married with kids (1/2), ela laakkosthunnaru bandi US lo

[Amrita]

Just now, LadiesTailor said:

Meeku pillale lokam kada aa matram agnanam vuntundi lendi 😊

E mata matuku bahu beshugga chepparu my kids will be my world 🌍 

[LadiesTailor]

3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

E mata matuku bahu beshugga chepparu my kids will be my world 🌍 

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, LadiesTailor said:

True 

[Hydrockers]

[Catalpha]

46 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Nice no ? 

No, not nice at all. Why should one adult human be treated like a kid?

[Catalpha]

32 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Thanks !
 

Kids no kids anedi emi undadu ani na opinion it’s zeal and where you want to be . Kids undi phd chestunnavallu unnaru . Mana laziness ki we search for excuses . For some money is motivation for some recognition. Zeal unnavadu emunna chaduvukuntadu progress avutaru . 

Kids and tenure track is hell, especially balancing a ticking a biological clock, a flip side is losing tenure. 

[Amrita]

2 minutes ago, Catalpha said:

No, not nice at all. Why should one adult human be treated like a kid?

Oh kid ante Ippudu diapers testadu anukunnava ? Sare !

[Jilchika]

2 minutes ago, Catalpha said:

Kids and tenure track is hell, especially balancing a ticking a biological clock, a flip side is losing tenure. 

Men don’t have the bio clock problem no...

[Catalpha]

1 minute ago, Jilchika said:

Men don’t have the bio clock problem no...

That's why professors in Universities are mostly men. 

[Jilchika]

Just now, Catalpha said:

That's why there are very few female professors in Universities. 

Most of the school teachers are female.  If they are able to manage then what’s the problem that is preventing females from continuing as professors. The reason can’t be bio clock alone.

[AndhraneedSCS]

1 hour ago, raaajaaa said:

Bro ikada married with 3 kids evaritho chepukovali na situation

inka chepali ante 4 kids na wife ni kid laga chusukunta

emaina ante annam antaru .. feel avutharu.. anduke emi anadam ledu 

[Catalpha]

Just now, Jilchika said:

Most of the school teachers are female.  If they are able to manage then what’s the problem that is preventing females from continuing as professors. The reason can’t be bio clock alone.

You have no idea what it takes to be a professor do you? It takes an intense PhD, an intense postdoc, and the most intense tenure track, which lasts for 5 years where in you're an assistant professor, and you need to bring in few million dollars in research budget to be able to secure tenure. After that, you become an associate professor where in you need to establish yourself as the leader in the field to be able to become a full professor. Let's say you finish your PhD in your late 20s, you start being an assistant professor aka tenure track early 30s. So, most people struggle to manage students, secure funding, run a lab, publish results, all in a span of 5 years. Men won't need to take time off to have babies, so they can have as many as they want. But women can't afford to loose time if they want to get tenured. So, most female professors have kids after getting a tenure, usually late 30s, so they are fighting against a ticking biological clock, while struggling to get tenure. 

[jaijava]

1 minute ago, Catalpha said:

You have no idea what it takes to be a professor do you? It takes an intense PhD, an intense postdoc, and the most intense tenure track, which lasts for 5 years where in you're an assistant professor, and you need to bring in few million dollars in research budget to be able to secure tenure. After that, you become an associate professor where in you need to establish yourself as the leader in the field to be able to become a full professor. Let's say you finish your PhD in your late 20s, you start being an assistant professor aka tenure track early 30s. So, most people struggle to manage students, secure funding, run a lab, publish results, all in a span of 5 years. Men won't need to take time off to have babies, so they can have as many as they want. But women can't afford to loose time if they want to get tenured. So, most female professors have kids after getting a tenure, usually late 30s, so they are fighting against a ticking biological clock, while struggling to get tenure. 

late 20s ki phd avtunda? isn't it too late? someone was saying 29 is too late.. and the average age is like 25 or 26.. how true is this.. asking you because you did phd yourself

[Catalpha]

8 minutes ago, jaijava said:

late 20s ki phd avtunda? isn't it too late? someone was saying 29 is too late.. and the average age is like 25 or 26.. how true is this.. asking you because you did phd yourself

It varies broadly, these are the statistics apparently.

A PhD takes twice as long as a bachelor's degree to complete. The average student takes 8.2 years to slog through a PhD program and is 33 years old before earning that top diploma.

[Deadp0ol2]

36-37 daatindo bandi shed ki ochestadi.

Young age lo active unnatu undav..slow ayipotav