Why women remove Thaali and bottu after marriage

[sattipandu]

1 hour ago, samaja_vargamana said:

Only in hindu tradition:

 

Pelli anedhi veda mantarlatho konni 100 la mandi samaksham lo andari aseervadham tho jaruputharu.

Jeelakarra bellam, thaali bottu ane ghattalu entho important in a marriage. alantidhi pelli ayyi 3 months  kooda  avvakundane,

chala mandi ammayiulu thaali bottu teesi, mokam meeda bottu kooda teesesi, modern dress loki digipotharu..

then what is the importance of Thaali and bottu?

Mana vedalu and ithihasalu chebuthayi - Addadhi  thaali bottu and mokana bottu only mogudu poyinappudu matrame teesestharu ani.

mari ippudunna trend ammayilu andaru thaali bottu and ottu teesi veera viharam chesesthunaru..

mana sampradayam etu vypu eluthondhi..

Probably your wife doesn't think u deserve her respect

 

Go treat her well and then complain about such non trivial stuff

 

 

[Rajugadu]

4 minutes ago, samaja_vargamana said:

in my point of view, thaali esukone ammayiki eppudayina thappu chese alochana ochina she will pause for a second and think about her husband and feel guilty and refrain from doing mistakes in realstionship..

thaali teesi pakkana padesi bootu teesi oorege ammayialaki, thappu chese chance vasthe, she can easily get herself spoiled and vere vallatho padukodaniki kooda venukadarau ani naa feeling

I already told u. Aadadi thallu cheyali ante gadapa daatakunda kuda cheyagaladu

[samaja_vargamana]

Just now, sattipandu said:

Probably your wife doesn't think u deserve her respect

 

Go treat her well and then complain about such non trivial stuff

 

 

uchaa appuko..

naak inka pelli kaledhu vayya. nenu roju choose ammayilani choosi iam forming my opinions.

[samaja_vargamana]

1 minute ago, Rajugadu said:

I already told u. Aadadi thallu cheyali ante gadapa daatakunda kuda cheyagaladu

thalli bottu anedhi unte, 100% lo atleast oka 40 % ayina think cheyipisthadi befoire doing a mistake.agree on your point but that is my point.

[BostonBullodu]

1 minute ago, samaja_vargamana said:

uchaa appuko..

naak inka pelli kaledhu vayya. nenu roju choose ammayilani choosi iam forming my opinions.

baa LTT this thread after your marriage.....

[samaja_vargamana]

Just now, BostonBullodu said:

baa LTT this thread after your marriage.....

ippude intha bayakaram ga unnaru ante , pelli cheuskodaniki bayam ayitundhi baa.

[pootareku]

Murkhulatho argue cheyoddu. They will bring you down you to their level. If they don’t want to respect tradition or culture that is their problem. Some people are brought up like that and we cannot help them. Just keep calm and preserve the values inherited from our parents. 

[samaja_vargamana]

Just now, pootareku said:

Murkhulatho argue cheyoddu. They will bring you down you to their level. If they don’t want to respect tradition or culture that is their problem. Some people are brought up like that and we cannot help them. Just keep calm and preserve the values inherited from our parents. 

[Rajugadu]

inka paatha chinthakaya pachadi la ne unta ante evvadiki nastham. 

Inka aagithe sathi saha gamanam kuda thappu kadu ane la unnaru.

culture with scientific knowledge follow avvali edi chepthe adi kadu

[kevinUsa]

1 hour ago, samaja_vargamana said:

@Rajugadu - baa nuvvu thaali bottu teeseayadam full suport chesthunav ga, 

if any women least care about wearing thaali and bottu then why dont they get married without using thaali? answer this

ring pettukuntaru tappu enti ring unte

[samaja_vargamana]

Just now, kevinUsa said:

ring pettukuntaru tappu enti ring unte

ring pettukonedhi christinaity lo.. hindu daramam lo thaali is the main evidence 

[bbmercury09]

danni mingudam, deenni mingudam ani matladukune manam, hindu traditions guruinchi matladukovali :)...  In my opinion, its up to the husband and wife  how they want to live.. as long as they  have trust on each other , all these accessories shouldn't matter. 

[samaja_vargamana]

1 minute ago, bbmercury09 said:

danni mingudam, deenni mingudam ani matladukune manam, hindu traditions guruinchi matladukovali :)...  In my option, its up to the husband and wife  how they want to live.. as long as they  have trust on each other , all these accessories shouldn't matter. 

[sattipandu]

1 hour ago, samaja_vargamana said:

uchaa appuko..

naak inka pelli kaledhu vayya. nenu roju choose ammayilani choosi iam forming my opinions.

nee opinion ni madichi mu*** ettukooo

chithakaaaritha kukka lanti buddhulunna manaki pellam dorakatameyyy ekkuva 

inka paddathulu kooda paatinchaaali ani expectations okatiiiiiii 

[LazyRohit]

Ekkada karrollu or dongalu issues vuntay ani veskotledu anta

Its never safe to have any type of gold ornaments especially daily working women 

Gold Ornamnets vs Risk directly proportional

End of discussion piccha lite  love da lo traditions