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Ilanti sensible issues ki india poyi settle cheskovali , few months time padutundi, usa lo untuu problems aithe solve cheyalevu, properties unte bane go to india n sort them out, mental tortire kanna eluva kadu kada usa lo stay ?

Posted
2 minutes ago, khabardar said:

already ma dad ki bp and sugar.. e lafoot tensions tho .. inka health going down.. 

Every family is having similar story 

So disruptive 

USA woman are better it seems

Posted
10 minutes ago, khabardar said:

proprty isthe ..ma brother pakka-> ma parents ni next day.. get out annadu ani bayam tho ma parents ivadam istam ledu bro.. otherwise.. koduku ivakudadu ani undadu kada.. ma anna em chuskuntado god knws ..e lopu ma vadina.. torture ma amma bare chestadi ani naku hopes levu..

 

 dagara undi fights badulu.. dooram undadam best bro.. 

 

dooram ekkada pedtav man.. will you be there for them? you cant be.. do you have close family that can be around? if so, thats not bad too. but this is the most important thing bro.. in like 5-10 years, they will need extensive support either from your brother or your relatives because you are in us.. do anything that helps them in that age.

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1 minute ago, badexample said:

 

dooram ekkada pedtav man.. will you be there for them? you cant be.. do you have close family that can be around? if so, thats not bad too. but this is the most important thing bro.. in like 5-10 years, they will need extensive support either from your brother or your relatives because you are in us.. do anything that helps them in that age.

ma parents ki helping hand ane day vasthe pakka nenu pota bro.. e usa life chusina .i am not at all desperate to live here. 

Posted
1 hour ago, khabardar said:

is it possible? son is harassing for the money ani udnha ala

200%

Posted
47 minutes ago, khabardar said:

m married bro.... property medha asalu naku mind ledu..honestly ..

ma parents ni adi edi ante.. i cant bare anthe.. already ma dad 20 lakhs loan ichadu for  my brother business by using house papers as surety. nenu oka mata annaledu.. kakapothe they are playing wid my parents adi bada naku .. ma brother ki brain undali....... e time lo.. 

property medha asalu naku mind ledu..honestly ..

Alanukuntene me anna vadina valaki easy access aitadi ni weakness "manchithanam" ani ardam cheskoni me parents ni pressure chestaru ..

purely psychological game adutaru...edi avani tondarapadaku...oka rupai kuda panchi evaru epudu...em cheskuntaro cheskondi ani nuvuu gatiga chepeantavaraku vinaru..

meanwhile me parents ni us trip ki plan chesko.

 

 

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1 hour ago, khabardar said:

ma parents ki chukkalu chipistunadu .. ma brother..bcoz vaddi wife matalu pattukoni............  nenu emo usa lo unna...

only 2 sons..  hw to get ride of this issue.. ma parents ki istam ledu appude property ni split chesi ivadam.. future lo chestam ani .. not now.. ani antunaru..

m supporting my parents.. anduku nenu rebel ayanu ma brother ki......... ma brother emo pellam em chebithe ade.. .. yemian case pettistara ani bayam ga undhi. like dowry / mother in law harrsment.. to be honest, my parents never involved in it. 

 

already ma parents vaddu thali..intlo undadam..  pakka poration lo poi undadani annaru.. 30 days.. kani e 1 month lo yemi chesipotaro ani bayam.. own house ye madi

If you are not married, it’s better not to split the property...

but if you are married, for no future complications ...split the property into three parts with one part with your mother, one part for you and the third for your mother and let the father be without any property left as long as it ancestral and if it self earned, it’s your father’s wish. 

Mee anna ki pelli ayina tarvata ilantinissues pop up avutunnai ante, not good sito stay under same roof and use common kitchen....

better to live separately..! 

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ee one month mee parents ni edhaina ooru/theertha yathralaki vellamanu... vachesariki mee thammudu and wife ni dengeyamanu intlo nundi..

property ivvali ani law em ledu... your dad and mom can ask your brother to fcuk right off

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Just now, Android_Halwa said:

If you are not married, it’s better not to split the property...

but if you are married, for no future complications ...split the property into three parts with one part with your mother, one part for you and the third for your mother and let the father be without any property left as long as it ancestral and if it self earned, it’s your father’s wish. 

Mee anna ki pelli ayina tarvata ilantinissues pop up avutunnai ante, not good sito stay under same roof and use common kitchen....

better to live separately..! 

Don’t get me wrong but, rendu chetulu kalisthene chapatlu

so...blind ga me parents ki support cheyaku fa try to find out what exactly happened first and use your judgement wisely..

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Just now, chittimallu2 said:

ee one month mee parents ni edhaina ooru/theertha yathralaki vellamanu... vachesariki mee thammudu and wife ni dengeyamanu intlo nundi..

property ivvali ani law em ledu... your dad and mom can ask your brother to fcuk right off

Property ivala ani law ledu anukovadam moorkhatvam....swayana sampaichina aasthi mida taruvata taraniki hakkulu vuntayi, adi tandri maranam tarvata...

tarataraluga vastunna aaaathi mida taruvata taram lo 18 years minchina vallaki hakku vuntadi...

Posted
2 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Don’t get me wrong but, rendu chetulu kalisthene chapatlu

so...blind ga me parents ki support cheyaku fa try to find out what exactly happened first and use your judgement wisely..

if case.. ma parents thappu undhi.. ma anna and vadina vallu manchi  vallu anukundam..

 

But oka mata parentsmanalani anna  .. mana age batch sardukoni povali thappa.. vallu oka mata ananru ani manamu rendu ante.. inka manamu em respect ichunattu vallaki chepu bro.. 

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Asthi pampakam degara kastha jagrathaga vundandi...emaina tedalu vasthe anavasaranga Court ki potadi...it will be lying disputes for years and decades...

Posted
Just now, khabardar said:

if case.. ma parents thappu undhi.. ma anna and vadina vallu manchi  vallu anukundam..

 

But oka mata parentsmanalani anna  .. mana age batch sardukoni povali thappa.. vallu oka mata ananru ani manamu rendu ante.. inka manamu em respect ichunattu vallaki chepu bro.. 

I’m not saying your parents di thappu and all...

nuv situation ni ok neutral stand tho chudu....its nothing but clear case of miscommunication and misunderstandings...topped with ego issues. 

Present generation vallaki respect anedi okappudu ichinatu ivaru...akada kuda masthu differences vastayi..I pity for your brother who is now struck between wis wife whom he would be sharing for the rest of the life and his parents whom he was with until now..

Posted
15 minutes ago, khabardar said:

ma parents ki helping hand ane day vasthe pakka nenu pota bro.. e usa life chusina .i am not at all desperate to live here. 

Bro, unless Immigration issues force, there is very little chance of you going back. That is considering all the people I met who desperately wanting to go back and who actually did. Keep their comfort as the key in choosing your resolution.

Posted
8 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Property ivala ani law ledu anukovadam moorkhatvam....swayana sampaichina aasthi mida taruvata taraniki hakkulu vuntayi, adi tandri maranam tarvata...

 tarataraluga vastunna aaaathi mida taruvata taram lo 18 years minchina vallaki hakku vuntadi...

nenu annadhi sons/daughters ki hakku undadu ani... it only kicks in from grand kids generation... 

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