andham shaswatham kadhu - Manasu, manchithanam shaswatham

[samaja_varagamana]

Just now, Amrita said:

Athadu-2 chestunnav . Topic  vere ga 

manaki thread topic tho epudu samandam ledhu ga .....we belong to S team no....rule no 1 of s team 

[BostonBullodu]

32 minutes ago, BDurruti said:

absolutely. people marry mostly because of peer pressure, and because of the social infrastructure (family + govt) that support such an arrangement. but it destroys a lot of lives.

not saying no one should marry. some people are naturally inclined to marry because they want to be with one person forever, but most of them are stuck in marriage.

especially people who aim to marry a 'beautiful' girl, or a 'handsome' man, can forget about all of that, and settle down for mundane life. after some time you will hate to share your space with another person, especially if their presence is 24/7. again, some people may like it.

I would have agreed with you if you lived a life in India for 50+ years being alone (don't mind going around to find partners though)

[BDurruti]

3 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

naku ardam ayindi le baa nuvvu evaro inka chalu mana disco

arranged marriage ki love marriage ki em difference ledhu.

[Amrita]

3 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

manaki thread topic tho epudu samandam ledhu ga .....we belong to S team no....rule no 1 of s team 

Yes

[BDurruti]

3 minutes ago, BostonBullodu said:

I would have agreed with you if you lived a life in India for 50+ years being alone (don't mind going around to find partners though)

there's nothing to agree or disagree.. I was making the simple point that people talking about 'andham' etc are just wasting their time. anthey.

[Amrita]

10 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

poles apart might not be true some similarity will be there. Live in lo telusthai yes if not amey tho oka two days unna chalu if they are sensible enough they will get to know.

Cannot agree . It takes long time to know a person forget about spouse let it be anyone. Kids are also not exception . Sometimes you just don’t know even about  your kids unless you live with them after they are adults . Claiming you know your spouse or anyone without spending time is foolishness in my view .  That’s just judging them good , bad , sweet . Purely your perspective and could be far from reality .

Chicken biryani Ishtam , double ka meeta Ishtam ilantivi telavachu but time and situations toney deeper aspects telisedi. 

[samaja_varagamana]

3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Cannot agree . It takes long time to know a person forget about spouse let it be anyone. Kids are also not exception . Sometimes you just don’t know even about  your kids unless you live with them after they are adults . Claiming you know your spouse or anyone without spending time is foolishness in my view .  That’s just judging them good , bad , sweet . Purely your perspective and could be far from reality .

Chicken biryani Ishtam , double ka meeta Ishtam ilantivi telavachu but time and situations toney deeper aspects telisedi. 

What i mean to say is " Manam atleast guess cheyachu in love marriages if that person will be compatible in our future journey".

kani arranged lo its just a bling guess or a compulsion because of the surrounding factors.

Knowing your partner completely before marrying is highly impossible.

We cannot judge them. We can only make a possible guess.

[maidhanam1]

pelli chupullu lo em chustharu - 

boys: ammayi andham, padhathi..

girls: abbayi gunam, habits, financial

idhi open secret 

[BDurruti]

5 minutes ago, maidhanam1 said:

pelli chupullu lo em chustharu - 

boys: ammayi andham, padhathi..

girls: abbayi gunam, habits, financial

idhi open secret 

9 out of 10 girls are beautiful. go and see in india. unless you want tiktok video level girls, almost all of them are beautiful, if they are from an upper middle class family.

special ga andham gurinchi antha serious ga aalochinchataniki emundho naakaithey artham kaaley

[maidhanam1]

2 minutes ago, BDurruti said:

9 out of 10 girls are beautiful. go and see in india. unless you want tiktok video level girls, almost all of them are beautiful, if they are from an upper middle class family.

beautiful - antae enti @BDurruti 

did not get u

[BDurruti]

Just now, maidhanam1 said:

beautiful - antae enti @BDurruti 

did not get u

they are either well groomed, and if they have dull features, look like they have potential to be gorgeous in their later years.

that's what my traveling in India has taught me. women here are beautiful.

unless you are looking at a specific kind of beauty (slim nose, narrow jaw, big big eyes, long hair or whatever), they are all beautiful in their unique ways.

[BDurruti]

I literally talked to random girls in India, jsut like that. just like I talk to random guys, but many girls didn't respond to me, as many boys did.

the ones who resopnded, were a pleasure to speak to. i loved them all.

[Amrita]

25 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

What i mean to say is " Manam atleast guess cheyachu in love marriages if that person will be compatible in our future journey".

kani arranged lo its just a bling guess or a compulsion because of the surrounding factors.

Knowing your partner completely before marrying is highly impossible.

We cannot judge them. We can only make a possible guess.

I hate arranged marriages too but can’t agree on knowing person . It’s a psychological comfort level that I chose I decided I know about the person my life ani than some one influencing us let it be even parents. Agree to disagree.

[BDurruti]

6 minutes ago, maidhanam1 said:

beautiful - antae enti @BDurruti 

did not get u

the girl with fat nose, has a gorgeous smile, the girl with chinese eyes, has long thick hair, the girl with a dark stin tone has the perfect body structure, etc.

you want all good qualities in one girl, may be

[BostonBullodu]

49 minutes ago, BDurruti said:

there's nothing to agree or disagree.. I was making the simple point that people talking about 'andham' etc are just wasting their time. anthey.

may be you can't see/understand from their perspective

andham is only the criteria for most of the people emo