Eswar_Eswar Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 Hi Friends, wife delivery date is on end of April and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues. Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby. planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts Quote
tacobell fan Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 House wife aithe problem undadhu its challenging to adopt to new life but alavatu ayyipodhi ani maa veterans @perugu_vada @Spartan @psycopk uncles cheppamannaru Quote
nallabery Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 6 minutes ago, Eswar_Eswar said: Hi Friends, wife delivery date is on end of April and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues. Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby. planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts try to manage with nanny bro kid should not have problem like us with status in US Quote
Eswar_Eswar Posted February 7, 2019 Author Report Posted February 7, 2019 She is house wife ... Quote
Rajugadu Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 7 minutes ago, Eswar_Eswar said: Hi Friends, wife delivery date is on end of April and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues. Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby. planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts Ee time travel not recommended ba.. try other options.. Quote
Peddayana Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 12 minutes ago, Eswar_Eswar said: Hi Friends, wife delivery date is on end of April and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues. Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby. planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts neeku wfh option unte , should be ok , depends on what type of delivery it is , normal aithe they should recover in a few days , c-section aithe it depends on the person and energy levels , it may take from a few weeks to may be a month or two to completely return to normal and handle all day to day activities basic ga enti ante , nuvvu work + intlo pani manage chesthe should be okay, nanny antunnavu kabatti it may take off some stress from you but mental ga prepare avvu and wfh/parental leave yemaine unte utilize, some companies giving 4-6 weeks now , check your company policies Quote
JohnBertucci Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 Can take care.. dont worry.. things will fall in place asneeded. Just you help your wife by taking parental leave. Quote
Roll_Tide Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 good luck boss you should be ready for anything I did everything by myself Quote
Eswar_Eswar Posted February 7, 2019 Author Report Posted February 7, 2019 My manager will come give 2 to 3 weeks WFH option and 2 weeks holidays. Its already approved from manager Quote
JohnBertucci Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 Here i have seen many couples where husbands dont even change diaper for the baby, so change the mindset from typical indian men to caring and sharing work. Quote
TKWQ Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 TS, start looking for a nanny. Try to see if you can get the nanny started in the 9th month. Maybe you can employ the nanny for the next few months. As others have indicated it is a big change, but you will get used to it eventually. Try to see if you can get work from home for the next few months. Wish you all the best Quote
Eswar_Eswar Posted February 7, 2019 Author Report Posted February 7, 2019 @ JohnBertucci I can spend time and take care my baby for sure. Quote
tacobell fan Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 Just now, JohnBertucci said: Here i have seen many couples where husbands dont even change diaper for the baby, so change the mindset from typical indian men to caring and sharing work. nuvvu maa magalla ego hurt chestunnav ani @TOM_BHAYYA twitter lo @ARYA ki DM chesadu adi @boeing747 uncle ki forward chesadu Quote
har_D_ick Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 I was in same situation and my little one is now 9 months. Snanam chepiyadam okkate problem make sure u give very proper family time, usually office nundi rangane malli laptop on chesi timepass chestham try to avoid and help as much as you can . After 2 months day care. Trust me it will be best feeling in ur life Congrats Quote
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