veelayithe mee spouse ni MS cheyincho... H4 painano job cheyyanivvandi bhayya

[Paidithalli]

srinivas mukhyla... gofundme ...ee topics annee pakkanedithe...

Aa akkayya paristhithi enti ? anedhi alochisthe badhesthundhi...

4 years old, 6 years old kids ankunta kadha ... she cannot marry someone like any other widow/divorced women. repu vocchevadu thana pillalni ela chuskuntado ane bayam every minute untadhi. 

Ilanti cases lo pilagadi side vallu max lite theeskuntaru inko koduku unte.. Maha ayithe grand  children ni chuskuntam, nuvvu vere pelli cheskunna makem problem ledhu thalli ani cheppestharu 

But aa akka intha happy ga srinivas tho gadipina life ni marchipoyi... thana pillala future ento ardham kani situation lo... vere vaditho fresh ga life start cheddham le... ani mathram anukoledhu... 

 

[Paidithalli]

monna evadiko accident ayithe pillala maintenance ani 500K paina jama chesaru vayya... rojuko 100K penchesaru sale gallu...

ee gofundme vyavaharam manaki nacchanidhi kani... nijamga aa families ki vocchina kashtam ye dabbu tho kuda theeredhi kadhu..

trivikram annattu accident avvadam ante oka manishi road paina padipodam kadhu.... oka family rodduna...  padipodam

[AndhraneedSCS]

memu H4 EAD meeda padi edavali, only one job per family 

[Paidithalli]

Manadhayina rojuna antha bane untundhi bhayya... 

poddhuna lechi kallu theravagane manalni vatesi padukunna bharyano, kids o untaru... manam freshup ayyi vocchelopu dining table paina breakfast, lunch ki box ready ga untundhi. "lunch chesara ?".. "ye time ki vostharu?" "miss u" antu 9-5 lo oka pathika message lu vosthayi.. evening vocchaka meeku nacchendhedho chesthundhi.. lekapothe ala saradhaga bayataki veldham antundhi. samasyelenunna marchipodaniki oka chakkani thodu ventunte.... mulla dharilo kuda gulabila gubalimpu la untundhi. 

kani aa thode... edho roju dhuram ayithe....

meere sarvaswam ankunna aa ammai paristhithi enti ? manam lekapoyina manalni nammukoni vocchinavallu bagundela valla life ni manam marchagaligithe manam goppollame 

 

[argadorn]

7 minutes ago, AndhraneedSCS said:

memu H4 EAD meeda padi edavali, only one job per family 

dont sidetrack the thread 

[Paidithalli]

naku idhe bayam undedhi.. sudden ga nenu pothe... nakosam vocchina ammai ela bathukuthundhi ani ...

aa pilla US ki thana career ila plan cheddham ani.. savings kuda theesipettina...

finally thanu US ki vocchindhi.. but aa frame lo verevadu unnadanthe  

matimatiki anedhi.. manaki breakup ayyindhi kadha neeku nacchinattu job chese pillani chesko ani  ..ipudu aa pilla khali gane untundhi. endhukante chadhavadam, kashtapadadam, office ki povadam kanna... pillalni kanadam better ani thana feeling.. 

at least ilantivi chusi ayina thanu realize avvalani mey bhagvan ko prayer karta hu 

[alpachinao]

4 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

Manadhayina rojuna antha bane untundhi bhayya... 

poddhuna lechi kallu theravagane manalni vatesi padukunna bharyano, kids o untaru... manam freshup ayyi vocchelopu dining table paina breakfast, lunch ki box ready ga untundhi. "lunch chesara ?".. "ye time ki vostharu?" "miss u" antu 9-5 lo oka pathika message lu vosthayi.. evening vocchaka meeku nacchendhedho chesthundhi.. lekapothe ala saradhaga bayataki veldham antundhi. samasyelenunna marchipodaniki oka chakkani thodu ventunte.... mulla dharilo kuda gulabila gubalimpu la untundhi. 

kani aa thode... edho roju dhuram ayithe....

meere sarvaswam ankunna aa ammai paristhithi enti ? manam lekapoyina manalni nammukoni vocchinavallu bagundela valla life ni manam marchagaligithe manam goppollame 

 

Babu Garu meru ias avutharu babu garu

[Paidithalli]

Just now, alpachinao said:

Babu Garu meru ias avutharu babu garu

IAS endhuke le bhayya.. manishiga bathikithe chalu.

[Quickgun_murugan]

9 minutes ago, AndhraneedSCS said:

memu H4 EAD meeda padi edavali, only one job per family 

H4 EAD pakkaki pettu man.. GC lu unna jobs cheyyaleka family chuskuntu chala mandi unnaru... 

prathi danni link pettoddu.. even home maker is more than a 100k making wife..

[Spartan]

A long post but worth reading

ARE YOU MARRIED?

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN MARRIAGE!

Uncle Tunde grinned when he saw his daughter, Adunni and the husband Kehinde walk into the house. The old man, was on one of his rare visits to his daughter and son-in-law to Lagos from Ijebu where he lived, to spend the Easter Holidays. His son- in-law believed he needed to comfort the old man after his wife’s demise three months ago.

After dinner that evening, he whispered to his son in law that if they don’t mind, he would love to have a quick word with the couple after the children have gone to bed.

