Man lost 100 lbs to join the US Army

[Amrita]

5 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

Nee living with men part is not justified here.

Mating/physical needs/emotional need/progeny pakkana pettu 

the very first intention of you mentioning to be living with a man (being straight) ee ardam kaley.

adoption ki— neeku teliyani vishayam entii ante it’s easy for a single woman to adopt but not single guy especially if he wants to adopt a girl. 

Cheppaga threads chusi alochana vachindi wives to peace ledu progress ledu anukune vallaki alternative path ani. Nothing have to be justified. Ekkada right wrong evadiki telusu? Justify nene cheyanu. I just said if peace is priority this is a option ani. 

[LazyRohit]

15 minutes ago, LazyRohit said:

@Amrita

you misunderstood certain things

Abbayilu as roomies baguntaru that point is correct since ammayl laga takkuva vuntadi 

But all the male bachelors or roomies know this is temporary and with in few years they will have their own family, home & Once you tamper with this equation most of the boys will prefer having a separate apt, its not necessary to stay with friends in same apartment they will meet though

LTT @Amrita

[Amrita]

7 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Americans may opt out of marriages but even that's not predominant, and even then they manage to live as a couple in a committed relationship. What you described seems more like someone that is resigned to their fate as they aren't able to attract a suitable mate, and console themselves by saying "grapes are sour anyway". 

If someone were to truly want to lead a life like that, they would do that without complaining about doing it due to a lack of options or difficulty in finding a suitable partner. My 2c. 

This is a hypothetical idea. I just said if someone is suffering so much in marriage why not choose this ani thought nunchi vachindi. Btw ikkada threads about wives chuse vachindi e thought. Enta kashtamela ila haayiga peace vetukoni undachu kada ani.

[Amrita]

9 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Absolutely, also not everyone wants to take parental responsibilities. That too trying to foster a kid with a parent of the same sex whom as per the author isn't in an emotionally binding relationship with. 

Chances of this happening in reality - less than 0.1%

Dont adopt if you dont want parental responsibilities . Who is forcing ? na post lone rasanu if they miss fatherhood and want it ani.  Ammayini pelli chesukoni kuda kanakudadu if they dont want parental responsibilities btw.

[tennisluvr]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

This is a hypothetical idea. I just said if someone is suffering so much in marriage why not choose this ani thought nunchi vachindi. Btw ikkada threads about wives chuse vachindi e thought. Enta kashtamela ila haayiga peace vetukoni undachu kada ani.

Yeah ala complain chestharu but they also enjoy that secretly. Aa mukka ikkada chepparanuko but they like that spice in their life 

[sboyr2r]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

Nakem vayaragyam raledu . I neither hate men nor against against marriage. Animals have partners too and we just do a function extra as celebration. I just don't glorify marriage as a great successful milestone.  But society lo adedo sadhinchesam ane feeling adi kuda parents ethukutu  chesukuntu especiallyy in our society inka animals ki partners ave vetukuntayi. Its just a phase of life in my opinion. But the concept i talked works for some people who think they will lose peace / progress in life with marriage. Actually e thought alochinche laga chesindi oka 2 ids who posted threads about their wives saying progress ledu life lo and another thread saying wife to kashtalu blah blah blah. 

See you are comparing human life with that of animals, but it’s not appreciated at all. If you equate human life= animal life so everyone should get off their mobiles and wander in the forest for food. Just  to fill a quart of stomach inta cheyadam avasarama like doing bachelors, masters, certifications, season ni batti aa chettu kinda vuntey saal kada like summer lo mango ala ala annamata . 

Nannu dobbaddu ippudu, marriage aspect lo animals ki polika pedithe other aspects lo kuda ala ne ani cheppadanike cheppa 

[Amrita]

7 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Pelli makes a lot of sense in a lot of ways if two people were to want to live with each other and co-exist. They will have financial, emotional, sexual support as well. 

Marrying someone for mating purpose and then establishing an emotional bond with that person over the course of their lives is the cornerstone of all arranged marriages, which most of us are a part of. 

To term that yuck is even more cringeworthy. 

