Indian mentality- Pelli avvakapothey life spoil ani ela decide chestharu? Why pelli is considered so Important to us?

[Peddayana]

our society equates marriage and kids as one of the success criteria , eppatinuncho atlane undi

em cheptam

also , just because there is pressure you do not have to do anything you do not want to do , so its ultimately your decision

being single is really great imo

[Boomer]

Nijamga lol thread idhi..

[kaburlu]

Chaala taggindi compared to past. These days its becoming more acceptable.. but still a long way to go. It depends on close circle..

[kevinUsa]

Following

[chanchala]

@friesNfrappe manam pelli chesoni test cheddam.

nuvvu ye caste aithey, nenu kooda adhey caste mari potha

[kevinUsa]

1 minute ago, chanchala said:

@friesNfrappe manam pelli chesoni test cheddam.

nuvvu ye caste aithey, nenu kooda adhey caste mari potha

U mean gay

[chanchala]

Just now, kevinUsa said:

U mean gay

sure. why not. I have fcuked men before. in fact most people I fcuked are men.

[Chay]

7 hours ago, friesNfrappe said:

General question

 

Girls ki ekuva pressure e matter lo..

Vallaki vere topic undadhu... Once married within 1 yr subhavartha eppudu antaru... Then if a girl is born.. Abbai ni eppudu istav antaru... 

Basic ga uth kanipisthe matladdaniki vere em leka ila start sestaro ento

[veerigadu]

7 hours ago, friesNfrappe said:

Pakka thread lo pelli pillalu lekapothe life spoil ani veera uncle cheppadu so andhuke asking..

Pelli chesukokapothe no problem. But dont end up as a side bitchhhh like a tabu. Respect undadu ani na feeling she deserves much better than being a side bitccch to nag. 

[r2d2]

4 hours ago, chanchala said:

sure. why not. I have fcuked men before. in fact most people I fcuked are men.

OMG you sound like Andrew Gillum... 

[Ellen]

Peddaga logics em levu. Pelli avvakapote em aipotaro ani fear anthe...pillalu lekapote em aipotaro ani malli fear. It's all about FOMO.

Not marrying should be considered as normal as marrying. They can't accept the fact that happiness is NOT dependent on others. Epudu inkokallu untene happy untam ani oka wrong conditioning toh periginru. because of this, they are scared to live alone ..scared for their children that what happens if they live alone. That's why. 

But that is changing now, chala. Still relatives emankuntaro, neighbours emankuntaro ane batch is prevalent kani, I am seeing parents who are ok with these decisions. Kani mostly abbaillo seeing. Ammailaki inkonchem time padtadi le. 

 

 

[veerigadu]

3 minutes ago, Ellen said:

Peddaga logics em levu. Pelli avvakapote em aipotaro ani fear anthe...pillalu lekapote em aipotaro ani malli fear. It's all about FOMO.

Not marrying should be considered as normal as marrying. They can't accept the fact that happiness is NOT dependent on others. Epudu inkokallu untene happy untam ani oka wrong conditioning toh periginru. because of this, they are scared to live alone ..scared for their children that what happens if they live alone. That's why. 

But that is changing now, chala. Still relatives emankuntaro, neighbours emankuntaro ane batch is prevalent kani, I am seeing parents who are ok with these decisions. Kani mostly abbaillo seeing. Ammailaki inkonchem time padtadi le. 

 

 

Not marrying is either a sign of asexuality or promiscuity for both men and women. Either of them are critically judged by the soceity. 

I personally don't like marriage and I love having independence of leaving the releationship at any point. 

[Ellen]

10 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

Not marrying is either a sign of asexuality or promiscuity for both men and women. Either of them are critically judged by the soceity. 

I personally don't like marriage and I love having independence of leaving the releationship at any point. 

First point, I feel is a highly skewed observation. I've seen people deliberately practicing celibacy, despite not being asexual. There are some others who are highly individualistic and didn't like the idea of being tied to someone else as it may shake this very foundation. Chala mixed cases unnai. Hard to generalize it that way. 

 

[chanchala]

2 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

Not marrying is either a sign of asexuality or promiscuity for both men and women. Either of them are critically judged by the soceity. 

I personally don't like marriage and I love having independence of leaving the releationship at any point. 

leaving the relationship should be mutual. its pretty pathetic if one constantly leaves relationships when the the other person want to hang on. many people can be insensitive like that, and never learn to respect the other person.

not havng a relationship is best.

 

[chanchala]

1 minute ago, Ellen said:

Agree with your second point. Aah clarity leke janalu chala mandi anubandham peru toh BP lu sugar lu techeskuntaru avasaram lekunna 😁

adhi clarity kaadhu, in most cases its an entitlement and sexual predatory behaviour. sometimes even gas lighting the other person to make them think its their fault to fall in love with them when they were distant from the beginning.