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12 minutes ago, pootareku said:

Hi Friends, 

I was a guy whom everyone loved when I had nothing but after I moved to USA things changed. Friends and relatives asked me for some financial help thinking that I might have saved lots of money. Unfortunately, I couldn’t help them due to my other commitments and job uncertainty. Now my friends putting post in our group like true colours of person revealed in hardships etc etc. I would have gone out of my way to help them but they are in a position to manage. They stopped talking to me and I am feeling bad😔

Same happened and I don’t have any relatives now except immediate family members.... can’t help but move on 

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Posted
2 minutes ago, soodhilodaaram said:

its good that they revealed their colors before any damage to you

even if you gave money, you will have hard time getting it back

india lo most folks ki others are utility, utility ayipoyaka done

nee utility nuvvu money ivvanapude done

what is that relationship that get vaporized due to one situation of inability to help, stop worrying about what others think

Yes bro I am trying. Thank you 

Posted
Just now, pootareku said:

True bro they don’t understand it. They simply calculate based on dollar rate without considering our expenses 

Artham iyela chepa , inaka pothe ignore chey. Idi andari intlo unde ramayanam a. Unnecessary ga nuv depress avaku

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3 minutes ago, akumm_bakkumm2 said:

Em parledu, love da gallu echaka malli adigithe kopalu vastayi vallake. Evvakapothe feel avtaru alanti friends unna okkate lekunna okkate. Don’t worry, neenu alane oka friend kashtalallo unna ante balance transfer chesi 3k echa eppatiki interests tho kalipi 6k katta cards ki kani 3 years ina vadu calls ki messages ki reply evvadu..

@3$%

Posted
14 minutes ago, pootareku said:

Hi Friends, 

I was a guy whom everyone loved when I had nothing but after I moved to USA things changed. Friends and relatives asked me for some financial help thinking that I might have saved lots of money. Unfortunately, I couldn’t help them due to my other commitments and job uncertainty. Now my friends putting post in our group like true colours of person revealed in hardships etc etc. I would have gone out of my way to help them but they are in a position to manage. They stopped talking to me and I am feeling bad😔

Throw a bird at them ba

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Alanti vallani light tisuko bro

Own brothers and sisters 

Babai la pillalu alanti vallu iathe konchem kastam iana ivvataniki try cheai and ichetapudu vallaki cheppu konchem kastam ga undi situation but Ni kosam istunna ani cheppeai 

Migita vallani light tisuko 

 

Posted

i gave to a friend 50,000 rupees...who asked me more money..i thought to give what ever he asked initially, but later thought to give only 50000...i thought to give more once he returns 50000 but that never happened...he also got into some other issues unfortunately

Posted
15 minutes ago, pootareku said:

Hi Friends, 

I was a guy whom everyone loved when I had nothing but after I moved to USA things changed. Friends and relatives asked me for some financial help thinking that I might have saved lots of money. Unfortunately, I couldn’t help them due to my other commitments and job uncertainty. Now my friends putting post in our group like true colours of person revealed in hardships etc etc. I would have gone out of my way to help them but they are in a position to manage. They stopped talking to me and I am feeling bad😔

you valued money over their relationship , they are also doing the same

let them cool off , if they like you they will eventually come around 

 

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Good for you .. you got rid of some ass holes without much trouble ... kondaru untaru ivvakunna malla malla adugutaru... 

Posted
2 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:

Same happened and I don’t have any relatives now except immediate family members.... can’t help but move on 

I helped my friend once sending 2k and he gave that money on interest to others and after one year he returned my 2k. I thought he need it but he used it to make money for himself 

Posted
2 minutes ago, The_One_Above_All said:

you valued money over their relationship , they are also doing the same

let them cool off , if they like you they will eventually come around 

 

Bro I had some commitments who will give me money here in America if I need it

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Manchidi ....paniki Malina friends and relatives vunna, lekunna okate

Posted
10 minutes ago, Spartan said:

@3$%

Navvu navvu niku alane untadi. Monna inkokadu, 60,000 INR evvu 1-2 years tarvatha istha appudu kuda evvakapothe ekkade oka friend unnadu vadi tho eppistha annadu. So vanne adukko dengai anna..@3$%.

Posted
27 minutes ago, pootareku said:

Bro I had some commitments who will give me money here in America if I need it

mari alantappudu feel avvakoodadu , you did what you thought was best for you 

Posted
15 minutes ago, The_One_Above_All said:

mari alantappudu feel avvakoodadu , you did what you thought was best for you 

Yes bro but human emotions untayi kada

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