Subtle signs of Narcissistic aBu$e

[Louboutin_shoe]

Anyone can fall victims, surprisingly there are many female narcissists and so many men are suffering. Here are some subtle signs of Narcissist

1. They will never give your feelings any validation.

2. They will tell you what your intentions are, like they know you better than you know yourself.

3. They will do things for others intentionally in front of you so you know your place when they never give you anything.

4. They act secretive and sneaky even when there is no reason to, just to keep you anxious and suspicious and insecure.

5. They will answer your question with a question, argue circles around you until you don't know what the argument was about in the first place.

6. They will sleep with their back turned to you constantly, they will never willingly touch you or rub you or look lovingly into your eyes.

7. They make you jump thru a hoop for them and without any acknowledgement of that, they give you five more hoops to jump thru.

8. They gaslight and tell you that you said things you never said, or they said things that you know they didn't say, and vice versa and criss cross and Jesus. Crazy making. No. Absolute insanity making.

9. They threaten to leave you or they do leave you for a night or days or weeks, cruelly blocking you and never answering you making sure you know your place. You are nothing and a burden and you are lucky they even tolerate you. Don't you ever create drama again by asking them a question they don't like or by holding them accountable for anything!!

10. They compliment their friend's wives and girlfriends but never compliment you.

11. They steal your sayings, your jokes, your mannerisms, your songs, your friends, your family, your ideas, and your desire to live.

12. They buy themselves nice stuff but when you need something you get the lecture that, “we don't have any money”.

13. They hide money and assets and credit cards and paychecks and even pocket change from you.

14. They have a constant air of contempt and annoyance and distain when they are around you.

15. They will rage you into the fetal position soaking the floor with your tears and slobber.

16. They smirk at your pain.

 

[SharkTank]

good post

[2020]

I am suffering with male narcissist

[Louboutin_shoe]

1 minute ago, 2020 said:

I am suffering with male narcissist

I’m so s0rry. I can totally understand what you might be going through. Unfortunately situation may not get better. Only thing you can do right now is being financially independent.Try to focus more on your inner peace than to try to argue abt every single injustice.Try to avoid arguments, avoid urself from becoming a scapegoat.
Is there a chance that you can avoid this person completely, like cutting all sorts of contacts and just disappearing?? 
Hardest part is Narcissists never want to let you go 

[Louboutin_shoe]

They can be ur husband, wife,mom,dad,sibling, friend or even a boss/ co worker 

 

[DummyVariable]

I don’t see what is wrong in all of these things.

[Ellen]

@Louboutin_shoe true re. Narcissistic personality disorder is the worst form of mental disorder. Because schizophrenia, hysteria ilanti mental disorders toh, Avi unna patients a suffer avtaru. NPD lo...the patient tortures people around them and doesn't even realize the kind of harm they are inflicting upon others as it feels normal to them. Sadly, not enough awareness is present about NPD. People with NPD should be criminally liable. Some people think being a narcissist is cool, because they don't give a sh1t to the sufferings of others. They live at the expense of the emotional stress of their partner/friend/relatives... Pathetic!!!

[Manikyam]

 

Ellen,, u nailed it. had the worst experience in my recent past

 They live at the expense of the emotional stress of their partner/friend/relatives... Pathetic!!!

 

 

[Ellen]

3 minutes ago, Manikyam said:

 

Ellen,, u nailed it. had the worst experience in my recent past

 They live at the expense of the emotional stress of their partner/friend/relatives... Pathetic!!!

 

 

I'm sorrry u had to experience them. Hope u r doing ok now

[Michaelbarbosa]

interesting thread but do ppl even know or realize that they are being narcissistic ??

[Ellen]

16 minutes ago, Michaelbarbosa said:

interesting thread but do ppl even know or realize that they are being narcissistic ??

Majority of them don't and they think it is absolutely cool to be that way. Gives them a dangerous kind of powerful feeling 

[bostonbro]

Why they become Narcissistic?

1. The way they were raised by absent parents/ no love . May be parents were from agriculture .

2. child sex abuse/

3.They join rowdy batch during adulthood. May be prone to drug abuse

4.God/Religion delusion.

Narcisissism mixed with grandiose delusions like guru/baba/scientists/phd for ego purpose  = fool

 

 

 

[bostonbro]

12 minutes ago, Michaelbarbosa said:

interesting thread but do ppl even know or realize that they are being narcissistic ??

I  may be 20% i think..

I'm good at finding my own truth despite knowing the reality.

SUBJECT , OBJECTIVE TRUTH.

[Ellen]

9 minutes ago, bostonbro said:

Why they become Narcissistic?

1. The way they were raised by absent parents/ no love . May be parents were from agriculture .

2. child sex abuse/

3.They join rowdy batch during adulthood. May be prone to drug abuse

4.God/Religion delusion.

Narcisissism mixed with grandiose delusions like guru/baba/scientists/phd for ego purpose  = fool

 

 

 

Add suppressed inferiority complex to your list. Some parents raise children with delusional level expectations and push them for unusual goals, which results in inferiority complex. They try to suppress this inferiority without addressing the root cause and go into denial. They develop a false self image from demeaning people around them to escape this denial ultimately resulting in grandiose delusions even in normal working population. 

[bostonbro]

4 minutes ago, Ellen said:

Add suppressed inferiority complex to your list. Some parents raise children with delusional level expectations and push them for unusual goals, which results in inferiority complex. They try to suppress this inferiority without addressing the root cause and go into denial. They develop a false self image from demeaning people around them to escape this denial ultimately resulting in grandiose delusions even in normal working population. 

+1

Agreed

I read abt some people  in messaih complex.