Every husband should understand this

[Daaarling]

Every girl should try to select (Although it is not in our hands) a person as husband who value your thoughts, dreams and aspiration. 

 

One important factor that every husband must understand to be able to have a harmonious family life is about spheres of influence for the couple. 

 

Men usually have the propensity for controlling, but this should be used only outside the house. He may be controlling in his work, on his hobbies, etc. but at home, he should let the wife control things. The wife should be given the freedom to organize the house the way she likes, and even to tell the husband how he should eat and dress. The house is her kshetra, the place where she can manipulate matter and execute her activities, it's her sphere of influence. The function of the husband in this sphere is more to be attentive to the needs of the wife and the house and to provide what is needed. If this is observed, the family can flourish. If otherwise, the husband wants to control things at home, there will be conflict. How a man would few if his wife would try to control him at his work for example?

 

Another point about this is that in Vedic culture a man is just a guest in his house. The house belongs to the wife and children and he just stays there for part of his life, fulfilling his duties and preparing to accept the renounced order of life later on, when his family responsibilities are concluded. 

 

It may be hard to have to follow rules about what to dress, where to sit, where to sleep, how to use the toilet, etc. in his own house, but a man that follows that gains not only peace of mind at home but also have a chance of developing detachment that will lead him to higher spheres of spiritual advancement. Men that are too anxious to dominate and control just remain in this material world and get female bodies in their next life, where he may have a husband just like the one he is in this life.

[Sarvapindi]

asale repu monday ani edustunte endi va nee lolli....

[Spartan]

Every girl should try to select (Although it is not in our hands) a person as husband who value your thoughts, dreams and aspiration. 

 

how does she know..without spending enough time..

time spend chesi kanukunde anukno....pelli kosam acting chese vadi undochu ga...

appudu em chestaru..?

 

dani badalu...dorkinodi to ardham cheskuntu...vadiki kuda ardham ayettu jeevitam gadipeyochu ga..

[odhu_le_macha]

 em cheddam antav..

[odhu_le_macha]

Pichi mekaina undali from Maska movie 

[covid1990]

1 minute ago, odhu_le_macha said:

Pichi mekaina undali from Maska movie 

[k2s]

21 minutes ago, Spartan said:

Every girl should try to select (Although it is not in our hands) a person as husband who value your thoughts, dreams and aspiration. 

 

how does she know..without spending enough time..

time spend chesi kanukunde anukno....pelli kosam acting chese vadi undochu ga...

appudu em chestaru..?

 

dani badalu...dorkinodi to ardham cheskuntu...vadiki kuda ardham ayettu jeevitam gadipeyochu ga..

#HerChoice

[JustChill_Mama]

Ekkada etthukosthav ra isontivi... @whatsapp nunchena ?

[meri_zindagi]

manchi abbayilu is a myth

 

[Anta Assamey]

[Anais_nin]

I want to marry swara bhaskar.

deeply in love with her thoughts

[JustChill_Mama]

21 minutes ago, Anais_nin said:

I want to marry swara bhaskar.

deeply in love with her thoughts

Manchi Kudhamattamga untadhi ....

[Anais_nin]

Just now, JustChill_Mama said:

Manchi Kudhamattamga untadhi ....

Yeah

genuine person too

 

[DummyVariable]

34 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

manchi abbayilu is a myth

 

Fake news.

Manchi abbayilante enti?

[meri_zindagi]

6 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Fake news.

Manchi abbayilante enti?

Ade non existent abbayilaki use chese term