The Real Reason Women Love Rich Guys

[kevinUsa]

Rule #1: No Downgrades. I’m fairly certain I’ve heard Chris Rock talk about this a time or three, but women hate lifestyle downgrades. Of course, all people hate to lose what they have, but women are notorious about demanding at least a consistent standard of living. If they get used to a certain way of life, they are loathe to give it up.

The implications of this are two-fold. Firstly, be careful what you get a woman used to, as she will expect it in the future. And secondly, be aware that the higher-class woman you meet, the more you will have to provide for her. This means for some girls, if you want to play the game long-term with them, you need money on their level.

For these girls, money isn’t so much of an “attraction” booster, rather, it’s what you need to even gain access.

[kevinUsa]

Rule #2: Have Enough For Yourself. The second rule is more practical and understandable. While most women like their man to bring in a little bit extra to make them both more comfortable, all women expect their man to at least be able to provide for himself.

Most men are OK with taking care of a woman financially – some even prefer it. But flip the script, and it drives a woman crazy. Taking care of a man financially stresses a woman out, and though she may still love the man if he’s “showing up” in other ways, the evidence is clear it takes the passion out of a relationship.

There’s a reason so many marriages fall apart when men lose their jobs. It’s not just financial stress, it’s the psychological stress that the woman now has to carry water for both of them. Even if they’re still living well on her salary alone, a woman providing for a man’s survival is just unattractive to her.

[kevinUsa]

Rule #3: Be Age Appropriate. A perceptive man might realize by now though that something is wrong about this “need” for wealth we’ve been talking about. After all, plenty of young guys live in squalor and have different girls rotating in and out of their apartment, sometimes multiple times a day. They have no issue getting a girlfriend or hooking up despite being broke. What’s going on here?

It all comes down to age.

When you’re a young guy, the truth is, money doesn’t matter very much. Women love rich guys, but not only are most girls not looking to settle down at a young age (so financial comfort isn’t as big of a deal), but socially no one expects you to have your figured out. Up through your mid-20s being a bum isn’t a big deal for girls. It’s only once you start to get to your late-20s and especially your 30s that a lack of money starts to become a problem.

[kevinUsa]

I have attained marriageable age as per Indian norms.

November 2017

My parents get a marriage proposal for me from a guy based in Washington, US, working in Microsoft! His annual pay package was US $ 120,000. Imagine the figures in INR as I am an Indian. My mother was jumping in joy imagining the super luxurious life her daughter would get and the societal status I would enjoy. Both set of our parents got along so well that his parents even invited mine over lunch twice. He was adamant to marry me and was even planning a trip ahead of his scheduled trip because I couldn't make it before my semester exams in December. My parents were dead serious about this proposal because he was not just a Bengali but their expectations of getting an ideal groom matched in all aspects.

The whole world tried to convince me that everyone would envy me if I go ahead with these proposals and they tried their best to tempt me.

The same process repeated with a Data Scientist of Amazon based in Seattle, a top notch Doctor in Ireland, an IIM A graduate working with Merrill Lynch, etcetera.

Jackpot proposal around the same time :

Investment Banker with a MBA from Wharton (Uni of Pennsylvania), IIT undergraduate, working in California in NASDAQ listed billion dollar company with a package above US $250,000.

June 2013

I grew close to my batchmate from graduation college (we were in third year of B.tech), following a bus accident that we encountered on our way to college. After a month and a half of online conversations and flirting (I pursued him first and he also fell for me equally)

He- Can we take our relationship forward (puts his hand forward) ?

I put my hand on his hand and give him a nod. I smile too much! Our first date happened to be on 4th July and we embraced the occasion saying it was American Independence Day as well. His pecks on my cheeks were total bliss. We hugged every half a minute. We saw a vision for being together for lifetime that day. I fed him ice-cream with my hands. We were drenched in the rain like they show in the movies.

My very own girlfriends in my social group in grad college dated guys from rich business background and did a checklist of all the criteria they and their parents would want in a groom. I remember one of them kept complaining to her boyfriend how difficult it is for her to walk even 100 metres without a car.

*************(No bragging )*************

The kind of background I come from, knowing what issues may rise in future, I didn't even ask him what his economic condition at home is. I didn't even know where and what work his father did. I didn't check on how many houses or cars his family owned. I didn't ask him how big is his house. I wasn't even bothered to ask.

Answer to the question - Not all women are gold diggers. Some can really love you for who you are, standing against all adversities, leaving behind all the expectations that parents and society set upon her to oblige

 

[kevinUsa]

@DrBeta

[kevinUsa]

@Staysafebro

[DrBeta]

32 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

@DrBeta

Baaa, nee lekka prakaramga if girls choose money over virility and @Staysafebro lekka prakaramga boys choose beauty over brains, India lo future generations loose virility and will be stupid no?

[kevinUsa]

2 minutes ago, DrBeta said:

Baaa, nee lekka prakaramga if girls choose money over virility and @Staysafebro lekka prakaramga boys choose beauty over brains, India lo future generations loose virility and will be stupid no?

Its already happening  

[tokkalogola]

tell.in few words plz

[karthikn]

44 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

I have attained marriageable age as per Indian norms.

November 2017

My parents get a marriage proposal for me from a guy based in Washington, US, working in Microsoft! His annual pay package was US $ 120,000. Imagine the figures in INR as I am an Indian. My mother was jumping in joy imagining the super luxurious life her daughter would get and the societal status I would enjoy. Both set of our parents got along so well that his parents even invited mine over lunch twice. He was adamant to marry me and was even planning a trip ahead of his scheduled trip because I couldn't make it before my semester exams in December. My parents were dead serious about this proposal because he was not just a Bengali but their expectations of getting an ideal groom matched in all aspects.

The whole world tried to convince me that everyone would envy me if I go ahead with these proposals and they tried their best to tempt me.

The same process repeated with a Data Scientist of Amazon based in Seattle, a top notch Doctor in Ireland, an IIM A graduate working with Merrill Lynch, etcetera.

Jackpot proposal around the same time :

Investment Banker with a MBA from Wharton (Uni of Pennsylvania), IIT undergraduate, working in California in NASDAQ listed billion dollar company with a package above US $250,000.

June 2013

I grew close to my batchmate from graduation college (we were in third year of B.tech), following a bus accident that we encountered on our way to college. After a month and a half of online conversations and flirting (I pursued him first and he also fell for me equally)

He- Can we take our relationship forward (puts his hand forward) ?

I put my hand on his hand and give him a nod. I smile too much! Our first date happened to be on 4th July and we embraced the occasion saying it was American Independence Day as well. His pecks on my cheeks were total bliss. We hugged every half a minute. We saw a vision for being together for lifetime that day. I fed him ice-cream with my hands. We were drenched in the rain like they show in the movies.

My very own girlfriends in my social group in grad college dated guys from rich business background and did a checklist of all the criteria they and their parents would want in a groom. I remember one of them kept complaining to her boyfriend how difficult it is for her to walk even 100 metres without a car.

*************(No bragging )*************

The kind of background I come from, knowing what issues may rise in future, I didn't even ask him what his economic condition at home is. I didn't even know where and what work his father did. I didn't check on how many houses or cars his family owned. I didn't ask him how big is his house. I wasn't even bothered to ask.

Answer to the question - Not all women are gold diggers. Some can really love you for who you are, standing against all adversities, leaving behind all the expectations that parents and society set upon her to oblige

 

Good experience you shared. BTW 2 poragallu from Seattle 🤣🤣 msft and Amazon data scientist lol