Mrudul Cherukupalli - RIP - GoFundMe

[Biskot]

12 minutes ago, soodhilodaaram said:

biscuits baaga tintaavanukunta..anduke stress ledu neeku

slow ga buildup avutundi US lo enni GC rakunda stable job lekunda unte.

chalu ee life ke..... @aathcare aney attitude ke vachesina nenu.. dheniki tension tiskonu , eyyanu.   

[lucky7]

1 minute ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

 

he got heartattack and died anni news pampadu na friend 

[lucky7]

folks, i learned a lesson, since i heard that news, sunday nunchi mind lo death gurinche thirruguthundhi mind antha

i am 35 and having bad cholestrol/over weight,  contracting job and so so ga nadusthundi 12 years ayindhi US vachi, married with 2 kids. Antha baga sampadhinchaka poyyina earned decent pay only. 

what if i ......? anni vokathe thinking, all these are waste kada, job stress, hands vankuthunnayyi appathi nunchi, sarigga concentration cheyyabudhi kavatam ledu work lo. 

going/trying to change below stuff 

1. stop sending money to india or stop saving ..etc, Koncham Enjoy cheddam annukuntunna life ni with Family 

2. Stop worrying about job, unte undhi pothe poyindhi ==> Life is very important anni pisthundhi, 

3. Money is not that important, Time well spent is important anni pishtundhi ,  nenu india lo family ki adhi chessa idhi chessa, 5 apartments konna, lands konna, ni venta ravvu when u r gone and no one cares. 

Inka mind lo enno ennonno thinking from the last 3 plus days, 

4. Listening to hanuman challisa daily and started listening to ramayanam by chaganti day 8 varaku vinna. ............. inka challa unnayyi have to complete them all. 

 

Any suggestions also welcome or lessons 

[soodhilodaaram]

34 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

folks, i learned a lesson, since i heard that news, sunday nunchi mind lo death gurinche thirruguthundhi mind antha

i am 35 and having bad cholestrol/over weight,  contracting job and so so ga nadusthundi 12 years ayindhi US vachi, married with 2 kids. Antha baga sampadhinchaka poyyina earned decent pay only. 

what if i ......? anni vokathe thinking, all these are waste kada, job stress, hands vankuthunnayyi appathi nunchi, sarigga concentration cheyyabudhi kavatam ledu work lo. 

going/trying to change below stuff 

1. stop sending money to india or stop saving ..etc, Koncham Enjoy cheddam annukuntunna life ni with Family 

2. Stop worrying about job, unte undhi pothe poyindhi ==> Life is very important anni pisthundhi, 

3. Money is not that important, Time well spent is important anni pishtundhi ,  nenu india lo family ki adhi chessa idhi chessa, 5 apartments konna, lands konna, ni venta ravvu when u r gone and no one cares. 

Inka mind lo enno ennonno thinking from the last 3 plus days, 

4. Listening to hanuman challisa daily and started listening to ramayanam by chaganti day 8 varaku vinna. ............. inka challa unnayyi have to complete them all. 

 

Any suggestions also welcome or lessons 

start using headspace app.. you will learn to calm down whenever you hit stress

calm, headspace chaala vachayi

12 yrs US ninchi india lo chesindi chaalu, enjoy your life here.. buy home let kids enjoy their home

india lo people think money comes easily here, aa mindset change avvalante dont send if not urgent and critical need

stop travelling too much to india and plan for vacations in US/Europe/South America

when you stop sending money to people other to parents (only critical needs), neeku ardham avutundi value neeka money kaa ani..you case may be different .. but try it out

when you stop worrying about work, you will end up doing much better at work

discliamer : applicable aite take it, lecturing ante leave it 

 

[Thanos]

1 hour ago, lucky7 said:

folks, i learned a lesson, since i heard that news, sunday nunchi mind lo death gurinche thirruguthundhi mind antha

i am 35 and having bad cholestrol/over weight,  contracting job and so so ga nadusthundi 12 years ayindhi US vachi, married with 2 kids. Antha baga sampadhinchaka poyyina earned decent pay only. 

