Calling Catalpha

[Iriswest]

https://amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/373750/

 

@Catalpha This is for you. I thought you can associate with her.

[chanchala]

what about it? why should women be anything other than what they want to be.

catalpha may be wrong about many things, about supporting oppressive systems to her own benefit, but she's right about women having the choice to do what they want to do.

a woman can give it all up for career if that's what she wants to do. although I think its a silly thing to do for anyone.. even for a man. but one wants to be miserable, who can stop them..

you can challenge them when they step on your toes. otherwise they can do what they wan to.

[Iriswest]

1 hour ago, chanchala said:

what about it? why should women be anything other than what they want to be.

catalpha may be wrong about many things, about supporting oppressive systems to her own benefit, but she's right about women having the choice to do what they want to do.

a woman can give it all up for career if that's what she wants to do. although I think its a silly thing to do for anyone.. even for a man. but one wants to be miserable, who can stop them..

you can challenge them when they step on your toes. otherwise they can do what they wan to.

When a woman is given a choice to choose between biological clock and career, she usually opts for biological clock. Even when she doesn’t, it is fine coz it’s her choice. But if she does opt for biological clock and still wants to excel in career as she would have done without the kid, then she needs to have the support of family, (which is sadly not the case all the time)

 

I am trying to help her with her conflicted state of mind. Women who gave birth in late 30s are no less mothers. And women who had kids in early 20s are going strong career wise in late 30s too. Also, women who don’t have any kids are absolutely fine too. 

[chanchala]

28 minutes ago, Iriswest said:

When a woman is given a choice to choose between biological clock and career, she usually opts for biological clock. Even when she doesn’t, it is fine coz it’s her choice. But if she does opt for biological clock and still wants to excel in career as she would have done without the kid, then she needs to have the support of family, (which is sadly not the case all the time)

 

I am trying to help her with her conflicted state of mind. Women who gave birth in late 30s are no less mothers. And women who had kids in early 20s are going strong career wise in late 30s too. Also, women who don’t have any kids are absolutely fine too. 

oh. 

[DummyVariable]

8 hours ago, Iriswest said:

When a woman is given a choice to choose between biological clock and career, she usually opts for biological clock. Even when she doesn’t, it is fine coz it’s her choice. But if she does opt for biological clock and still wants to excel in career as she would have done without the kid, then she needs to have the support of family, (which is sadly not the case all the time)

 

I am trying to help her with her conflicted state of mind. Women who gave birth in late 30s are no less mothers. And women who had kids in early 20s are going strong career wise in late 30s too. Also, women who don’t have any kids are absolutely fine too. 

What do you mean by support of the family? 

[Catalpha]

Just now, DummyVariable said:

What do you mean by support of the family? 

Husband and kids (if any) should be supportive, as in help with the chores, take responsibility of kids etc.

[DummyVariable]

32 minutes ago, Catalpha said:

Husband and kids (if any) should be supportive, as in help with the chores, take responsibility of kids etc.

Child labor annamatta

[Catalpha]

3 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Child labor annamatta

Husband is a child?

[Iriswest]

1 hour ago, DummyVariable said:

Child labor annamatta

Bottom line is you can’t have it all at the same time. Pedda kid sibling ni chuskovatam child labor avutunda adhyaksha?

[DummyVariable]

5 minutes ago, Iriswest said:

Pedda kid sibling ni chuskovatam child labor avutunda adhyaksha?

Are we expecting kids to do the same job as adults? Why should kids be robbed off of thallithandrula prema? Selfish one would think. 

[Iriswest]

3 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Are we expecting kids to do the same job as adults? Why should kids be robbed off of thallithandrula prema? Selfish one would think. 

Nee laga aalochiste evaru 2nd kid kanoddu inka. Pedda kid when has reached appropriate age can take care of sibling when mom and dad are busy.

[Catalpha]

7 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Are we expecting kids to do the same job as adults? Why should kids be robbed off of thallithandrula prema? Selfish one would think. 

You mean only thalli prema though, because a man should be doing his job, which is making money. 

[DummyVariable]

4 minutes ago, Iriswest said:

Nee laga aalochiste evaru 2nd kid kanoddu inka. Pedda kid when has reached appropriate age can take care of sibling when mom and dad are busy.

If you have kids (whether first or twenty first), it is the your responsibility to take care of them. Pedda kid taking care is a nice to have. May or may not workout. Should we take important decisions on a “maybe”? 

[DummyVariable]

11 minutes ago, Catalpha said:

You mean only thalli prema though, because a man should be doing his job, which is making money. 

No diverting topic 

[Catalpha]

10 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

No diverting topic 

Topic is about woman's career, no body cares about a man's career because he doesn't have a ticking biological clock. Ejaculation doesn't take as much effort as carrying a fetus.