Biased husband...big trouble ----Married Life

[Spartan]

It’s been two years to our marriage. My husband is extremely caring about his parents; he cared for them more than me always. He is the only son. I am a working women and I am financially independent. I always expected my husband to provide me some money for my monthly expenses. Please let me know if this thought is wrong…

Whenever I ask him for money he says that I have to give money at home and I can’t give you any money. My mother in law is very demanding and controlling and she knows that my husband has a soft corner for her and therefore she takes the advantage of this fact as much as she can. She keeps asking for money from him and he keeps giving her, at that time he does not feel that he is in a financial crunch. He has a housing loan on him. When it comes to me, there is no money and for her there is always money. I feel he is biased all the time.

My in laws have controlling nature and they have tried to dominate me a lot and because of this nature, I wanted to stay separately with my husband. When we talked about this, a big scene was created at home where everyone was shouting. My husband couldn’t say a word and they kept insulting me. We could never move out. My husband told me that he cannot stay away from his parents. It’s been 2 years to our marriage and things are still the same. The entire house is controlled by my mother in law and if she says something, it has to be the final verdict for my husband. My father in law is a puppet for my mother in law. He only does what she says and has no opinion of his own. I am pregnant, second month is going on. I am in a deep distress, what to do with my situation. I think that a person who does not give me money and does not feel that I am important how he is going to treat the baby. I feel suffocated in that house. My life has become extremely difficult.

Ours is a love marriage, but what he showed before marriage and what he turned out to be after marriage was completely different.

My parents had told me that I won’t be able to be happy with him. But I trusted him and went ahead with the marriage because he assured me that he will take care of everything and nothing of that sort happened after marriage. I feel that I don’t have any right to hurt my parents so I keep taking life as it is but I feel extremely depressed, sad, not cared for and suffocated. Please tell me what I should do.

[Run]

Ghar Ghar Ki Kahani

[CricPokChic]

moral of the story:Listen to ur parents first....

[MiryalgudaMaruthiRao]

@k2s

[solman]

BB2 host nani laga biased aaa ani @Nellore_peddareddi asking

[uttermost]

wtf is biased husband.. haha..

its called asshole.  

[Chirupoo]

After baby 👶 priorities will change. Then start the same strategy of your mother in-law until things are balanced. No need to ignore or create hatred ness among family members. For more information watch free daily Serials on TV for training. 

Further if things are not getting better, come back to same thread and post the situation. AFDB will be held completely responsibility for your situation and you can take action.

[littlestar]

calling MaruthiRao

[k2s]

1 hour ago, Spartan said:

It’s been two years to our marriage. My husband is extremely caring about his parents; he cared for them more than me always. He is the only son. I am a working women and I am financially independent. I always expected my husband to provide me some money for my monthly expenses. Please let me know if this thought is wrong…

Whenever I ask him for money he says that I have to give money at home and I can’t give you any money. My mother in law is very demanding and controlling and she knows that my husband has a soft corner for her and therefore she takes the advantage of this fact as much as she can. She keeps asking for money from him and he keeps giving her, at that time he does not feel that he is in a financial crunch. He has a housing loan on him. When it comes to me, there is no money and for her there is always money. I feel he is biased all the time.

My in laws have controlling nature and they have tried to dominate me a lot and because of this nature, I wanted to stay separately with my husband. When we talked about this, a big scene was created at home where everyone was shouting. My husband couldn’t say a word and they kept insulting me. We could never move out. My husband told me that he cannot stay away from his parents. It’s been 2 years to our marriage and things are still the same. The entire house is controlled by my mother in law and if she says something, it has to be the final verdict for my husband. My father in law is a puppet for my mother in law. He only does what she says and has no opinion of his own. I am pregnant, second month is going on. I am in a deep distress, what to do with my situation. I think that a person who does not give me money and does not feel that I am important how he is going to treat the baby. I feel suffocated in that house. My life has become extremely difficult.

Ours is a love marriage, but what he showed before marriage and what he turned out to be after marriage was completely different.

My parents had told me that I won’t be able to be happy with him. But I trusted him and went ahead with the marriage because he assured me that he will take care of everything and nothing of that sort happened after marriage. I feel that I don’t have any right to hurt my parents so I keep taking life as it is but I feel extremely depressed, sad, not cared for and suffocated. Please tell me what I should do.

inta inta ramayanam

[Quickgun_murugan]

2 hours ago, Spartan said:

It’s been two years to our marriage. My husband is extremely caring about his parents; he cared for them more than me always. He is the only son. I am a working women and I am financially independent. I always expected my husband to provide me some money for my monthly expenses. Please let me know if this thought is wrong…

Whenever I ask him for money he says that I have to give money at home and I can’t give you any money. My mother in law is very demanding and controlling and she knows that my husband has a soft corner for her and therefore she takes the advantage of this fact as much as she can. She keeps asking for money from him and he keeps giving her, at that time he does not feel that he is in a financial crunch. He has a housing loan on him. When it comes to me, there is no money and for her there is always money. I feel he is biased all the time.

My in laws have controlling nature and they have tried to dominate me a lot and because of this nature, I wanted to stay separately with my husband. When we talked about this, a big scene was created at home where everyone was shouting. My husband couldn’t say a word and they kept insulting me. We could never move out. My husband told me that he cannot stay away from his parents. It’s been 2 years to our marriage and things are still the same. The entire house is controlled by my mother in law and if she says something, it has to be the final verdict for my husband. My father in law is a puppet for my mother in law. He only does what she says and has no opinion of his own. I am pregnant, second month is going on. I am in a deep distress, what to do with my situation. I think that a person who does not give me money and does not feel that I am important how he is going to treat the baby. I feel suffocated in that house. My life has become extremely difficult.

Ours is a love marriage, but what he showed before marriage and what he turned out to be after marriage was completely different.

My parents had told me that I won’t be able to be happy with him. But I trusted him and went ahead with the marriage because he assured me that he will take care of everything and nothing of that sort happened after marriage. I feel that I don’t have any right to hurt my parents so I keep taking life as it is but I feel extremely depressed, sad, not cared for and suffocated. Please tell me what I should do.

She should have listened to her parents.. parents maata vini vallu chusinodini cheskoni untey same problem ochinappudu parents anni mooskoni aunty ki support chese vallu...

[MiryalgudaMaruthiRao]

2 minutes ago, Quickgun_murugan said:

She should have listened to her parents.. parents maata vini vallu chusinodini cheskoni untey same problem ochinappudu parents anni mooskoni aunty ki support chese vallu...

Amruta ki ide maata cheppanu 

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

Anduke Pelli cheskuneppudu balls unna vadni cheskovali

[BeerBob123]

36 minutes ago, Nellore Pedda reddy said:

Anduke Pelli cheskuneppudu balls unna vadni cheskovali

choodanistara balls ani @sree_reddy asking

[Quickgun_murugan]

2 hours ago, Nellore Pedda reddy said:

Anduke Pelli cheskuneppudu balls unna vadni cheskovali

Yup

[ganesh]

Independent antundi pocket money kavalantundi..she needs to stop being a biatch, try to mingle with the family and then c how it goes.. intha negative mindset unte happiness undadu