what if i ......? anni vokathe thinking, all these are waste kada, job stress, hands vankuthunnayyi appathi nunchi, sarigga concentration cheyyabudhi kavatam ledu work lo. 

going/trying to change below stuff 

1. stop sending money to india or stop saving ..etc, Koncham Enjoy cheddam annukuntunna life ni with Family 

2. Stop worrying about job, unte undhi pothe poyindhi ==> Life is very important anni pisthundhi, 

3. Money is not that important, Time well spent is important anni pishtundhi ,  nenu india lo family ki adhi chessa idhi chessa, 5 apartments konna, lands konna, ni venta ravvu when u r gone and no one cares. 

Inka mind lo enno ennonno thinking from the last 3 plus days, 

4. Listening to hanuman challisa daily and started listening to ramayanam by chaganti day 8 varaku vinna. ............. inka challa unnayyi have to complete them all. 

 

Any suggestions also welcome or lessons 

I plan at least one big vacation per year , whatever the cost is , oka one week leave teesukoni veltha 8-9 days happy ga , helps me a great deal in relaxing and having some personal satisfaction

I see our desis not enjoying life with the money they earn , entha sepu cinemalu anthe  , 50+ aithe oopika chala taggutundi so you can not visit some places even if you want to because of health etc 

not saying you have to travel if you are not interested , find something you like and enjoy

Plan for some secondary income , this will relieve some stress about job 

no matter what you buy , there will always be something to buy , bigger car , bigger house etc , so learn to be content , savings undatam must , but life antha savings ante waste , kontha mandini choosa , intlo sariga furniture kuda undadu ( parents vasthe kinda padukopettatam etc) , they live poor , bayata baga build up ,fake ga undatam kante be true to yourself and be happy

 

 

 

[Nasavunensastha]

1 hour ago, lucky7 said:

Papam na training class mate, last 5 months nunchi day and night working, he is working in AIG Fortworth, TX via Cap Gemini FT. 

Last thrusday night we discussed about practicing this weekend, Sunday morning got the news 😢 He is 42 and worked as Manager in SAP HANA/BW now from the last 5 months working as Splunk Developer. AIG lo work/stress, project extend ayidho ledo anni tension pade vadhu eppudu. 

 

So sad bro

[Nasavunensastha]

5 minutes ago, Thanos said:

I plan at least one big vacation per year , whatever the cost is , oka one week leave teesukoni veltha 8-9 days happy ga , helps me a great deal in relaxing and having some personal satisfaction

I see our desis not enjoying life with the money they earn , entha sepu cinemalu anthe  , 50+ aithe oopika chala taggutundi so you can not visit some places even if you want to because of health etc 

not saying you have to travel if you are not interested , find something you like and enjoy

Plan for some secondary income , this will relieve some stress about job 

no matter what you buy , there will always be something to buy , bigger car , bigger house etc , so learn to be content , savings undatam must , but life antha savings ante waste , kontha mandini choosa , intlo sariga furniture kuda undadu ( parents vasthe kinda padukopettatam etc) , they live poor , bayata baga build up ,fake ga undatam kante be true to yourself and be happy

 

 

 

This is so true bro

[Nasavunensastha]

1 hour ago, lucky7 said:

folks, i learned a lesson, since i heard that news, sunday nunchi mind lo death gurinche thirruguthundhi mind antha

i am 35 and having bad cholestrol/over weight,  contracting job and so so ga nadusthundi 12 years ayindhi US vachi, married with 2 kids. Antha baga sampadhinchaka poyyina earned decent pay only. 

what if i ......? anni vokathe thinking, all these are waste kada, job stress, hands vankuthunnayyi appathi nunchi, sarigga concentration cheyyabudhi kavatam ledu work lo. 

going/trying to change below stuff 

1. stop sending money to india or stop saving ..etc, Koncham Enjoy cheddam annukuntunna life ni with Family 

2. Stop worrying about job, unte undhi pothe poyindhi ==> Life is very important anni pisthundhi, 

3. Money is not that important, Time well spent is important anni pishtundhi ,  nenu india lo family ki adhi chessa idhi chessa, 5 apartments konna, lands konna, ni venta ravvu when u r gone and no one cares. 