By 9pm, the couple was back to the dinner table to hear what the old man had to say.

He started by asking his daughter a simple question “What is the most important thing in your life Adunni ?

She replied, “Daddy, it is the kids! They mean everything to me”.

He then turned and asked Kehinde , the son in law the same question, he also beaming with pride said :"it is the kids of course; they are the reason why I work so hard to ensure they have a better life”

Uncle Tunde replied...

Well said my children, I don’t mean to intrude on how to run your family life, but I believe there is a fundamental error you would need to correct. He said “ I have observed how much you both love your kids and dedicate all your time for them.

Forgive me if I have eavesdropped a couple of times, but doesn’t all your conversation center mostly on the kids?

The coupled stared sheepishly in admission to the assertion.

He continued, I am a poultry farmer, and the biggest egg supplier in my district. I make my money by the quantity of eggs sold. That said, my priority has always been providing optimal care for the chicken. Because I know that when the chicken are healthy and productive, the eggs will automatically be bountiful.

*If I start to ignore the chicken, the eggs will also suffer*.

He pointed to Kehinde and said, “as a husband, the most important person in your life should be your wife and vice versa. It cannot be the kids. They are just   products of the marriage. *If you learn to take care of each other very well, your kids would grow up healthy, strong and successful, but if you ignore each other, brace yourself up for dysfunctional kids in the future*.

The two of you are the foundation of this family. If you suffer any form of crack, the whole house will go down. So please make time for yourself and treat each other as VIPs and the kids will be just fine.

This has been the secret of the fruitful union between your mum and I for over 50 years till death took her from me. The old man couldn’t help but began to shed tears at this stage. He thanked the couple for their time and excused himself to his room.

I am sure most married couples can identify with this story, where the focus shifts 100% to the kids and they barely have time for each other. They  are sad when they lose the magic connection between them. If care is not taken, the connections get outsourced, thereby opening up your marriage to all sorts of strange elements and even divorce.

Let your kids know and feel that your spouse means the world to you and if you are to choose between them and your spouse, it will always be your spouse.

Give the kids the love and attention they deserve but not at the expense of each other. You are the real deal. It is your marriage that will sustain your kids, not vice versa. The kids are just bonus!!!

[soodhilodaaram]

3 minutes ago, alpachinao said:

Babu Garu meru ias avutharu babu garu

[Rajugadu]

8 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

Manadhayina rojuna antha bane untundhi bhayya... 

poddhuna lechi kallu theravagane manalni vatesi padukunna bharyano, kids o untaru... manam freshup ayyi vocchelopu dining table paina breakfast, lunch ki box ready ga untundhi. "lunch chesara ?".. "ye time ki vostharu?" "miss u" antu 9-5 lo oka pathika message lu vosthayi.. evening vocchaka meeku nacchendhedho chesthundhi.. lekapothe ala saradhaga bayataki veldham antundhi. samasyelenunna marchipodaniki oka chakkani thodu ventunte.... mulla dharilo kuda gulabila gubalimpu la untundhi. 

kani aa thode... edho roju dhuram ayithe....

meere sarvaswam ankunna aa ammai paristhithi enti ? manam lekapoyina manalni nammukoni vocchinavallu bagundela valla life ni manam marchagaligithe manam goppollame 

 

Nv cheppina danlo emi thappu ledu.. does 100k bring all these?? Annadi AFDB prajanikam question..

[Paidithalli]

Just now, Quickgun_murugan said:

H4 EAD pakkaki pettu man.. GC lu unna jobs cheyyaleka family chuskuntu chala mandi unnaru... 

prathi danni link pettoddu.. even home maker is more than a 100k making wife..

True .. thappu ledhu. at least repayina jaragaranidhi jarigithe... naluguri sahayam kosam chuskokunda thanu nilabade dhairyam undali bhayya... 

nenu homemakers ni thappu pattatledhu.

[Rajugadu]

5 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

naku idhe bayam undedhi.. sudden ga nenu pothe... nakosam vocchina ammai ela bathukuthundhi ani ...

aa pilla US ki thana career ila plan cheddham ani.. savings kuda theesipettina...

finally thanu US ki vocchindhi.. but aa frame lo verevadu unnadanthe  

matimatiki anedhi.. manaki breakup ayyindhi kadha neeku nacchinattu job chese pillani chesko ani  ..ipudu aa pilla khali gane untundhi. endhukante chadhavadam, kashtapadadam, office ki povadam kanna... pillalni kanadam better ani thana feeling.. 

at least ilantivi chusi ayina thanu realize avvalani mey bhagvan ko prayer karta hu 

Lol,,nee story support kosam ee replies ahh. I git it good luck..

[Quickgun_murugan]

Just now, Paidithalli said:

True .. thappu ledhu. at least repayina jaragaranidhi jarigithe... naluguri sahayam kosam chuskokunda thanu nilabade dhairyam undali bhayya... 

nenu homemakers ni thappu pattatledhu.

nuvvu thappu antunnav anatle bro.. but job untene ready unnattu kadu... its better to encourage but sometimes people give more priority to raising kids than anything else.. 

ippati partisthithullo pillalu should be second priority .. first priority should be career and financial independence for anybody....