Life Twist ha ha ha

[user789]

49 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

adhe bro, andharru iddarru working n earning a lot annukuntarrru, Day care bills + my Travelling expenses anni choosukunte waste anni pisthadhi, wife emo i have to work antadhi, naku vache salary tho kastham anni pisthadhi ... So struggling 

At the end of the day you must have saving more than what you save when one works .. if you have saved sufficient $$$ & feel it’s not worth then one gas to quit otherwise let it be.. if you compare with your friends or relatives then no point in thinking .. 

[lucky7]

2 minutes ago, edookatiivvuranayana said:

Same to same nadi kooda ive dates.

kids kooda 6&1. Andari relatives ilane untaru. Commercial life aindi ekkadaina. India na US aa ani nenu decide ayyi 5-6 years aithundi. The sooner you make up your mind, the better. Inka ee desham tarimese varaku just go with the flow ani decide ayya.DC area lo unte PM cheyyu, needi tenale nadi tenale maatalu matladukundam.

pm chessa bro number, i am staying in DC area only and from Tenali too  

[DaVinci]

7 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

yup Engine nee illage nadipistha bro, inka Devudi daya na praptham.  Desi manager Telugu athene, but physco n womenizer. Team lo girls andarrki full remote ichadu offshore lo, boys matram office ki ravalli anta 

Completely remote jobs dorike option unda me field lo? unte, it's better for you to find one and live with your family. 

Daycare vaalani, aviation industry vaalani poshinchadaaniki job chesthunattu undi. 

 

[lucky7]

1 minute ago, DaVinci said:

Completely remote jobs dorike option unda me field lo? unte, it's better for you to find one and live with your family. 

Daycare vaalani, aviation industry vaalani poshinchadaaniki job chesthunattu undi. 

 

First dhi matram super correct bro, Day Care is dam expensive ...., nalla challa mandhi chesthunarru bro, travelling jobs, flights lo mana vallu na place nunchi Delta Atlanta ki weekly commute chessa vallu challa mandhi unnarru 

[lucky7]

4 minutes ago, DaVinci said:

Completely remote jobs dorike option unda me field lo? unte, it's better for you to find one and live with your family. 

Daycare vaalani, aviation industry vaalani poshinchadaaniki job chesthunattu undi. 

 

remote jobs katham bro, andharru onsite kavalli antarru. But manager ok ante remote cheyyavachu. ippudu direct ga remote job anni evvarru cheppatam ledu bro, join ayyi prove chessukonni situation explain chessukonni remote thissukovatamme. 

[kushaluv]

Grass is always greener on the other side 

[lucky7]

Lessons Learned by me in the last 12 years 

1. TIME N Planning ARE very important, like (Stable FT job and buying house in Good area) will save u a lot in the long run. 

2. you should have a Stable job before getting married or must when planning kids. If u marry a working girl here life lo half struggles gone or if u marry some girl in India and bring her here set Expectations. For gods sake kids puttaka matram be sure to have ur parents or in-laws support if both r working other wise its very hard. 

3. SAVE MONEY and EVERY THING IS TEMPORARY ( all projects, friends , parties , good times , bad times ....etc )  

4. People Change (Even Parents) and dont assume any thing, Every thing is different. 

[kushaluv]

2 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

Lessons Learned by me in the last 12 years 

1. TIME N Planning ARE very important, like (Stable FT job and buying house in Good area) will save u a lot in the long run. 

2. you should have a Stable job before getting married or must when planning kids. If u marry a working girl here life lo half struggles gone or if u marry some girl in India and bring her here set Expectations. For gods sake kids puttaka matram be sure to have ur parents or in-laws support if both r working other wise its very hard. 

