pooja room lo nunchi pasupu-kumkuma dongatanam chesi ettukellina mardalu..

[Spartan]

As the title suggests, I cannot seem to understand some of the things my SIL does. Some background. My brother and I are very close. Anytime he visited me when he was single, the things like paying for food etc... never came up. As I am the older sister and me and husband used to take care of everything during his visit. He got married and the first thing I noticed is the frequency of visits have reduced. And when they do visit, my SIL who is a housewife insists on paying for everything. [I know she is a bit touchy about her unemployment. I work full time.] For example, oil for lamps for pooja in my home she wanted to get and this created a standoff moment where I told that we [me and my husband] will buy. She was upset as to why she was not allowed to pay for it.

Another issue is she is constantly taking kumkum haldi from my pooja room. I don't know for what. Once I saw her using it for her mangalsutram. But, recently it looked like she had scraped the bottle as we stockpile for later use.

Any help appreciated. Is it normal for your younger brother's family to buy things when they visit an older sisters home. Also do your relatives keep taking kumkum haldi from your pooja room everyday/whenever they visit.

 

@Amrita  @Amy99

[Spartan]

[Spartan]

vadi pellam ...na mogud kuda pani chestadu..can pay ani chupinchadaniki try chestundemo..

andulo feel avvadaniki emundi... @psycopk

[Idassamed]

Idem story chitti uncle. No masala no plots and aub plots.

[Hector8]

http://indusladies.com/community/threads/sister-in-law-cannot-understand-her-behaviour.308040/#post-4105247 

[Hector8]

aa IL site lo em dorukuthundi vayya neeku 

[Spartan]

1 minute ago, Hector8 said:

http://indusladies.com/community/threads/sister-in-law-cannot-understand-her-behaviour.308040/#post-4105247 

 

Just now, Hector8 said:

aa IL site lo em dorukuthundi vayya neeku 

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[Spartan]

2 minutes ago, Idassamed said:

Idem story chitti uncle. No masala no plots and aub plots.

kottavi em padatle....digging..

[SeemaLekka]

pedda manishi @k2s lekunda me panchayiti enti ekkada

[Hector8]

3 minutes ago, Idassamed said:

Idem story chitti uncle. No masala no plots and aub plots.

ee thed lo Malavika81 posts chudu....  desi ppl intha advanced a anukuntav 

 

https://indusladies.com/community/threads/husbands-sexual-orientation.22730/page-5 

[Hector8]

2 minutes ago, Spartan said:

kottavi em padatle....digging..

ee madyala X subforum lo em pettatledu

[Spartan]

1 minute ago, Hector8 said:

ee thed lo Malavika81 posts chudu....  desi ppl intha advanced a anukuntav 

 

https://indusladies.com/community/threads/husbands-sexual-orientation.22730/page-5 

lets see

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[Idassamed]

15 minutes ago, Hector8 said:

ee thed lo Malavika81 posts chudu....  desi ppl intha advanced a anukuntav 

 

https://indusladies.com/community/threads/husbands-sexual-orientation.22730/page-5 

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