weak hearts stay away-Parents-kids question

[MuPaGuNa]

Just now, jbourne said:

Ante ippudu nuvvu 25 yrs uth vaa tomB lekka 

28 1/2

[jbourne]

2 minutes ago, MuPaGuNa said:

28 1/2

Round figure 30 esukundam 

[MuPaGuNa]

Just now, jbourne said:

Round figure 30 esukundam 

nee istam..........

[neethy]

leaving all the rhetoric .. most practical way is.... visit every year and provide all support you can by calling and making all arrangements. We have siblings (most of us), they are close to parents. Help your bro/sis to support them for day to day life. Provide financial and moral support. You cannot measure service by money, service is more precious than money we are earning but at the same time if you can provide financial support to siblings who are helping day to day life, that should take care of most things. I have seen this with lot of people doing it, try to strike a balance between $ and service and relations maintenance !!

[psycopk]

4 hours ago, neethy said:

leaving all the rhetoric .. most practical way is.... visit every year and provide all support you can by calling and making all arrangements. We have siblings (most of us), they are close to parents. Help your bro/sis to support them for day to day life. Provide financial and moral support. You cannot measure service by money, service is more precious than money we are earning but at the same time if you can provide financial support to siblings who are helping day to day life, that should take care of most things. I have seen this with lot of people doing it, try to strike a balance between $ and service and relations maintenance !!

Pelli ayaka things wont workout that way

[psycopk]

16 hours ago, MuPaGuNa said:

inko 6 7 yrs lo emina earn chesi..35 age lo india poyi buddiga maa parents  ni choosukuntu,village lo frnds tho picha paati chesukunta...aa time ki maa parents kooda old avutharu...marriage chesukoni kid vunte vaadi moothi back thudusukuntu vallani school ki ki teesukelli teesukosthu chadivisthu vunna koddo goppo land ni farming chesukuntu nadipistha....happy ga atu parents tho itu kids ki nyayam chesukuntu vunta....

Pellam kallu iragotudi india ante

[psycopk]

22 hours ago, Amrita said:

My parents are coming almost every year for couple of months since 6 yrs. My mom just does the cooking and cleaning vessels. I only do vacuum,  laundry, clean restrooms etc. Unnappudanna cheyinchuko antundi but i just don't like it. I take them out a lot . They saw US as much as i did. I want parents to come for spending time with me not looking for a maid. Parents ayina vadukoni dobbute tittukuntaru manasulo. I never want to be there. Konta mandini chusi inka conscious ga unta ala ma amma nannu anukokudadu ani. 

Good 

[Bahu]

[Run]

1 hour ago, psycopk said:

Pellam kallu iragotudi india ante

US ante kallu irrugathi annadame .simple

[nokia123]

20 hours ago, MuPaGuNa said:

inko 6 7 yrs lo emina earn chesi..35 age lo india poyi buddiga maa parents  ni choosukuntu,village lo frnds tho picha paati chesukunta...aa time ki maa parents kooda old avutharu...marriage chesukoni kid vunte vaadi moothi back thudusukuntu vallani school ki ki teesukelli teesukosthu chadivisthu vunna koddo goppo land ni farming chesukuntu nadipistha....happy ga atu parents tho itu kids ki nyayam chesukuntu vunta....

hallucination...final stage of hallucintation....

idhi nijam gaa jarigina roju....you will be in less than 0.5% of Indian NRI's

[Doravaru]

On 11/16/2018 at 3:39 PM, Amrita said:

How are you generalizing ? My parents siblings are here . They like in US more than in India . They stay here without complaining and visit their siblings ,  nieces, nephews.  India lo ney velladaniki manushulu leru vallaki . Country lo emuntundi it’s about where most of your family is located .

 

Exactly