Difference between caste and gothram

[kakatiya]

13 hours ago, Amrita said:

Hmm future lo kuda matrimony websites unte anta kanna dourbhagyam Inkoti undademo.

Enduku vundakoodadhu..tinder is a matrimony website too..

 

People date and if they like they continue..

 

Matrimony websites kooda anthe..ammai abhai nachihene.

 

Once they like profile..they will meet each other for couple of months and decide.

[kittaya]

On 2/14/2020 at 6:46 AM, kakatiya said:

Most castes we see today in United Andhra or any region in Deccan part of India evolved in last 400-500 years. 

Castes keep changing forms and names. Many caste names that are mentioned in Mahabharata don't exists anymore..just the caste names where reused for better respect and simillarities. 

But what stayed for long is "gothram names"

A gothram is a clan name that belongs to one family chain.

 

Never marry from same gothram . That is how genetic diversity achieved. 

 

Gotram is like DNA 

[Amrita]

2 hours ago, kakatiya said:

Enduku vundakoodadhu..tinder is a matrimony website too..

 

People date and if they like they continue..

 

Matrimony websites kooda anthe..ammai abhai nachihene.

 

Once they like profile..they will meet each other for couple of months and decide.

Matrimony lo parents involved it’s not same as dating app .

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[SkyHiigh]

On 2/14/2020 at 9:46 AM, kakatiya said:

Most castes we see today in United Andhra or any region in Deccan part of India evolved in last 400-500 years. 

Castes keep changing forms and names. Many caste names that are mentioned in Mahabharata don't exists anymore..just the caste names where reused for better respect and simillarities. 

But what stayed for long is "gothram names"

A gothram is a clan name that belongs to one family chain.

 

Never marry from same gothram . That is how genetic diversity achieved. 

 

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we are in digital era

 

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[kakatiya]

On 2/16/2020 at 2:32 PM, Amrita said:

Matrimony lo parents involved it’s not same as dating app .

If matrimony profile is opened by parents .if you open then it's pretty much dating app

[Amrita]

10 minutes ago, kakatiya said:

If matrimony profile is opened by parents .if you open then it's pretty much dating app

Matrimony apps lo dating chesi timepass chestunnaru ani teliste tantaru. People who are seriously thinking to get married open an account in matrimony app. Dating apps mostly are for timepass/ one night stands which might lead to marriage too. Any one any age can open an account in dating apps . Serious alliances usually in matrimony apps .  Parents involve avvakunda bride and grooms might open and talk in matrimony apps but usually it doesnt happen like that with everyone.  I can talk for myself ma dantlo parents talk first show horoscopes then proceed further sharing numbers. Comparing an arranged serious  alliance with  dating i dont know i feel weird.  We can agree to disagree though !

Edited February 17, 2020 by Amrita

[redsox]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

Matrimony apps lo dating chesi timepass chestunnaru ani teliste tantaru. People who are seriously thinking to get married open an account in matrimony app. Dating apps mostly are for timepass/ one night stands. Any one any age can open an account in dating apps.  Parents involve avvakunda bride and grooms might open and talk in matrimony apps but usually it doesnt happen like that with everyone.  I can talk for myself ma dantlo parents talk first show horoscopes then proceed further sharing numbers. Comparing an arranged alliance with dating i dont know i feel weird. 

Bold: that’s a broad generalization 

timepass, one-night stands kosam chusevallu just a subset

[Amrita]

Just now, redsox said:

Bold: that’s a broad generalization 

timepass, one-night stands kosam chusevallu just a subset

U might have read it again. I edited instantly. 

5 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Matrimony apps lo dating chesi timepass chestunnaru ani teliste tantaru. People who are seriously thinking to get married open an account in matrimony app. Dating apps mostly are for timepass/ one night stands which might lead to marriage. Any one any age can open an account in dating apps . Serious alliances usually in matrimony apps .  Parents involve avvakunda bride and grooms might open and talk in matrimony apps but usually it doesnt happen like that with everyone.  I can talk for myself ma dantlo parents talk first show horoscopes then proceed further sharing numbers. Comparing an arranged serious  alliance with  dating i dont know i feel weird.  We can agree to disagree though !

 

[redsox]

3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

U might have read it again. I edited instantly. 

 

have to

[Amrita]

11 minutes ago, redsox said:

have to

My whole point is purpose / agenda of each apps is different though they could date from matrimony app or marry from dating app .  If you know what I mean . 

[redsox]

1 hour ago, Amrita said:

My whole point is purpose / agenda of each apps is different though they could date from matrimony app or marry from dating app .  If you know what I mean . 

Agreed 🥳🥳

[kakatiya]

@dasari4kntr add this to directory under marriage 

[kakatiya]

On 2/17/2020 at 3:03 PM, Amrita said:

My whole point is purpose / agenda of each apps is different though they could date from matrimony app or marry from dating app .  If you know what I mean . 

I don't know what you mean..but every country has its own dating style

 

In India people date after marriage..some people don't date at all even after marriage

[Gnan_anna]

On 2/14/2020 at 10:36 PM, Amrita said:

Kind of agree anna chelli same gothram annaru appadi rojullo so that they force for diversity. Konni castes lo andariki kalipi same gothram  anta vallu em cheyali ? Like gouds andariki koundinyasa ( As far as i remember but all same gothram) gothram anta i was surprised when i was told this . I was told by few friends their husband side kuda koundinyasa ney. I think only few castes have multiple gothras  and brahmins are following as they have that option to select from different gothras they have. Papam gothram okkate unte forced ga they cant go out of caste and marry no? I mean not everyone can just go for love marriages.

Yes ...tg lo almost 80% gouds ki koundinya gothram untadhi...