Abusive relationships

[DaVinci]

2 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Yes. When there is nothing else left, people adjust with something.

Adhi kind of cope up mechanism

That's the saddest part.

[MagaMaharaju]

1 minute ago, DaVinci said:

True. Paariponiyakunda emotional ga blackmail chesthaaru ilaanti cases lo. Adi partner entha tondarga realize avthe antha better

Yea but adhi vallantha valle realize avvali. Evaru enni cheppina burra ki ekkadhu.

People only believe what they like to believe.

[TOM_BHAYYA]

Physical or mental? Abuse

[DaVinci]

1 minute ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Yea but adhi vallantha valle realize avvali. Evaru enni cheppina burra ki ekkadhu.

People only believe what they like to believe.

Strong unte realize ayi bayataku velladame, abuser ki middle finger chupadamo chesthaaru. Leda baristhu kaalam saagadesthaaru inthe karma anukoni. 

[riashli]

Ilanti threads enduku chustano

[DaVinci]

1 minute ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Physical or mental? Abuse

Trauma renditlo untadi.. Physical aithe atleast things get easy anukunta.. US lo complaint file cheyyadaaniki ayina..

[quirky]

1 minute ago, DaVinci said:

Strong unte realize ayi bayataku velladame, abuser ki middle finger chupadamo chesthaaru. Leda baristhu kaalam saagadesthaaru inthe karma anukoni. 

Married ite,other factors play a role too society,parents tokka tolu avanni handle chese strength leni vallu untaru 

Lets all be less judgmental about others personal crisis

 

[DaVinci]

2 minutes ago, riashli said:

Ilanti threads enduku chustano

Baada trigger chesi unte I'm

[Scada]

33 minutes ago, DaVinci said:

do the person abusing his/her partner realize the trauma they are causing to their partners? Chaala generalized question ayi undochu

Chaala relationships lo one partner is more giving than the other..instead of feeling lucky, daani weakness la teesukoni partner ni abuse/harrass chesthu vaalaki narakam chupinche vaalu society lo chaala mandey unnaru. For one reason or another, inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu kuda entha mando unnaru.. barinchelaka extreme measures teesukune ammayakulu unnaru.. 

I really wish there are more avenues to come out and discuss - to heal oneself - these things; and whoever is going through such abuse and exploitation find more organic methods to deal with/come out of such relationships. 

1. One person love ni other person all cases lo appreciate cheyali ani rule unda ? without any effort love  and attention free ga ostunte inka partner ni enduku appreciate chestaru chpu !!! Manam deni kosam ina effort pedithe ne kadha dani result ni appreciate chesedi . I think they do not realize the abuse causing to their partner. e abusive behavior brought up conditions and environment meda base i untadi

2. Society lo ila harass chesthu narakam chupinche vallu ekuvaga leru,  self worth teliyaka a abuse ni barinche vallu ekuva. courage  a unte M lo di nuv oddu appreciation less relation ship oddu ani elpotaru.

3. inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu inka valla bad luck anukovale. Papam valaki a devude help cheyale

4. Avenues and organic endi ankul. 😀

[DaVinci]

3 minutes ago, quirky said:

Married ite,other factors play a role too society,parents tokka tolu avanni handle chese strength leni vallu untaru 

Lets all be less judgmental about others personal crisis

 

Yeah

[GullyBoy]

hi manchu manoj welcome to db 

[MagaMaharaju]

2 minutes ago, Scada said:

1. One person love ni other person all cases lo appreciate cheyali ani rule unda ? without any effort love  and attention free ga ostunte inka partner ni enduku appreciate chestaru chpu !!! Manam deni kosam ina effort pedithe ne kadha dani result ni appreciate chesedi .

2. Society lo ila harass chesthu narakam chupinche vallu ekuvaga leru,  self worth teliyaka a abuse ni barinche vallu ekuva. courage  a unte M lo di nuv oddu appreciation less relation ship oddu ani elpotaru.

3. inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu inka valla bad luck anukovale. Papam valaki a devude help cheyale

4. Avenues and organic endi ankul. 😀

this is late teens and early twenties kind of case where one loves to chase. chasing at one point end avthadhi.

TS is talking more about marriage kind of scenario.

[Scada]

Just now, MagaMaharaju said:

this is late teens and early twenties kind of case where one loves to chase. chasing at one point end avthadhi.

TS is talking more about marriage kind of scenario.

nen chepedi adey ..

[MagaMaharaju]

1 minute ago, Scada said:

nen chepedi adey ..

what do you mean

[Scada]

4 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

this is late teens and early twenties kind of case where one loves to chase. chasing at one point end avthadhi.

TS is talking more about marriage kind of scenario.

Enni families ni manam chustam chpu..papam wife a motham house hold work and career manage chestadi husband appreciative ga undadu and inlaws tisi parestaru or wife husband effort ni granted ga tiskuntadi and anni demand chestadi etc etc  ila chala unnai abusive behavior ki examples. evanni mental abuse kindake ostai