3 years marriage..no first night yet... planning today...tips please..

[Quickgun_murugan]

1 hour ago, Spartan said:

I am not a newly wed .I am not sure if I can post this here. Please let me know if this is not allowed. Been married for almost three years now. We never consummated (main thing) due to several reasons (religious, distance living, studies and job). We had some serious relationship issues, and even thought of divorce at a time.

Planning to do it in the coming months as we have started getting pressure for a baby now. We satisfied eachother through other means last three years . I would like to get some ideas to make it special the first time. Though its been 3 years, I feel first time should be special. Help me out ladies. Share your thoughts?

Want to make it as memorable as possible. Can you share some ideas.
I have few ideas in mind.since we are not newly weds we are comfortable with eachother though a bit scared of the pain.
A second honeymoon would be good.
I am a bit sentimental type, How did you guys have your first. One of my friends said they did it on one of their birthdays which was 4 months after the wedding. They also did it at their new home .(which my friend was adamant about). She says whenever she goes back to their home in India it reminds them of it and its nostalgic.

Another friend had it in husbands house and said she doesnt want to think about it again. Dont know what happened. I am thinking of going for vacation for two weeks to switzerland or the like just to enjoy ourselves. Will two weeks be good enough ? Will it be boring since we are not newly weds. Will we be physically in good condition to explore in case we get bored?


My second friend said she felt sad and depressed for weeks after the D day. She felt like she lost something that she would never get. Do girls normally feel sad about their first? While googling I read about girls keeping the bedsheets and stuff. One of my cousin had her first time before marriage and she said they took a weeks vacation and went abroad for it.

K

[karthikn]

2 hours ago, Spartan said:

I am not a newly wed .I am not sure if I can post this here. Please let me know if this is not allowed. Been married for almost three years now. We never consummated (main thing) due to several reasons (religious, distance living, studies and job). We had some serious relationship issues, and even thought of divorce at a time.

Planning to do it in the coming months as we have started getting pressure for a baby now. We satisfied eachother through other means last three years . I would like to get some ideas to make it special the first time. Though its been 3 years, I feel first time should be special. Help me out ladies. Share your thoughts?

Want to make it as memorable as possible. Can you share some ideas.
I have few ideas in mind.since we are not newly weds we are comfortable with eachother though a bit scared of the pain.
A second honeymoon would be good.
I am a bit sentimental type, How did you guys have your first. One of my friends said they did it on one of their birthdays which was 4 months after the wedding. They also did it at their new home .(which my friend was adamant about). She says whenever she goes back to their home in India it reminds them of it and its nostalgic.

Another friend had it in husbands house and said she doesnt want to think about it again. Dont know what happened. I am thinking of going for vacation for two weeks to switzerland or the like just to enjoy ourselves. Will two weeks be good enough ? Will it be boring since we are not newly weds. Will we be physically in good condition to explore in case we get bored?


My second friend said she felt sad and depressed for weeks after the D day. She felt like she lost something that she would never get. Do girls normally feel sad about their first? While googling I read about girls keeping the bedsheets and stuff. One of my cousin had her first time before marriage and she said they took a weeks vacation and went abroad for it.

asalu sync lenappudu enduku cheskutaru janalu.. malli divorce lu 

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[Quickgun_murugan]

4 hours ago, Spartan said:

I am not a newly wed .I am not sure if I can post this here. Please let me know if this is not allowed. Been married for almost three years now. We never consummated (main thing) due to several reasons (religious, distance living, studies and job). We had some serious relationship issues, and even thought of divorce at a time.

Planning to do it in the coming months as we have started getting pressure for a baby now. We satisfied eachother through other means last three years . I would like to get some ideas to make it special the first time. Though its been 3 years, I feel first time should be special. Help me out ladies. Share your thoughts?

Want to make it as memorable as possible. Can you share some ideas.
I have few ideas in mind.since we are not newly weds we are comfortable with eachother though a bit scared of the pain.
A second honeymoon would be good.
I am a bit sentimental type, How did you guys have your first. One of my friends said they did it on one of their birthdays which was 4 months after the wedding. They also did it at their new home .(which my friend was adamant about). She says whenever she goes back to their home in India it reminds them of it and its nostalgic.

Another friend had it in husbands house and said she doesnt want to think about it again. Dont know what happened. I am thinking of going for vacation for two weeks to switzerland or the like just to enjoy ourselves. Will two weeks be good enough ? Will it be boring since we are not newly weds. Will we be physically in good condition to explore in case we get bored?


My second friend said she felt sad and depressed for weeks after the D day. She felt like she lost something that she would never get. Do girls normally feel sad about their first? While googling I read about girls keeping the bedsheets and stuff. One of my cousin had her first time before marriage and she said they took a weeks vacation and went abroad for it.

Weed kotti bed ekkumanu

[Quickgun_murugan]

2 hours ago, karthikn said:

asalu sync lenappudu enduku cheskutaru janalu.. malli divorce lu 

Lol

[Quickgun_murugan]

Lol