3. SAVE MONEY and EVERY THING IS TEMPORARY ( all projects, friends , parties , good times , bad times ....etc )  

4. People Change (Even Parents) and dont assume any thing, Every thing is different. 

1,3  confusing 

2,4  conflicting 

 

[lucky7]

2 minutes ago, kushaluv said:

1,3  confusing 

2,4  conflicting 

 

emi confusing n conflicting bro intha clarity ga chebithe , 1 and 3, nenu challa mandhi ni choosa, Time and planning challa baga use chessukunnarru. in terms of taking right decission at the right time and planned very well before getting married itself house konnarru manchi area lo and IBM offshore nunchi vachi Client ki Jump kottarru FT ki  now NJ lo house konnukunnarru ..etc 

2 and 4 emi conflicting bro, manchi stable job choosukunte before marriage n kids u n ur family will be happy.  Nenu challa mandhini choosa iniitall ga project lo raganne vokka laga untarru, after getting some exp they behave differently, and na colleagues parents n na parents kuda change ayyarru challa in the last 10 years. 

[DaVinci]

28 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

First dhi matram super correct bro, Day Care is dam expensive ...., nalla challa mandhi chesthunarru bro, travelling jobs, flights lo mana vallu na place nunchi Delta Atlanta ki weekly commute chessa vallu challa mandhi unnarru 

 

25 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

remote jobs katham bro, andharru onsite kavalli antarru. But manager ok ante remote cheyyavachu. ippudu direct ga remote job anni evvarru cheppatam ledu bro, join ayyi prove chessukonni situation explain chessukonni remote thissukovatamme. 

I see 

[DaVinci]

10 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

emi confusing n conflicting bro intha clarity ga chebithe , 1 and 3, nenu challa mandhi ni choosa, Time and planning challa baga use chessukunnarru. in terms of taking right decission at the right time and planned very well before getting married itself house konnarru manchi area lo and IBM offshore nunchi vachi Client ki Jump kottarru FT ki  now NJ lo house konnukunnarru ..etc 

2 and 4 emi conflicting bro, manchi stable job choosukunte before marriage n kids u n ur family will be happy.  Nenu challa mandhini choosa iniitall ga project lo raganne vokka laga untarru, after getting some exp they behave differently, and na colleagues parents n na parents kuda change ayyarru challa in the last 10 years. 

So your concerns are:

you did not save enough - okay. But are you in debts and did not save for a rainy day?

parents and friends changed - not in your hands 

unable to move back to India - again, it's a joint decision you and your wife have to take. You said your wife, parents, and in-laws don't like it. Keep parents and in-laws out of your decisions. You know what's best for you. 

staying together with your family in the U.S. - you and your wife have to discuss and figure out a way. That's it. 

 

 

 

 

[panipoori]

6 minutes ago, DaVinci said:

So your concerns are:

you did not save enough - okay. But are you in debts and did not save for a rainy day?

parents and friends changed - not in your hands 

unable to move back to India - again, it's a joint decision you and your wife have to take. You said your wife, parents, and in-laws don't like it. Keep parents and in-laws out of your decisions. You know what's best for you. 

staying together with your family in the U.S. - you and your wife have to discuss and figure out a way. That's it. 

 

 

 

 

Aayane cheppinde tippi tippi nuvvu cheptunnava

[DaVinci]

Just now, panipoori said:

Aayane cheppinde tippi tippi nuvvu cheptunnava

LOL 

mana control lo lenivaati gurinchi @TensionNahiLeneka ani chepthuna 

[DrBeta]

1 minute ago, panipoori said:

Aayane cheppinde tippi tippi nuvvu cheptunnava

Sometimes rephrasing our thoughts will be the solution to our problems. 

[lucky7]

18 minutes ago, DaVinci said:

So your concerns are:

you did not save enough - okay. But are you in debts and did not save for a rainy day? ==> I earned good, but didnt SAVE much (BMW 3 series konna 6 years maintain chessa now using CRV challa best annipisthundhii) . ippudu save cheddam anna not working out. due to travelling n day care fees.

parents and friends changed - not in your hands ==> ok that i agree its not in my hands. I need to change

unable to move back to India - again, it's a joint decision you and your wife have to take. You said your wife, parents, and in-laws don't like it. Keep parents and in-laws out of your decisions. You know what's best for you. ==> Jobs baganne unnayyi kaka pothe travelling n kids tho kastham ga undhi 

staying together with your family in the U.S. - you and your wife have to discuss and figure out a way. That's it. ==> eppudu discuss chessukuntam bro, eppudu 50-50 u ntadhi equation.