Why cutting is addictive

[DaVinci]

2 minutes ago, Thanos said:

uttermost , excessive eating is also same. In fact a lot of self destructive behaviors are addictive and very hard to get out of

Agree. I've seen more than one real life cases

[Rushabhi]

9 minutes ago, panipoori said:

therapist em cheppadu? don't cut yourself...cut the other person annada?

1 year vella. Helped me understand my thoughts and build self confidence 

[Rushabhi]

6 minutes ago, Ram47 said:

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Idhi joke aa? Navvala? Navvu raavatam ledhu. Try again

[Ram47]

2 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Idhi joke aa? Navvala? Navvu raavatam ledhu. Try again

[DrBeta]

14 minutes ago, Ram47 said:

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It's not funny. Self harm is a serious issue. 

[DrBeta]

21 minutes ago, Thanos said:

uttermost , excessive eating is also same. In fact a lot of self destructive behaviors are addictive and very hard to get out of

S, I am not aware of excessive eating, but I know about throwing up after eating. 

[Thanos]

1 minute ago, DrBeta said:

S, I am not aware of excessive eating, but I know about throwing up after eating. 

hmm , don't know about throwing up , so what does one do? eat and then just throw up? how do they live?

[Ram47]

10 minutes ago, DrBeta said:

It's not funny. Self harm is a serious issue. 

ok, this is the first and last time I am saying this..

my posts are either for discussion or to generate a laugh.. laugh ante meeku laugh kaadu.. naaku funny anipinchi post chesta.. 99% of ppl u wont know their entire life, u consider them as a friend and try to kid around.. if you get butthurt about it.. the whole point is lost.. this usually happens with female ids.. which is why I usually stay away from them.. past week or so I started involving and I think its a bad idea..

because I never had any issue with male ids.. for example

I kid around with  @kiladi bullodu all the time.. I barely know him.. he just ignores me or post a funny response.. thats how our camaraderie is.. 

I have zero intention to hurt u unless it is a caste based political discussion.. ido pedda serious issue cheyyadam chiragga anipinchindi.. 

[panipoori]

20 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

1 year vella. Helped me understand my thoughts and build self confidence 

Glad it helped you !!

 

[samaja_varagamana]

1 hour ago, Ram47 said:

nuvvu seppedi alone ga unnappudu aithe anukunta..

my example is between a couple.. 

Neeku manchi past love story unattu undi explain no oka thread esi 

[samaja_varagamana]

1 minute ago, Ram47 said:

ok, this is the first and last time I am saying this..

my posts are either for discussion or to generate a laugh.. laugh ante meeku laugh kaadu.. naaku funny anipinchi post chesta.. 99% of ppl u wont know their entire life, u consider them as a friend and try to kid around.. if you get butthurt about it.. the whole point is lost.. this usually happens with female ids.. which is why I usually stay away from them.. past week or so I started involving and I think its a bad idea..

because I never had any issue with male ids.. for example

I kid around with  @kiladi bullodu all the time.. I barely know him.. he just ignores me or post a funny response.. thats how our camaraderie is.. 

I have zero intention to hurt u unless it is a caste based political discussion.. ido pedda serious issue cheyyadam chiragga anipinchindi.. 

nee english thagaleyya love story cheppu vaya

[DrBeta]

2 minutes ago, Thanos said:

hmm , don't know about throwing up , so what does one do? eat and then just throw up? how do they live?

I think it's mostly for people who are miserable because people call them fat. They eat and then throw up, so they think that they won't put on any weight. 

[samaja_varagamana]

2 hours ago, DrBeta said:

The motives behind cutting are often counterintuitive, since a person who cuts does it to feel better. Often, cutting is the only way she knows how to deal with negative emotions like depression, rage, guilt, emptiness and self-hatred. Most people who inflict self-harm are looking for relief from pent-up emotions. Like addiction, people struggling with self-harm are not in full control of their actions. Cutters see their actions as positive because it allows them to express feeling sad remain in control.

Cutters also see self-harm as:
 
A distraction from difficult life events

A relief from guilt when used as a form of self-punishment

A way to feel more alive.

Once you know the reasons behind the cutting, you can help your loved one find treatment. Treatment helps cutters see what they are doing as harmful, while encouraging positive behaviors that provide the same benefits.

Areyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy betaaa gaaa 

[Ram47]

Just now, samaja_varagamana said:

Neeku manchi past love story unattu undi explain no oka thread esi 

@Devadas estory mundu na estories anni sea lo crowshit man 

[Thanos]

Just now, DrBeta said:

I think it's mostly for people who are miserable because people call them fat. They eat and then throw up, so they think that they won't put on any weight. 

sounds like yuck but I pity them , people who can't even eat what they desire may really be miserable