) . But doesn't have any qualities which uniquely define him. Finding and Working towards self-interests is more important 

whats this red pill ankul

[uttermost]

2 minutes ago, karthikn said:

If a desi guy roams with his own gang, never explores local culture or creates his own interests and even on weekends biryani and big boss shows, never ends up marrying an amru unless he pays or that lady is a single mom..

But I saw few cases where the guy impressed papa. But be needs to be ajeeb according to telugu standards.. This telugu gang will tag him as something offending and think of themselves as high

what's wrong with telugu papas? asking seriously. they seem nice enough to me.

s0rry for harranguing, but I think you are getting carried away. There's no need to lose yourself to get a chick. Its okay to be boring biriyani eating cricket watching guy.

Its almost impossible to achieve what you described, really. some of those that do, go too far away from where they are comfortable, and it does affect their life.

the main aim is to be happy, no?

[uttermost]

1 minute ago, dakumangalsingh said:

whats this red pill ankul

[dakumangalsingh]

1 minute ago, uttermost said:

nee avva,

I think bhakts need it

[uttermost]

okay at the risk of lecturing (which I do shamelessly anyway).. there are no hierarchies. whites are not better or anything.

they are not something that should be aimed at. Yeah, american culture is a good thing to aspire to, in some ways, but you are not going to internalize that culture unless you give up your own.

you can't play both sides.

[Deadp0ol2]

7 minutes ago, uttermost said:

culture. not race. people date within cultures, not race. american born Indian will find a black/white chick without any problems. if you expect giselle bundchen level white chick, that atyaasha.

No man is as awesome tht he can pick any girl he wants.

you are right...Indian born indian men anaale....but particular ga white people have a good hit ratio

[dakumangalsingh]

Just now, uttermost said:

okay at the risk of lecturing (which I do shamelessly anyway).. there are no hierarchies. whites are not better or anything.

they are not something that should be aimed at. Yeah, american culture is a good thing to aspire to, in some ways, but you are not going to internalize that culture unless you give up your own.

you can't play both sides.

that's how the word ABCD came

[karthikn]

1 minute ago, uttermost said:

what's wrong with telugu papas? asking seriously. they seem nice enough to me.

s0rry for harranguing, but I think you are getting carried away. There's no need to lose yourself to get a chick. Its okay to be boring biriyani eating cricket watching guy.

Its almost impossible to achieve what you described, really. some of those that do, go too far away from where they are comfortable, and it does affect their life.

the main aim is to be happy, no?

White papa avasaram ledhu. As Deadpool generalized desis I told I saw few scenarios.. Nothing wrong with telugu papas..I will marry one obviously 😀

You need to dominate your lane and be allergic to average Ani motivational speaker Eric Thomas videos chustha.. I try to follow as I acknowledged that I am being average and try to be better 

[uttermost]

Just now, dakumangalsingh said:

nee avva,

I think bhakts need it

that is literally the red pill ba.

the concept is that the world we live in is maaya.. and the red pill guys will show us the truth how women are dominating social structures and taking men for  a ride both economically and sexually.

its a wonderful world with lots of people claiming to have fcuked many dozens of women, and have suddenly been turned off by them, because they are manipulative b1tches or something like that. I forgot.

[Deadp0ol2]

11 minutes ago, karthikn said:

If a desi guy roams with his own gang, never explores local culture or creates his own interests and even on weekends biryani and big boss shows, never ends up marrying an amru unless he pays or that lady is a single mom..

But I saw few cases where the guy impressed papa. But be needs to be ajeeb according to telugu standards.. This telugu gang will tag him as something offending and think of themselves as high

you are spot on....This is what I am saying 

[uttermost]

2 minutes ago, karthikn said:

White papa avasaram ledhu. As Deadpool generalized desis I told I saw few scenarios.. Nothing wrong with telugu papas..I will marry one obviously 😀

You need to dominate your lane and be allergic to average Ani motivational speaker Eric Thomas videos chustha.. I try to follow as I acknowledged that I am being average and try to be better 

ok. to each his own.

I don't try to dominate, rather bring down people who try to

and then refuse to take that place.

[uttermost]

5 minutes ago, dakumangalsingh said:

that's how the word ABCD came

but they are not confused at all, no? my wife was born in Canada.

[karthikn]

2 minutes ago, uttermost said:

ok. to each his own.

I don't try to dominate, rather bring down people who try to

and then refuse to take that place.

that's one way to win 

[dakumangalsingh]

Just now, Deadp0ol2 said:

you are right...Indian born indian men anaale....but particular ga white people have a good hit ratio

andulo alpha beta categories levaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

nuvvu cheppedi antha A U B ee akkada

but migitha cases existence loki consider chesthalevu

it all depends on how u hit it, problems with ~99% of desis is they aren't trying ante fear of rejection what they are made up of and also hitting and dating a girl is frowned upon in Indian culture and hence they are not good at that game ante kaani well groomed kaadu, curry kampu, or roam in groups biggboss chusudu reasons kaavu for desis not being desirable.