No friends

[PilliBeta]

I have no real close friendships. Sure, I know people. At some points I thought we were friends. But honestly, none of those friendships survived. I do my best to reach out and keep in touch, get closer, hang out.. but it's not mutual, sometimes I don't even get a text back, so at some point I cross those people off. Or they'd have an event/trip and not invite me, so I obviously get offended and distance myself. It feels like I'm the only one who has no friends. Who's left out. Who's not liked. Who's misunderstood.

Am I the only one? Did anyone find good coping mechanism to not let the rejection and loneliness get to you?

For the record, I do have close relationships with my family and partner. Friendships never last though for more than a couple of years till they take a turn as described, where I feel like I need to walk away because there isn't a real friendship.

[ChinnaBhasha]

dblo laga vignana pradarshana chestavemo vallatho kuda, anduke jump ainaru andaru 😀

[No_body_friends]

3 minutes ago, PilliBeta said:

I have no real close friendships. Sure, I know people. At some points I thought we were friends. But honestly, none of those friendships survived. I do my best to reach out and keep in touch, get closer, hang out.. but it's not mutual, sometimes I don't even get a text back, so at some point I cross those people off. Or they'd have an event/trip and not invite me, so I obviously get offended and distance myself. It feels like I'm the only one who has no friends. Who's left out. Who's not liked. Who's misunderstood.

Am I the only one? Did anyone find good coping mechanism to not let the rejection and loneliness get to you?

For the record, I do have close relationships with my family and partner. Friendships never last though for more than a couple of years till they take a turn as described, where I feel like I need to walk away because there isn't a real friendship.

@No_body_friends in my @friends @circle 

[DummyVariable]

You need to be stupid to have good friends

[tokkalogola]

Dont do vignana pradarshana..ppl dont like..usually everyone know everything..😁  see vignana pradarshana..cant stop damit

[sri_sri999]

32 minutes ago, PilliBeta said:

I have no real close friendships. Sure, I know people. At some points I thought we were friends. But honestly, none of those friendships survived. I do my best to reach out and keep in touch, get closer, hang out.. but it's not mutual, sometimes I don't even get a text back, so at some point I cross those people off. Or they'd have an event/trip and not invite me, so I obviously get offended and distance myself. It feels like I'm the only one who has no friends. Who's left out. Who's not liked. Who's misunderstood.

Am I the only one? Did anyone find good coping mechanism to not let the rejection and loneliness get to you?

For the record, I do have close relationships with my family and partner. Friendships never last though for more than a couple of years till they take a turn as described, where I feel like I need to walk away because there isn't a real friendship.

Friendshiplu eedo asinchii chesthe aadi friendship anaru bayya ayina bachelors or masters friends ante ok but neeku childwood friends kuda lera? oka veela childwood friends kuda leru antee (Eppudu kuda touch lo)  to say bayya nevvu pedda item sale gadivi

[procrastinator4life]

The reason they say it gets hard to find true friendships as you age is because we are matured and get easily offended to anything and everything. 

 

P.S I will come back and add more points here later.

[Scada]

😯

[Dippindots]

6 minutes ago, Scada said:

😯

why did you edit. It was funny

[Anta Assamey]

Make your Husband friends and as yours ... Solved...

[Dippindots]

57 minutes ago, PilliBeta said:

I have no real close friendships. Sure, I know people. At some points I thought we were friends. But honestly, none of those friendships survived. I do my best to reach out and keep in touch, get closer, hang out.. but it's not mutual, sometimes I don't even get a text back, so at some point I cross those people off. Or they'd have an event/trip and not invite me, so I obviously get offended and distance myself. It feels like I'm the only one who has no friends. Who's left out. Who's not liked. Who's misunderstood.

Am I the only one? Did anyone find good coping mechanism to not let the rejection and loneliness get to you?

For the record, I do have close relationships with my family and partner. Friendships never last though for more than a couple of years till they take a turn as described, where I feel like I need to walk away because there isn't a real friendship.

Don't expect to be included or invited for everything. I used to be that way in my early 20's. Don't expect true friendships too. 

Just have a group to socialize occasionally. True friends would be limited only. Not every friend would donate a kidney or liver (Selena ki laga)

After a certain age, it's hard to find true friendships. People have their own priorities. 

[Hungry_DinoBaby]

I don’t have many frnds becoz i take 75% of the cake in the parties we have together

 

[Dippindots]

12 minutes ago, Hungry_DinoBaby said:

I don’t have many frnds becoz i take 75% of the cake in the parties we have together

 

may be we would have fought each other if we're in the same group 

[Barney_Stinson]

friendship is overrated n dramatized more

[Scada]

46 minutes ago, Dippindots said:

why did you edit. It was funny

I thought this one was real and not from blind app