Obsessed with a beautiful girl 👧

[PilliBeta]

3 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Not wanting other people

What if two people agree to deal with each other, strong or weak? One person makes the other stronger?

[vishwavihar]

neeku eddado macha undi maccha ippi choosko anthe gani malla dani joliki poku bidda aagam aithav...

adi choosthe bekar munda laga undi

[Biskot2]

11 hours ago, toranam said:

#p30921-"DC: Bangalore, M/29
****Long Post****

Hi Guys, Need your help, Your suggestions can help me heal and change my life.

I am 29 years old, onsite for 3 years. Financially stable now and by God grace everything is fine with regards to my carrier.
My problem started when i met this girl in 2016. I don’t know why but i fell in love with her. She was extremely beautiful, joyful and a nice human. She worked in IT so all those things make me felt that she can be a perfect match for me. For all those years i kept myself obsessing with her thoughts, which resulted me in such a horrible condition as i am in today.

I chased her so much, that finally managed to win her heart. Even before she wasn’t mine, We went to so many trips together and made many good memories. She was in a bad relationship and finally brokeup with the guy and accepted my proposal.

It was like a dream come true. We had a fairy tale love story. I was so so happy and she was too. We were planning to get married this year but due to Covid I coudnt come to india and marriage was postponed. During the lockdown we had a huge fight because she use to talk to so many guys which made me kinda insecure. On top of that i also found some dirty secrets of her where she had a physical relationship with 4 other guys. While confronting she told me that because she was in a bad relationship in the past, and to overcome she just f***d these guys.

My only point was to stop talking to these guys including her ex. And i was ready to accept everything. She didn’t agree to anything and just brokeup with me. 

Because i was so obsessed to her, i coudnt move on. I took psychologist help but nothing helped. Taking counselling but its not helping. She is getting married to a new guy now, and when i call her she blames for everything. She talks for unlimited hours to the new guy and moved on so easily. Don’t know how people do that.

As a last chance, I thought of coming to india and meet her parents and convince them. But the other thought tells me to have some self respect. Her parents said they don’t wanna meet and nothing will change their decision. Don’t know what happened, why she treated me like for all these years and finally left me so easily. Although i had everything what a girl dreams off including very good looks. Please help!"

papam RIP his pain.

[Odale]

1 hour ago, vishwavihar said:

neeku eddado macha undi maccha ippi choosko anthe gani malla dani joliki poku bidda aagam aithav...

adi choosthe bekar munda laga undi

Mia melano better

[vishwavihar]

1 hour ago, Odale said:

Mia melano better

all mia s good

[friesNfrappe]

Im obsessed with food

em cheyali?

[DummyVariable]

On 10/8/2020 at 2:59 AM, PilliBeta said:

What if two people agree to deal with each other, strong or weak? One person makes the other stronger?

Other people are overrated. No one is worth so much of your energies.

[PilliBeta]

1 hour ago, DummyVariable said:

Other people are overrated. No one is worth so much of your energies.

If you meet the right one, they make you stronger. 

[Odale]

22 hours ago, friesNfrappe said:

Im obsessed with food

em cheyali?

Lunchtime ki vellu

[DummyVariable]

12 hours ago, PilliBeta said:

If you meet the right one, they make you stronger. 

“Make you stronger” in the sense that you stop being “obsessed” over other people? 

[PilliBeta]

27 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

“Make you stronger” in the sense that you stop being “obsessed” over other people? 

It's possible, I personally became less insecure, and care less about what others think. Doesn't that make me stronger?

[kevinUsa]

Bro Ee db page di

[Bongu..Boshanam]

Bokka le.. aa 3-4 tho physical relationship unna evidence lu new guy ki chupiste, everyone will come back to reality. Thokkalo job malli vastadi, mahaa aithe konchem late avudhi. Emotional regret undodhu life la. Chal hut.. wht d f r u dng in db / onsite.. #checkmate.