8 years or more age gap ( marriage lo) vunolu ravali dayachesi

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Recently decided to look for young age girl for matches !! Any pros and cons of your marriage for marrying with such huge diff?

Anna gari ref. Teyakandi dayachesi.

[kevinUsa]

This is subjective, but I call this much difference a generation gap. Because in our parents' time, the pace of change in lifestyle, mindsets, technology etc was very slow.

Now a days the scenario is totally different. You observe yourself and your juniors of about 3-4 years: you will see a lot of difference in fashion sense, use of technology, use of social media, attitude towards life, attitude towards job security, sectors they choose to work in, food they eat, movies they like and what not. Even the slang used change rapidly in this era of internet and social media.

When I took admission to a B-School  in 2007, MBA was the hottest course. MBA grooms were in high demand. A year later, Lehman Brothers went bankrupt and we had the worst global slowdown of our life. We are still recovering.

Now, MBA grooms are not on top of the list. At that time, we weren't exactly thinking about start ups. And people who were just 22-23 and working on their start ups were not looked upon favourably in the marriage market. Now the scenario is totally different. It is cool to own a start up. Even working at a start up is ok now a days. And parents' dont mind marrying their daughters off to the start up guys.

So you see, things change very rapidly now a days. And I believe there will be lot of difference between you and the guy who is 7-8 years elder to you. Unless you really find a guy who is, although elder to you by 7-8 years, similar to you in terms of mindset, career aspirations, lifestyle, attitude towards life etc, I would not recommend to marry any guy who is elder to you by more than 2-3 years-take or give a year. In the end, you are going to focus on your chemistry with your guy and not exactly age difference per se.

And you are just of out of college, you should spend time building your career before you get married. Your exposure to "real world" will give you valuable insights based on which you take decisions about life, including your marriage.

And I find that logic of attending maturity earlier and menopause at 45 totally non-sense. I mean you are hardly 21-22. Get married between 25-30. Start a family within 2-3 years. And you don't have to worry about what happens at 45.

I would suggest you to explain to your parents these points and ask them to find guys of your age for your marriage.

[kevinUsa]

well as far as i know there is no maturity speed based on gender, but biologically 45 may be end game for babies for a woman, being closer to one's age u can share a lot of context and journey together in life, but while an older guy can lead and you can be his second, but whatever the chemistry works between 2 people , age is of little value its who you are comfortable with, consider how much of a life would be different if you get married to someone same age or someone +-10 years, social norms are there to protect you and restrict freedom , if you want freedom u will lose part of protection. consider your options why you wanna get married. "marriage is not a compulsion, its an optional CHOICE"

[kevinUsa]

Hi… my boyfriend is 11yrs older to me but nobody can guess it by looking both of us together.. so its my suggestion is if u feel that the person u love is suitable for u go infront of a mirror with him and u will see u r one soul… and u wl get all your answers… jst i really dont feel wide age difference creates any problem its about the age difference between two hearts and only 4 thing that matters in a relationship are love trust compromise respect…if u have all these capabilities u dont have to oberthink about whether ur relationship wl b consistent or not

[kevinUsa]

Ghanshyam Sharma, A Serious Joker...

Answered Sep 29, 2016

 

 

 

I feel that age is just a number,you need to meet some one to understand him in terms of his nature,likes,hobbies and how he takes life etc.Just because there is a big age difference doesn’t mean he won’t be compatible enough.its just about some one’s perception if they want to live a life in oblivion or go out and enjoy each and every little thing. Cheers 🙂

[k2s]

Why writing essays ? 

[kevinUsa]

1 minute ago, k2s said:

Why writing essays ? 

lifted from quora

[Kootami]

12 minutes ago, whatsapp said:

Recently decided to look for young age girl for matches !! Any pros and cons of your marriage for marrying with such huge diff?

Anna gari ref. Teyakandi dayachesi.

Plus or minus ?

[PakkintiKurradu]

14 minutes ago, whatsapp said:

Recently decided to look for young age girl for matches !! Any pros and cons of your marriage for marrying with such huge diff?

Anna gari ref. Teyakandi dayachesi.

8-10 yrs ante ye inter oo saduvtu untundi..  so degreekarchulu neeve

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3 minutes ago, PakkintiKurradu said:

8-10 yrs ante ye inter oo saduvtu untundi..  so degreekarchulu neeve

Nice ba..kathalu engi lone start avuthayi married ante evaru chudaru 

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7 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

lifted from quora

Are bhai personal life exp ante internet data copy paste enti baa

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7 minutes ago, Kootami said:

Plus or minus ?

Both 

[kevinUsa]

Just now, whatsapp said:

Are bhai personal life exp ante internet data copy paste enti baa 

quora lo kuda personal exp untayi konni 

[PakkintiKurradu]

2 minutes ago, whatsapp said:

Nice ba..kathalu engi lone start avuthayi married ante evaru chudaru 

ala em led ba..  na pend valla pend stratford lo sadivevaadu.. vaadu akkada oka pellaina pativratha tho affair nadipevaadu.. adhi weekends ki classes kosam PA ninchi VA vachi eeditho classes ayyaka tirigedi.. room ki kuda teeskelevadu

[PakkintiKurradu]

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