Indian mentality- Pelli avvakapothey life spoil ani ela decide chestharu? Why pelli is considered so Important to us?

[chanchala]

do whatever, but don't hurt another person.

and if you do, atleast learn from it, and try not to repeat it.

the world is not your playground. people are not balls.

be single. be happy. hehe..

[Ellen]

1 minute ago, chanchala said:

adhi clarity kaadhu, in most cases its an entitlement and sexual predatory behaviour. sometimes even gas lighting the other person to make them think its their fault to fall in love with them when they were distant from the beginning.

May be he didn't mean randomly leaving by hurting the other person emo ankoni I seconded. Intha duram alochinchaledu. 

[chanchala]

Just now, Ellen said:

May be he didn't mean randomly leaving by hurting the other person emo ankoni I seconded. Intha duram alochinchaledu. 

he didn't mean anything. but in real life, this is how moving across relationships manifests itself.

too many people are left with a broken heart.

i think humans should atleast try to not hurt another human, if they cannot love them.

[chanchala]

2 minutes ago, Ellen said:

May be he didn't mean randomly leaving by hurting the other person emo ankoni I seconded. Intha duram alochinchaledu. 

Ellennnnnnnnnnnn!!!!! How are youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

eppudu lechavvvvv... marry meeeeeeeeeeeeee

[veerigadu]

6 minutes ago, chanchala said:

leaving the relationship should be mutual. its pretty pathetic if one constantly leaves relationships when the the other person want to hang on. many people can be insensitive like that, and never learn to respect the other person.

not havng a relationship is best.

 

But attraction and interest cannot be enforced. It's just a toss up. The other person should also just understand that it's ok for people to break up and move on. Instead of going insane. 

This world has so much to offer. One person not interested in releationship them is irrelevant. 

[Ellen]

Just now, chanchala said:

he didn't mean anything. but in real life, this is how moving across relationships manifests itself.

too many people are left with a broken heart.

i think humans should atleast try to not hurt another human, if they cannot love them.

Yea

[Ellen]

1 minute ago, chanchala said:

Ellennnnnnnnnnnn!!!!! How are youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

eppudu lechavvvvv... marry meeeeeeeeeeeeee

Pichi lesinda neeku?

[chanchala]

Just now, Ellen said:

Pichi lesinda neeku?

hehe... sorrrry.

[Dippindots]

1 minute ago, veerigadu said:

But attraction and interest cannot be enforced. It's just a toss up. The other person just understand that it's ok for people to break up and move on. Instead of going insane. 

This world has so much to offer. One person not interested in releationship them is irrelevant. 

this looks more like a fcuk buddy kind of agreement. what's the point of being in a relationship if you have to stay guarded all the time and also which might end with out a caution.

[LungiLingaraju]

Maa tammudu emo no Pelli ... naaku responsibilities vaddu antadu... parents emo pelli pelli .. cheskomanu ani nannu dobbutaru... vallaki cheppali 

[chanchala]

2 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

But attraction and interest cannot be enforced. It's just a toss up. The other person should also just understand that it's ok for people to break up and move on. Instead of going insane. 

This world has so much to offer. One person not interested in releationship them is irrelevant. 

yes. but most people invest in relationships, and get tricked into feeling that something special is going on...

that is manipulation kadha.

lots of guys promise the moon to sleep with girls, and then move on like nothing ever happened. its wrong.

[Ellen]

2 minutes ago, chanchala said:

hehe... sorrrry.

Don't eat weird food 🤣😂

[chanchala]

1 minute ago, Dippindots said:

this looks more like a fcuk buddy kind of agreement. what's the point of being in a relationship if you have to stay guarded all the time and also which might end with out a caution.

if both of them share that ideology, it should be fine.

but most often one person is heavily invested, and the other is just leeching off the relationship until he/she can move on.

[chanchala]

1 minute ago, Ellen said:

Don't eat weird food 🤣😂

sorrrry Ellen.. edho joke ki.. okay.. we friends still?

[LadiesTailor]

I think marriage anedi overrated.... India lo oka template vundi adi follow avvakapothe Edo theda la choostaru... 

I think it’s better to leave the getting married subject to individuals instead of parents... if one is not able to pick a partner of their own then parents can help...