Advantage of taking care of Kids?

[Iriswest]

3 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

Asalu vallani kalu kinda pettakunda manam kukala pani chesi sampadinchi petti, vallani ethukoni ..muthi kadigi anni kadigi use emundhi?

Repu poduna manalani 99% chudaru asalu manam intha kastapdi use emundhi? Valla prema kosama? Pegu bandam kosama?🤦‍♂️

Sometimes americans best anipisthadi

They keep in house as long as education is free and then mudi medha tantharu after 18.

Gunde meeda chey veskoni cheppu, nee kid ninnu chusi navvite entha happy ga untado? Nuvvu kalli moosi teriche lopu ee age aipoiddi. Vaallu school ki vellipoyaka ee happy moments miss avutav. Cherish them.

[soodhilodaaram]

8 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

Buddodu rathrantha edusthunadu.

Whole day I am keep on working production issues, rathrantha vadini ethukoni vundali 🤦‍♂️ repoduna manaki 70 years vachaka maha ante vrudshramaniki e parents day ko vastharu.

procreation is not a social security package, you job is to nourish them and cherish, not do something and expect returns

2 yrs ayyaka, when they give back the love and affection back to you, you will feel those priceless and you may have already got your returns back in the form of bliss

kids motivate us to do lot of things that we may not even do otherwise, instead of a being mechanical, enjoy multitasking of work and kid

always get some power naps whenever you get chance, a quick 10 mins naps afternoon can go a long way in your situation

 

[Katti_Ramdas]

Endi raa ee taadu.. vallu manalni kanamannara emanna.. 

maname kanesi maname premalu penchesukoni ippudu idanta enduku ani ante ela.. manam mana parents ki chesindi enti. Same haath vallu manaki istaru.. 

[Athadu007]

4 hours ago, Katti_Ramdas said:

Endi raa ee taadu.. vallu manalni kanamannara emanna.. 

maname kanesi maname premalu penchesukoni ippudu idanta enduku ani ante ela.. manam mana parents ki chesindi enti. Same haath vallu manaki istaru.. 

Bro we are following the same way our parents did...antha prema avasaram ledemo when we know when they dont care of us in future why should we invest our time and love on them antuna

[kothavani]

6 minutes ago, Athadu007 said:

Bro we are following the same way our parents did...antha prema avasaram ledemo when we know when they dont care of us in future why should we invest our time and love on them antuna

Nuvu lite tisuko baa some times there are pressures after kid mostly mother ki vastayi,  ikada a you also got affected little bit, as life changes dramatically after kids , you are not able to sustain the change, it's just temporary phase once they grow up and your job stuff settles life moves on , dont over think you will be fine you will.love your kids,  just some stress you need to handle for some time 

Yiu are worried now I know ma y coworkers they tell stories of teenagers who hit them emotionally , so dont worry,  just take one day at time , having kid and family is the best thing you  an have in life

[Katti_Ramdas]

13 minutes ago, Athadu007 said:

Bro we are following the same way our parents did...antha prema avasaram ledemo when we know when they dont care of us in future why should we invest our time and love on them antuna

Kanatam maneyalsindi gaa.. mundu telidu antav le anthe naa

[Athadu007]

14 minutes ago, kothavani said:

Nuvu lite tisuko baa some times there are pressures after kid mostly mother ki vastayi,  ikada a you also got affected little bit, as life changes dramatically after kids , you are not able to sustain the change, it's just temporary phase once they grow up and your job stuff settles life moves on , dont over think you will be fine you will.love your kids,  just some stress you need to handle for some time 

Yiu are worried now I know ma y coworkers they tell stories of teenagers who hit them emotionally , so dont worry,  just take one day at time , having kid and family is the best thing you  an have in life

EXAMPLE?

[Athadu007]

36 minutes ago, Katti_Ramdas said:

Kanatam maneyalsindi gaa.. mundu telidu antav le anthe naa

Ipudu katnam tho yem sambandam ra babu

[lovemystate]

17 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

Asalu vallani kalu kinda pettakunda manam kukala pani chesi sampadinchi petti, vallani ethukoni ..muthi kadigi anni kadigi use emundhi?

Repu poduna manalani 99% chudaru asalu manam intha kastapdi use emundhi? Valla prema kosama? Pegu bandam kosama?🤦‍♂️

Sometimes americans best anipisthadi

They keep in house as long as education is free and then mudi medha tantharu after 18.

Simple - dont deny yourself lifes little pleasures because of it. Keep a budget every month 500-1000 or more if you earn more whch you spend only on your enjoyment (not family outings), it can be some fancy electronic or nice bar n restaurant with your freinds etc.

[kothavani]

35 minutes ago, Athadu007 said:

EXAMPLE?

Machhu ki konni examples cheptha from middle school kids

 Please knock the door before coming into my room,  why you still drive the old car , mom your are tooo boring can we do some intersting things, why cant we live in bigger home this house is too small, please leave me alone etc etc 

 

[Katti_Ramdas]

20 minutes ago, Athadu007 said:

Ipudu katnam tho yem sambandam ra babu

inka alochinchi em labham ra babu...

[Athadu007]

2 hours ago, kothavani said:

Machhu ki konni examples cheptha from middle school kids

 Please knock the door before coming into my room,  why you still drive the old car , mom your are tooo boring can we do some intersting things, why cant we live in bigger home this house is too small, please leave me alone etc etc 

 

First door tappa migatahvi ok

[Quickgun_murugan]

20 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

Asalu vallani kalu kinda pettakunda manam kukala pani chesi sampadinchi petti, vallani ethukoni ..muthi kadigi anni kadigi use emundhi?

Repu poduna manalani 99% chudaru asalu manam intha kastapdi use emundhi? Valla prema kosama? Pegu bandam kosama?🤦‍♂️

Sometimes americans best anipisthadi

They keep in house as long as education is free and then mudi medha tantharu after 18.

 

20 hours ago, kothavani said:

Idi emina business anukunava endi baa , balichi kanama ? you have to take care of them and plan your retirement accordingly dont expect anything thats the best way

 

20 hours ago, psycopk said:

Nuvvu chese panulu ani nee santhosham

kosame

 

20 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

Are you really getting happyness after this?

Don’t sacrifice your life for your kids .. give them within your capabilities.  

Ivanni chesedi enduku ante pegu bandham first 

secondarily without your knowing you are giving a human relationship respecting and harmony loving individual to the society. The more these kind of people the better future generation.

neeku teliyakundaane nuvvoka prema pooritha bhavishyathunu nirmistunnav... mana parents did the same too that’s why we have some kind of sympathy or respect towards others’ parents and humans ... 

[CH_Desi]

21 hours ago, Athadu007 said:

Asalu vallani kalu kinda pettakunda manam kukala pani chesi sampadinchi petti, vallani ethukoni ..muthi kadigi anni kadigi use emundhi?

Repu poduna manalani 99% chudaru asalu manam intha kastapdi use emundhi? Valla prema kosama? Pegu bandam kosama?🤦‍♂️

Sometimes americans best anipisthadi

They keep in house as long as education is free and then mudi medha tantharu after 18.

I don't think that is case with everyone, there are so many colleagues in my office who take care of their kids until they get out of college with a job. 

[Somedude]

One should think about all these basic questions before bringing the non-existing beings into the existance. You are responsbile for any suffering of yours or theirs after this point. They didn't ask you to bring into the existence (conundrum, ahh?)