Why do a lot of Asian American women exclusively date white guys in college, but marry an Asian man and settle later in life?

[dakumangalsingh]

3 minutes ago, panipoori said:

I mean sex wouldn't be a taboooo to an extent

sex or prostitution

sex taboo aithe india lo antha population vuntada

[panipoori]

Just now, dakumangalsingh said:

sex or prostitution

sex taboo aithe india lo antha population vuntada

Sex is still a taboo topic in india? Not doing sex

When sex is sold legally in market it wouldn't be taboo

[Staysafebro]

9 hours ago, Pumpuhaar said:

white man is a hero....anni races tho compare cheste white ppl have better chances of getting laid by any kind of race people...this is fact, chaala asian women fantasize white man just like most of asian men fantasize white women...

White women don’t fantasize about white men though. Vallaki Nigeria nalla jaathi ante chaala istam. Infact white men are inferior to nalla jaathi in bed. 

[uttermost]

1 minute ago, panipoori said:

Sex is still a taboo topic in india? Not doing sex

When sex is sold legally in market it wouldn't be taboo

s3x will never be sold like a commodity in a society that cares for its women. unless we are talking of sexbots.

if you are talking about women's right to exchange their time for some cash, that's different from commoditization, that turns women into literal cattle, and property for someone (a pimp) to own for a particular time.

prostitution is not illegal in India by the way. Only solicitation and pimping is illegal. but yes, its a social taboo, and laws cannot change it. these activities will still be confined to the fringes of the town, or in specific marked places and will not be welcome in residential areas with glee.

codifying prostitution into law brings with a range of issues that is impossible for a conservative society like India to handle. For eg. violence against women indulging in prostitution, rape of prostitutes, all these are discussions that Indian society is not ready to deal with.

[dasara_bullodu]

10 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

is question is amusing because I've seen this happen quite often. So let me explain in layman's terms…

Asian-American women I've known who exhibited this behavior have justified dating outside their ethnicity for the following reasons (each correlates with one or the other):

1. They were brought up under strict Tiger Parents who controlled their social life.
2. They had a strict father who was borderline abusive, thus blamed the entire male of their species for their father's behavior.
3. They were raised in conservative Asian culture inside the home, but exposed to a liberal American culture outside. They chose to become more American.

So you can say it's a combination of dislike of their parents’ culture, dislike of their father, dislike towards their own ethnicity, and being in college… Having more freedom to do and date whomever they please. Think of it as the reverse of the guy sowing his oats but as payback to their family.

Now do you know the saying by John Adams that goes…

“If a person is not a liberal when he is twenty, he has no heart; if he is not a conservative when he is forty, he has no head.

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[dasara_bullodu]

7 hours ago, Deadp0ol2 said:

Ante first date roju chemata kampu tho pakkana koosoni porini patainchochu antaav anthe na?...nuvvu chepetivi anni better possibilities nen cheppetivi konni facts...renditiki teda undi, Also "dating a girl is frowned upon in Indian culture" ekkada raasi undi idi mana culture lo?  India lo datings a cheskora?....em maatladtunav

Endo aa first two venn diagrams chuste chilipi ga anipistondi

[panipoori]

2 minutes ago, uttermost said:

s3x will never be sold like a commodity in a society that cares for its women. unless we are talking of sexbots.

if you are talking about women's right to exchange their time for some cash, that's different from commoditization, that turns women into literal cattle, and property for someone (a pimp) to own for a particular time.

prostitution is not illegal in India by the way. Only solicitation and pimping is illegal. but yes, its a social taboo, and laws cannot change it. these activities will still be confined to the fringes of the town, or in specific marked places and will not be welcome in residential areas with glee.

codifying prostitution into law brings with a range of issues that is impossible for a conservative society like India to handle. For eg. violence against women indulging in prostitution, rape of prostitutes, all these are discussions that Indian society is not ready to deal with.

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I am aware of that point.

But still am not sure if a legalized regulating body could counter the problems that you mentioned.

I believe these kind of professions should be taken only on free will and things like human trafficking should be mitigated

[uttermost]

1 minute ago, panipoori said:

I am aware of that point.

But still am not sure if a legalized regulating body could counter the problems that you mentioned.

I believe these kind of professions should be taken only on free will and things like human trafficking should be mitigated

forget about India for the next 30yrs. India is in early stage capitalism (casteism is the only thing that's blocking it from taking over Indian society), and things like women's rights won't be anything more than handwaving.

India is the place to make money (if you are uppercaste and are connected) and Indians are not interested in fairness for now. When they get fcuked in the arse (the moneyed educated middle class),  which they will, then they will start thinking about fairness one by one.

[uttermost]

7 minutes ago, panipoori said:

I am aware of that point.

But still am not sure if a legalized regulating body could counter the problems that you mentioned.

I believe these kind of professions should be taken only on free will and things like human trafficking should be mitigated

human trafficking cannot be countered by legalizing prostitution. in fact, human trafficking will be licensed activity, and come under protection of the state.

but prostitutes will still have a hard time filing a case against those who cheated them promising a job, and pushed them into prostitution.

[panipoori]

2 minutes ago, uttermost said:

human trafficking cannot be countered by legalizing prostitution. in fact, human trafficking will be licensed activity, and come under protection of the state.

but prostitutes will still have a hard time filing a case against those who cheated them promising a job, and pushed them into prostitution.

Let's take porn stars for an example. I don't think porn stars are forced into the business, I think it's out of their necessity(money) they come and act.  And again this is free will.

Yeah forget India.  not limiting  legalization should be pertaining to a single country

 

[fake_Bezawada]

12 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

 

1. Indian men are untrained violent animals in bed. Sexually they know nothing and a prostitute I know said that she never accepts Indian clients as they bruise and bite her.