weak hearts stay away-Parents-kids question

[chittimallu2]

2 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

6 momnths ki oka bro/... lifelong they cant live here...unless no place back home

life long enduku untar vayy...  india lo chuttal lera vaallani kalavoddha, shuttling between here and there is more fun for them

[toranam]

5 minutes ago, chittimallu2 said:

ee thread edo nuvu india poyaka esunte bagundedi lmao...

also utter BS that parents dont like it here.... my parents love it in the states... they have everything here including terrific company around where i live

neku ala artam ayinda bro ..andu kay evari manobavalu hurt cheyalalani kadu ani note pettakada

[Amrita]

56 minutes ago, pahelwan said:

Seriously manam office pothe vallani intla pettesi vallatho inti pani vanta pani Pillala mudlu kadige pani matram cheinchakunri tiskoste happy ga bayata tippandi America supetti pampincheyandi

My parents are coming almost every year for couple of months since 6 yrs. My mom just does the cooking and cleaning vessels. I only do vacuum,  laundry, clean restrooms etc. Unnappudanna cheyinchuko antundi but i just don't like it. I take them out a lot . They saw US as much as i did. I want parents to come for spending time with me not looking for a maid. Parents ayina vadukoni dobbute tittukuntaru manasulo. I never want to be there. Konta mandini chusi inka conscious ga unta ala ma amma nannu anukokudadu ani. 

[chittimallu2]

Just now, toranam said:

neku ala artam ayinda bro ..andu kay evari manobavalu hurt cheyalalani kadu ani note pettakada

ela ardham aindi? 

[reddyeee]

on the way.. US to Dubai flight lo vundi reply chestunna 😊 

[Amrita]

8 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

some parents like USA because they scared to live in INDIA...  else bad past 

Not the case with my parents. 

[Android_Halwa]

oohajanitham..!!!

repati dinam etluntado telvadu...

parents anagane tapa tapa ie options padipotayi...direct dil se..

depends on situation...

 

[speedracer]

45 minutes ago, toranam said:

How many of you will go back (Ind)to look after your aged parents-

Note:ee post evarini kinchaparchalani kadu..elago kindi vatilo edo okati chestaru janalu 

EM chestaru

1)vallasavu valu chastarani vadilestara

2)atleast last few years iyna vallatho happay ga time spend chestara by going back

3)old age home lo vestara

4)Intlo nundi tarimestarta pellala mata vini

5)mana swardham chuskoni ..ekkaday undi vacchina money tho enjoy chestara

Note :Nenu elago 6months to 1 yr lo going back for good

 

None of the above

[toranam]

26 minutes ago, pahelwan said:

Seriously manam office pothe vallani intla pettesi vallatho inti pani vanta pani Pillala mudlu kadige pani matram cheinchakunri tiskoste happy ga bayata tippandi America supetti pampincheyandi

chala mandi chesedi aday bro kani bayataki oppukoru

[reality]

15 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

nuvvu pothunnav kabbattttee eee type of questions and u want to satisfy your ego by looking ppl answers... andhuke gaa ee post

+1 hehe. Jaga bokka post. These things are personal.

[toranam]

6 minutes ago, reality said:

+1 hehe. Jaga bokka post. These things are personal.

Meku ala artamyinda ...naa ego ki deniki no sambandham man

[reality]

Just now, toranam said:

Meku ala artamyinda ...naa ego ki deniki no sambandham man

Chill man...andaru same situation lone untaru almost.

My advise is don’t make such important personal decisions based on opinions from DB.

[chittimallu2]

8 minutes ago, reality said:

Chill man...andaru same situation lone untaru almost.

My advise is don’t make such important personal decisions based on opinions from DB.

lol he is not taking "opinions" here... somehow he felt he is superior to anyone that don't want to go back to India and in short is trying to measure dciks online

[reality]

5 minutes ago, chittimallu2 said:

lol he is not taking "opinions" here... somehow he felt he is superior to anyone that don't want to go back to India and in short is trying to measure dciks online

heheh...yah original post looks like that with those options.

[psycopk]

1 hour ago, toranam said:

How many of you will go back (Ind)to look after your aged parents-

Note:ee post evarini kinchaparchalani kadu..elago kindi vatilo edo okati chestaru janalu 

EM chestaru

1)vallasavu valu chastarani vadilestara

2)atleast last few years iyna vallatho happay ga time spend chestara by going back

3)old age home lo vestara

4)Intlo nundi tarimestarta pellala mata vini

5)mana swardham chuskoni ..ekkaday undi vacchina money tho enjoy chestara

 

 

good initiative... 

my thoughts..

 

mom dad idaru unnapudu we dont need to worry much.. they can handle things.. (financial ga no issues).

if dad alone.. immediately packup to india.. then figure out whats next..

if mom alone..planning on getting her greencard and work through getting citizenship for her.. 

thats my plan for now.. and it may change...