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[kevinUsa]

Got married 1 yr back , My parents and my wife doesn't get along (basically banti nhi apas mein , bcoz there were some issues which i will not discuss here to keep the post short) , Same with my parents and my wife's parents (my in laws)

Coming to the point , Me & my wife live in different city from my parents and my in laws. Hometown Visit around 2-3 times in a year

My home town & My in laws home is around 1.5 hours (with airport almost equal distance to both homes)
My family says , u both have to come here first and go from here , In between you can go to in laws
(Also i think if i stay more than 2 days at my in laws, my parents will not like it )

My Wife says , We will go to your home first but we will leave from her parents (basically my in laws house)

Now this thing keep coming up , if i listen to wife , then parents will get mad and vice-versa also
the only solution is that she will go to airport from her house and i will go from mine (although this also will create problems)

So basically how to divide holidays , Ex if you go for 5-6 days to your house and your in laws
please help !!! "