endhuku antha difference ?

[perugu_vada]

Ammayila ki unna maturity general ga abbayila ki undadu, so 3-4yrs age gap unte best

moreover, post pregnancy chala changes osthay women lo, so ah mathram age gap lekapothe abbayi kanna old ga kanipinche chances kuda ekuva

[MobileMusic]

39 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Misconception. Maa masters junior abbayi maakante matured. Bad phase lo unte athani maatalu chala baaga nachayi. That's when I thought younger boys ki maturity ledhu anedhi myth ani. Sure they may behave like kids but life planning lo they are more matured 

That’s just one case you are referring to. Not everyone is wired the same way.

[MobileMusic]

6 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

Takkuva age difference unte okkate drawback. Chinnapillalu la garaalu polemu husband daggara. You will be more like like friend. 

Aren’t you contradicting yourself? What’s the fun of marrying someone if you cannot get pampered, spoiled, babied, petted or - dominated? That’s like ruining all the fun

[AleAle]

35 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Ammayila ki unna maturity general ga abbayila ki undadu, so 3-4yrs age gap unte best

moreover, post pregnancy chala changes osthay women lo, so ah mathram age gap lekapothe abbayi kanna old ga kanipinche chances kuda ekuva

u cant generalise this 

age doesnt matters 

Ive seen men marrying 4 to 5 years elder women, still ammayni chinna pillalaga chuskuntaru.

[Rushabhi]

27 minutes ago, MobileMusic said:

Aren’t you contradicting yourself? What’s the fun of marrying if you cannot get pampered, spoiled, babied, petted or dominated? That’s like ruining all the fun

I still get pampered. Not at the level of other couples anthe. In fact I feel much younger after marriage 

[tennisluvr]

Your US friend is wise that's bottom line. She can choose to have her personal preferences, neeku adi nachale anukunta

[DrBeta]

If a girl is not choosing what she wants or not living her life the way she wants, then it's her family's fault for not giving her that independence and her fault for not fighting for it. So, I would say that the girl from the US is more matured and independent, no matter what... And independent women are more attractive, period.

[MobileMusic]

13 hours ago, AleAle said:

u cant generalise this 

age doesnt matters 

Ive seen men marrying 4 to 5 years elder women, still ammayni chinna pillalaga chuskuntaru.

"Generalize" is a word often overused. You are mentioning just one rare case and saying we cannot generalize but actually using it to "generalize" the whole human race as such. Most people are not wired like those few, rare exceptions with high IQ - just as most boys have not done a Master's degree. Too much IQ will border on other issues such as ADHD, OCD, Bipolar... at various levels. Too little or too much age difference or the boy being "younger" than the girl is awkward and unnatural - to say the least. It is as awkward as a young boy pampering an old lady (when pampering doesn't happen much between couples even with a small age difference). I saw a couple and the husband is older than the girl's parents! How awkward is that! We cannot use these rare cases to generalize the entire human population saying that it is ok to marry a much older guy/girl or ok to marry a younger boy or a boy who is just a year or two older. Because boys mature slowly and the maturity levels are not the same, it is a mismatch and does not result in a "level playing field" for that couple.

Call it nature's cruel joke or whatever - opposite personalities get attracted to each other. Age difference of boy being older by 3-5 years or more is prevalent all over the world for ages and a handful of rare exceptions are not going to change that norm. If anything, those extreme cases will be viewed as freaky and nothing outstanding or extraordinary.

[mustang302]

Typist conperm.🤭

[k2s]

Very nice. #Freedom #MyChoice #GirlPower thokka thota kura ani thiruguthu pothey itta age bar avvaka emi authadi..

[kevinUsa]

1 minute ago, k2s said:

Very nice. #Freedom #MyChoice #GirlPower thokka thota kura ani thiruguthu pothey itta age bar avvaka emi authadi..

perfect

[ekunadam_enkanna]

31 minutes ago, k2s said:

Very nice. #Freedom #MyChoice #GirlPower thokka thota kura ani thiruguthu pothey itta age bar avvaka emi authadi..

That's good for humanity.

[Rshiva]

31 minutes ago, ekunadam_enkanna said:

That's good for humanity.

Enkanna mari malanti bachelors sangathi enti.wait sesthu koorchovala?

[ekunadam_enkanna]

9 minutes ago, Rshiva said:

Enkanna mari malanti bachelors sangathi enti.wait sesthu koorchovala?

Those who keep waiting for compatibility in multiple dimensions (looks, height/weight, hair, real estate, bank accounts, I-140 approved(or not), full time job or contractor, etc), will be filtered  out, just like how farmers in AP/TG lost after seeding fake cotton seeds.  Who is producing kids now? The poor, the super wealthy (some billionaires have 6 kids), people who work in blue collar jobs (say, factories in Hyd or security guards, some street electricians).  That's how it goes.

Compatibility is very hard to achieve in a marriage. Even if you think that you have found a compatible match, a couple of years later you lose interest in that woman. Procreation and compatibility are orthogonal, but the educated folks have made that compatibility is precondition for mating(procreation).

 

 

[nenesuperni]

On 5/31/2019 at 12:55 PM, Paidithalli said:

Idhi mathram kalpitham kadhu baa...  2 days back eh papam India lo unde pilla phone chesi badha padindhi... suicide cheskodam better anipisthundhi aa singareni gadni pelli cheskune kante ani .... 

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