Engagement ki Pelli ki Gap Entha Undaali

[ChinnaBhasha]

3 minutes ago, Pillipilla said:

Koncham clarify cheyy

Maybe antunnav kada. clarity missing no. Not sounding assertive about marriage. 

[Pillipilla]

2 minutes ago, ChinnaBhasha said:

Maybe antunnav kada. clarity missing no. Not sounding assertive about marriage. 

Ohoo neek ala arthamayinda

[ChinnaBhasha]

Just now, Pillipilla said:

Ohoo neek ala arthamayinda

That maybe is for timeframe?? Atla aithe okay. 

[Scada]

Asak okkokka reponse okko diamond la undi ..keep flowing

[Quickgun_murugan]

19 hours ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Maa dosthanla okadidhi 11 months inkokadidhi 9 months 

Why ? ani sabhya samajam asking Tom vuncle 

[Pillipilla]

7 minutes ago, Scada said:

Asak okkokka reponse okko diamond la undi ..keep flowing

Em response ra

[Scada]

8 minutes ago, Pillipilla said:

Em response ra

all peoples opinions on topic  ani telling 

[Pillipilla]

Just now, Scada said:

all peoples opinions on topic  ani telling 

Ok

[user789]

Don’t risk waiting for longer duration unless it’s really impossible. 

[Pillipilla]

Just now, user789 said:

Don’t risk waiting for longer duration unless it’s really impossible. 

I don't understand why you call it a risk, getting engaged is a very big commitment no?

[SteelPlantBabai]

arranged aithe 3-6 months lopu must.. love aithe bore kotti inkokadni tagulkune lopu must 

[kathanayaka]

bongulo discussions aapi...dont give much gap after engagement

simple reasons

more talks between parents/couples and more fights obviously

couples looses interests on each as they get to know daily updates and nothing else to discuss 

the spark which they had at beginning will fade way

slowly hourly talks will reduce to daily talks and weekly talks and one will say "you lost interest on me"

anni details telisipoyaka tokkalodi veedina/deenna nenu chesukunedi ane assumption

BIGGEST PROBLEM....ONE WILL GET ANOTHER GOOD MATCH AFTER ENGAGEMENT AND PARENTS WILL RUTHLESSLY IGNORE THE ALREADY ENGAGED FAMILY AND SIMPLY SAY SORRY...ITS A HECK OF A THING TO BOTH FAMILIES

[panipoori]

8 minutes ago, kathanayaka said:

bongulo discussions aapi...dont give much gap after engagement

simple reasons

more talks between parents/couples and more fights obviously

couples looses interests on each as they get to know daily updates and nothing else to discuss 

the spark which they had at beginning will fade way

slowly hourly talks will reduce to daily talks and weekly talks and one will say "you lost interest on me"

anni details telisipoyaka tokkalodi veedina/deenna nenu chesukunedi ane assumption

BIGGEST PROBLEM....ONE WILL GET ANOTHER GOOD MATCH AFTER ENGAGEMENT AND PARENTS WILL RUTHLESSLY IGNORE THE ALREADY ENGAGED FAMILY AND SIMPLY SAY SORRY...ITS A HECK OF A THING TO BOTH FAMILIES

Only appludable response in this thread

[Scurvy]

13 minutes ago, kathanayaka said:

bongulo discussions aapi...dont give much gap after engagement

simple reasons

more talks between parents/couples and more fights obviously

couples looses interests on each as they get to know daily updates and nothing else to discuss 

the spark which they had at beginning will fade way

slowly hourly talks will reduce to daily talks and weekly talks and one will say "you lost interest on me"

anni details telisipoyaka tokkalodi veedina/deenna nenu chesukunedi ane assumption

BIGGEST PROBLEM....ONE WILL GET ANOTHER GOOD MATCH AFTER ENGAGEMENT AND PARENTS WILL RUTHLESSLY IGNORE THE ALREADY ENGAGED FAMILY AND SIMPLY SAY SORRY...ITS A HECK OF A THING TO BOTH FAMILIES

+1 Reality cheppav. Db lo cho chweet guys will not agree with this.

[Scada]

ltt