Inka mind lo enno ennonno thinking from the last 3 plus days, 

4. Listening to hanuman challisa daily and started listening to ramayanam by chaganti day 8 varaku vinna. ............. inka challa unnayyi have to complete them all. 

 

Any suggestions also welcome or lessons 

Don worry too much bro..u vl b ok njoy ur life with ur family and kids 😊

[lucky7]

11 minutes ago, Nasavunensastha said:

Don worry too much bro..u vl b ok njoy ur life with ur family and kids 😊

will try my best bro, lets c how it goes. 

[lucky7]

18 minutes ago, Thanos said:

I plan at least one big vacation per year , whatever the cost is , oka one week leave teesukoni veltha 8-9 days happy ga , helps me a great deal in relaxing and having some personal satisfaction

I see our desis not enjoying life with the money they earn , entha sepu cinemalu anthe  , 50+ aithe oopika chala taggutundi so you can not visit some places even if you want to because of health etc 

not saying you have to travel if you are not interested , find something you like and enjoy

Plan for some secondary income , this will relieve some stress about job 

no matter what you buy , there will always be something to buy , bigger car , bigger house etc , so learn to be content , savings undatam must , but life antha savings ante waste , kontha mandini choosa , intlo sariga furniture kuda undadu ( parents vasthe kinda padukopettatam etc) , they live poor , bayata baga build up ,fake ga undatam kante be true to yourself and be happy

 

 

 

eppudu plan chesukuntam bro, kanni kids tho n money wise, contracting job, project after project travelling and moving  eppudu idhe tensions, money money job job.  10 plus years in IT lo vacation eppudu thissokoledu, have to take this year. 

[Thanos]

@lucky7

add going to parks with lot of trees or hiking trails etc to your list , janalu lenappudu chala peaceful ga untayi , stressbuster

[Thanos]

2 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

eppudu plan chesukuntam bro, kanni kids tho n money wise, contracting job, project after project travelling and moving  eppudu idhe tensions, money money job job.  10 plus years in IT lo vacation eppudu thissokoledu, have to take this year. 

switch to fte man , salary koncham takkuva vachina peace of mind , vacations , flexibility will help

[lucky7]

Just now, Thanos said:

@lucky7

add going to parks with lot of tress or hiking trails etc to your list , janalu lenappudu chala peaceful ga untayi , stressbuster

ya mind poyindhi bro, 3 days nunchi, today only koncham calm ayindhi, just training class mate anthe, ayina kuda aaa feeling baga matlade vadhu <name> garu  andhi late ayindhi ... inka a words ye mind lo unnayyi, not sure how his wife is taking it. 

[lucky7]

1 minute ago, Thanos said:

switch to fte man , salary koncham takkuva vachina peace of mind , vacations , flexibility will help

already 2 FT's rod pettarru bro (IBM US/ TJX Boston) GC process lo, so came out of it in 2015 and doing contracting, contracting ye best anni pisthundhi soddi politics levvu 

[Thanos]

1 minute ago, lucky7 said:

ya mind poyindhi bro, 3 days nunchi, today only koncham calm ayindhi, just training class mate anthe, ayina kuda aaa feeling baga matlade vadhu <name> garu  andhi late ayindhi ... inka a words ye mind lo unnayyi, not sure how his wife is taking it. 

yeah , pretty scary , nenu chese company lo oka vendor bhayya fainted due to heart issues last year , he was critical ,  took time off for 1.5 months , he is back anuko now but ilanti choosthe anipistundi , 2-3% hike kosam ivvani avasarama ani..

training class mate ante? online training aa?