I called marrying for sex is yuck. You are now generalizing catching a sentence 

[tennisluvr]

Just now, Amrita said:

Dont adopt if you dont want parental responsibilities . Who is forcing ? na post lone rasanu if they miss fatherhood and want it ani.  Ammayini pelli chesukoni kuda kanakudadu if they dont want parental responsibilities btw.

Not everyone wants to "adopt" just because they want to be parents, most people like to have kids biologically. So they have the option to have an IVF to be a parent as well. 

[tennisluvr]

1 minute ago, sboyr2r said:

See you are comparing human life with that of animals, but it’s not appreciated at all. If you equate human life= animal life so everyone should get off their mobiles and wander in the forest for food. Just  to fill a quart of stomach inta cheyadam avasarama like doing bachelors, masters, certifications, season ni batti aa chettu kinda vuntey saal kada like summer lo mango ala ala annamata . 

Nannu dobbaddu ippudu, marriage aspect lo animals ki polika pedithe other aspects lo kuda ala ne ani cheppadanike cheppa 

Humans are a lot more complex than most animals esp when it comes to complex emotions, long term planning etc. So the comparison doesn't make any sense at all

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, sboyr2r said:

See you are comparing human life with that of animals, but it’s not appreciated at all. If you equate human life= animal life so everyone should get off their mobiles and wander in the forest for food. Just  to fill a quart of stomach inta cheyadam avasarama like doing bachelors, masters, certifications, season ni batti aa chettu kinda vuntey saal kada like summer lo mango ala ala annamata . 

Nannu dobbaddu ippudu, marriage aspect lo animals ki polika pedithe other aspects lo kuda ala ne ani cheppadanike cheppa 

Animals ki unna freedom manakekkadidi ? Adi best dream life kada?  I dont agree with you on this. 

[tennisluvr]

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I called marrying for sex is yuck. You are now generalizing catching a sentence 

What you call yuck is what the institution of arranged marriage runs on, close to 99% people do it for that reason. That doesn't mean that's the only reason, lol how difficult is it to fathom that. Congrats on being part of the 1%

[sboyr2r]

5 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Cheppaga threads chusi alochana vachindi wives to peace ledu progress ledu anukune vallaki alternative path ani. Nothing have to be justified. Ekkada right wrong evadiki telusu? Justify nene cheyanu. I just said if peace is priority this is a option ani. 

Why not living alone can give you peace. 

@jefferson1 ni chudu he lives alone, 

plays xbox, have a H2 SX, drives a Manual v6 premium. Monna ne iceland poyi ochchindu And he is happy and contended why does he have to live with another man anedii naa question to be in peace. And btw @jefferson1 is below 30 youth 

[Amrita]

2 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Not everyone wants to "adopt" just because they want to be parents, most people like to have kids biologically. So they have the option to have an IVF to be a parent as well. 

Ikkada evaru ila undali ani force cheyatledu kada? If they dont want to live with a woman i told this. I they want to live with a woman have biological kids fine. If they want to adopt kids then even more awesome. Ikkada matladutondi adollante padaka pelli ane panjaram lo edustunna valla gurinchi peace poyindi ani kottukuntunna valla gurinchi. 

[tennisluvr]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

Ikkada evaru ila undali ani force cheyatledu kada? If they dont want to live with a woman i told this. I they want to live with a woman have biological kids fine. If they want to adopt kids then even more awesome. Ikkada matladutondi adollante padaka pelli ane panjaram lo edustunna valla gurinchi peace poyindi ani kottukuntunna valla gurinchi. 

gotchu

[Amrita]

4 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

What you call yuck is what the institution of arranged marriage runs on, close to 99% people do it for that reason. That doesn't mean that's the only reason, lol how difficult is it to fathom that. Congrats on being part of the 1%

Thank you for your judgement without understanding what the other person is talking about !!  Pelli sex kosame chesukune narrow mindedness even poorava kalam lo ledu adi nenu only reason kakudadu annanu. Poorva kalam lo todu kosam emotional sharing ki after an age ki age valla hormones valla attraction ki ila chala reasons ki 100n mandi to mate cheste vache rogalu anni mind lo undi  ippadilaga AIDS lanti rogulu vaste kashtam ani anni 360 degrees lo alochinchi instituation of marriage vachindi. Miku teledu emo naku telusu . Sex is one of those reasons and never the only reason.