TOM_BHAYYA Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 2 minutes ago, har_D_ick said: I was in same situation and my little one is now 9 months. Snanam chepiyadam okkate problem make sure u give very proper family time, usually office nundi rangane malli laptop on chesi timepass chestham try to avoid and help as much as you can . After 2 months day care. Trust me it will be best feeling in ur life Congrats @ARYA Anna ilaanti positive posts eppudanna esaava Nee jeevitham lo.. maa cpt opt h1 married ankuls ki uchha Padela posta thappa Quote
Eswar_Eswar Posted February 7, 2019 Author Report Posted February 7, 2019 1 minute ago, har_D_ick said: I was in same situation and my little one is now 9 months. Snanam chepiyadam okkate problem make sure u give very proper family time, usually office nundi rangane malli laptop on chesi timepass chestham try to avoid and help as much as you can . After 2 months day care. Trust me it will be best feeling in ur life Congrats Yes. For bathing purpose , we will use indian nanny service for sure atleast 2 months. for us, it is very difficult task. Quote
nallabery Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 3 minutes ago, har_D_ick said: I was in same situation and my little one is now 9 months. Snanam chepiyadam okkate problem make sure u give very proper family time, usually office nundi rangane malli laptop on chesi timepass chestham try to avoid and help as much as you can . After 2 months day care. Trust me it will be best feeling in ur life Congrats Hey bro after long time, how is baby doing and how is family ? Quote
Spartan Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 @Eswar_Eswar congratulaitons.. dont worry...ikkada hospital lo mottam guide chetaru nurses.. how do u think women here manage...and learn without parents.... Nurses and hospital are very caring unlike India.. neeku 2-3 weeks WFH undi kabatti manage the home work..and let mother take care of baby... everything should be fine... dont listen to crap..where people say it will be tough and ... u r the parents..and u will learn better... off course peddalu unte baguntadi...but there are lot many people who dont have support... ex @Pokiri_21 recent parent.. Quote
Eswar_Eswar Posted February 7, 2019 Author Report Posted February 7, 2019 1 minute ago, Spartan said: @Eswar_Eswar congratulaitons.. dont worry...ikkada hospital lo mottam guide chetaru nurses.. how do u think women here manage...and learn without parents.... Nurses and hospital are very caring unlike India.. neeku 2-3 weeks WFH undi kabatti manage the home work..and let mother take care of baby... everything should be fine... dont listen to crap..where people say it will be tough and ... u r the parents..and u will learn better... off course peddalu unte baguntadi...but there are lot many people who dont have support... Thanks a lot bro. Quote
har_D_ick Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 19 minutes ago, nallabery said: Hey bro after long time, how is baby doing and how is family ? All good bro.. how are you? Quote
perugu_vada Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 1 hour ago, tacobell fan said: House wife aithe problem undadhu its challenging to adopt to new life but alavatu ayyipodhi ani maa veterans @perugu_vada @Spartan @psycopk uncles cheppamannaru House wife aina kashtame parents or in-laws unte atleast time ki food untundi, afternoon mom ki nap theskune chance untundi Quote
Hector8 Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 congrts ..... inko sari visa try chey in-laws ki option unte Quote
Variety_Pullayya Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 send her after delivery if needed - after she gets better and you utilize your leaves. passport and visa ki oka 1.5 months padthundi if you expedite. but i suggest you to spend as much time with baby in the first 1 or 2 years. they grow really fast and you will miss few phases. Quote
Variety_Pullayya Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 1 hour ago, Eswar_Eswar said: Hi Friends, wife delivery date is on end of April and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues. Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby. planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts also if you are afraid get the services of a doula. they help mother with delivery and will take care of her Quote
CuteDesiGal Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 Congrats. Wife not working ayithe manage cheseyachu. But u need to help her alot. Nenu work chesthunna motham mee wife chusukovali ante kashtam nee support unte no need to send them to india. Cook chei diapers change ofc nunchi vachaka mee wife ni rest thesukomanu 3-4hrs. Ask her to pump milk and keep it refrigerated so that thanu rest thesukunnapudu nuvve feed chesoyochu thanani disturb cheyakunda.and nu ft ayithe paternity leave untadi adhi baga use chesuko. Quote
Mitron Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 2 hours ago, Eswar_Eswar said: Hi Friends, wife delivery date is on end of April and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues. Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby. planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts don't send india for delivery. send mom & kid to india after delivery Quote
reddyeee Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 Easy kaadu bro. Mee relatives evarina vunte ask for help for 2 to 3 weeks. Bathing cheyinchadam difficult and initial gaa chaala doubts vuntayi first time parents ithe and mana parents easy gaa handle chestaru avi. Ask your friends help if needed. 2 weeks off and 3 weeks wfh antunnavu kaabatti konchem better. If it’s normal delivery then she can recover in a month to a position where she can start taking care of the baby. Nenu similar position lo vunna few months back and job changed around same time so naku Narakam anipinchindhi but it’s worth it. Don’t send to India now. Health wise ippudu pampadam risky 20 hours sitting ante and meeru entha warm chesi ichinaa baby ki it’s not same as US citizenship ani naa strong feeing. you can take her to India 3 months after delivery. Quote
tokkalogola Posted February 7, 2019 Report Posted February 7, 2019 8 hours ago, Eswar_Eswar said: Hi Friends, wife delivery date is on end of April and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues. Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby. planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts oKa 3 months brO..then u should be set Quote
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