andham shaswatham kadhu - Manasu, manchithanam shaswatham

[BostonBullodu]

1 minute ago, BDurruti said:

asthi maatram kaadhu. several criteria undhi. people are attracted to each other for many reasons. andham is just one of them. and it can't even be quantified.

how can you get attracted to people whom you don't know for even 3 months or less (in regards to arranged marriages)

[BDurruti]

1 minute ago, BostonBullodu said:

how can you get attracted to people whom you don't know for even 3 months or less (in regards to arranged marriages)

marriage gurinchi nannu adagaku.

have you wanked off to a girl's hair? her butt? eg. andham lekuntey, you won't have sex with them ani kaadhu kadha. you can even have sex with a girl who you like the way she swears at people. lol.

marriage is bullshit. its a social trap. daani gurinchi maatladukovatam waste.

[BDurruti]

6 minutes ago, BostonBullodu said:

how can you get attracted to people whom you don't know for even 3 months or less (in regards to arranged marriages)

marriage gurinci cheppataaniki emi ledhu.

you want stability in life, you want to impress your parents, society, etc nee kharma.

nuvvu entha andhamaina ammayini pelli cheskunna, em pedda farak undadhu nee life lo.

[Amrita]

4 minutes ago, BDurruti said:

marriage gurinci cheppataaniki emi ledhu.

you want stability in life, you want to impress your parents, society, etc nee kharma.

nuvvu entha andhamaina ammayini pelli cheskunna, em pedda farak undadhu nee life lo.

Same with a guy no ? Why no equality uttermost? 

[Amrita]

13 minutes ago, BostonBullodu said:

how can you get attracted to people whom you don't know for even 3 months or less (in regards to arranged marriages)

Mukku Moham teleni vallene judge chestunna lokam and claiming they know everything about the person from assets to  personal aspects . 3 months is too much time anta 

[SnehamKosam]

Edhi saswatham kadhu... maarpu okkate sashwatham 

[samaja_varagamana]

24 minutes ago, BDurruti said:

cool! people are so obssessed about this and that, when  they are going to fcuk like rabbits, and then settle down to a boring life.

because if you stick to one partner, you are settling for a boring sex life, unless you are really excited  by that one person, which is very rare.

you will either cheat, or be an asshole.

its better to accept that we are ordinary and focus on other things. if we want andham and great sex, don't marry.

but marriage does provide great opportunity to more intimately explore s3x with your partner. and it depends on how much time you have for each other too. which not many people do, if its a working couple.

whats your take on arranged marriages and getting married to someone before 30 (In short getting married just for the sake of getting married).

[BDurruti]

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Same with a guy no ? Why no equality uttermost? 

absolutely. people marry mostly because of peer pressure, and because of the social infrastructure (family + govt) that support such an arrangement. but it destroys a lot of lives.

not saying no one should marry. some people are naturally inclined to marry because they want to be with one person forever, but most of them are stuck in marriage.

especially people who aim to marry a 'beautiful' girl, or a 'handsome' man, can forget about all of that, and settle down for mundane life. after some time you will hate to share your space with another person, especially if their presence is 24/7. again, some people may like it.

[BDurruti]

1 minute ago, samaja_varagamana said:

whats your take on arranged marriages and getting married to someone before 30 (In short getting married just for the sake of getting married).

some people are suited for it. some people are not.

but if you are obsessing about other people, while being married to one, I feel bad for your partner. Unless your obsession is your way of getting yourself horny to have a wonderful fcuk in the evening, then I appreciate the effort you put into it. hehe..

[BostonBullodu]

5 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

whats your take on arranged marriages and getting married to someone before 30 (In short getting married just for the sake of getting married).

manchi vyakthi ne adigavu just wait for the answer..lol

[BDurruti]

6 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

whats your take on arranged marriages and getting married to someone before 30 (In short getting married just for the sake of getting married).

what is the diff between arranged and love marriage? to me, both are the same.

[Amrita]

Just now, BDurruti said:

absolutely. people marry mostly because of peer pressure, and because of the social infrastructure (family + govt) that support such an arrangement. but it destroys a lot of lives.

not saying no one should marry. some people are naturally inclined to marry because they want to be with one person forever, but most of them are stuck in marriage.

especially people who aim to marry a 'beautiful' girl, or a 'handsome' man, can forget about all of that, and settle down for mundane life. after some time you will hate to share your space with another person, especially if their presence is 24/7. again, some people may like it.

Totally agreed . Fact is people ( May be just indian ) judge based on marital status and some people aim in life is to get married . They just live for sake of others . Velle malla pakkolani judge chesedi ironically as if that’s a bloody achievement in life . Ofcourse independent ayyi kasta prapancham chusaka we have no time for what others think and will do what we want to do in life . E DB aey example pelli Pelli ani Yama kalvaristu untaru .

[samaja_varagamana]

6 minutes ago, BDurruti said:

what is the diff between arranged and love marriage? to me, both are the same.

some arranged marriages are just for the society sake....where as love marriages are like self intiatives.

[BDurruti]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

Totally agreed . Fact is people ( May be just indian ) judge based on marital status and some people aim in life is to get married . They just live for sake of others . Velle malla pakkolani judge chesedi ironically as if that’s a bloody achievement in life . Ofcourse independent ayyi kasta prapancham chusaka we have no time for what others think and will do what we want to do in life . E DB aey example pelli Pelli ani Yama kalvaristu untaru .

hmm.. but aduguthunna ani tappu anukoku. are you in a relationship? marriage cheskoka povatam veru, evariki andha kunda brathukatam anedhi not sustainable.

 

 

[BDurruti]

1 minute ago, samaja_varagamana said:

some arranged marriages are just for the society sake....where as love marriages are like self intiatives.

all marriages are for society. I married just for society. lekunte we were happy with the previous arrangement that worked for us for a long time.